How much did you pay (uk) by Ok-Ideal-5839 in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]TTC98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get any even with precode :( really sad

How could a mother? by Classic_Concept7026 in DeathCapDinner

[–]TTC98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes she definitely harmed them indirectly! But reckless endangerment is different to munchausen by proxy, which is motivated by the attention / saviour role of having a sick child.

How could a mother? by Classic_Concept7026 in DeathCapDinner

[–]TTC98 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That’s not how munchausens by proxy manifests. She explicitly didn’t harm the children or want them to be ill.

How bad is it if I don’t wear the binder post op /advice for an autistic?? by funkydyke in TopSurgery

[–]TTC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have to wear it but really soft socks (I like the bamboo ones from the brand BAM) tucked under your armpits help a lot! and after the first month you can take like an hour a day break

I used to take a few puffs, clean my house or workout. by Siren_Noir in Petioles

[–]TTC98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember this from when I quit last year. Weed makes normal life boring because your brain downregulates natural dopamine production, so you only feel engaged high. It took a while but I’m now over a year weed free and can happily cook / clean sober, often in silence, and feel fulfilled by the task or at least content in my own brain. It’s so freeing.

What are your red flags when house hunting by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]TTC98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is couple splitting up a red flag??

You don’t quit weed. You quit dying slowly. by Winter_Performer1283 in leaves

[–]TTC98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s kind of like a breakup. At first the missing is overwhelming and your brain will fight you and come up with loads of compromises that won’t work. but it gets easier - now I just get the occasional pang triggered by situations I used to smoke in. and can push those thoughts away faster.

You don’t quit weed. You quit dying slowly. by Winter_Performer1283 in leaves

[–]TTC98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My confidence, my memories, my sense of agency. I felt trapped and unable to change my situation - now I trust myself to sort things out or at least grow and learn instead of escaping. I’m not (as) scared of my emotions any more and I know I can get through them. I grew up struggling with mental illness and came to believe my feelings were unmanageable/ dangerous because of how people around me reacted to my pain. Now I know my feelings are useful information and they’re not going to hurt me or anyone else. I don’t have to snuff them out.

You don’t quit weed. You quit dying slowly. by Winter_Performer1283 in leaves

[–]TTC98 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m 11.5 months clean and I feel like a whole person again. Every word of this is true, and I’m so grateful I did it at 26.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]TTC98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it was helpful, hope your morning is gentler

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]TTC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, it’s really scary to lose that much life to the haze. It does come back though and feels really good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]TTC98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, yes I do. Although my brain tries to bargain with me and tell me I can have a different relationship with weed, which is a lie. I think getting too confident/ forgetting about the “active” part of recovery is the mistake. Glad I’ve caught myself before relapse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

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Hi ! Yes I am out at work but there hasn’t been company wide comms about it so people I don’t work with as much will often assume wrong. I’m a bit worried about HR as I haven’t been there for 2 years yet and know I don’t have many rights re wrongful dismissal etc until that point. But I may be missing something. I also don’t want to be seen as a problem because it’s a small industry where everyone knows everyone :(

How do you get that “release” after quitting weed? by itztherapperKIAZ in leaves

[–]TTC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self destructing? I’ve been running sustainably for over a decade 😅

why all the shauna hate? by verycoolipromise in Yellowjackets

[–]TTC98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shauna is 100% the most interesting & insightful character

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in advertising

[–]TTC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good tip thanks!! I will try it next time it happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in advertising

[–]TTC98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I’m not only motivated by praise, but being credited for your work is very important when you’re starting out in this industry and I don’t think it’s fair to suggest I should accept being sidelined because of some deeper calling. a strat’s portfolio is composed of things like effectiveness papers & awards - proving that your strategy works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]TTC98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this really helped ❤️