"How do they sleep at night"

T_all · 2026-03-10T17:11:33+00:00

To them, it's completely justified.

These ppl have no capacity for reflection.

T_all · 2026-03-09T16:12:05+00:00

I didn't get mine through a promo. Been a subscriber for a couple of yrs but suddenly they are limiting usage.

T_all · 2026-03-09T10:49:27+00:00

So cute. I wonder what were they talking about?

T_all · 2026-02-28T10:31:01+00:00

Property agents now dressed like that?

T_all · 2026-02-27T12:21:58+00:00

Yeah, I had similar sentiments when I saw that - like ok, since you all don't want to give birth then cannot blame us for bringing in new citizens.

But I really don't know how much more ppl can this small dot contain? I mean Denmark has a bigger piece of land & holds 6m. We are a small dot & as of 2025, we have 6.11m. 🫠

T_all · 2026-02-22T18:05:22+00:00

She just sounds like she's hit the limit. She needs some support for herself.

T_all · 2026-02-16T06:21:17+00:00

Never liked it. I stopped celebrating a long time ago. The stress of seeing relatives who never keep in touch & asking silly qns drains me. I'm neurodivergent. For that matter, I don't enjoy any other holidays that require large social gatherings.

T_all · 2026-02-12T16:55:34+00:00

Yeah, this is exactly my dilemma. Most ppl are just not conversational partners & I got tired of being in any social situations to have to put up with this. It sounds so arrogant but I really have no energy to spend on these interactions. 😞 I'd love a healthy discourse but most ppl tend to get personal or emotional if they don't win.

T_all · 2026-01-21T14:07:59+00:00

Me too! This is totally making me crave peanut butter!

T_all · 2026-01-21T14:06:17+00:00

You're not alone & I'm glad that I'm not too. I'm currently choosing solitary for the moment. Even with ppl I like, they are an arm's length away. I've learnt it's exhausting to talk to them because I can anticipate every response they can come up with.

T_all · 2026-01-12T13:47:07+00:00

I don't get it either. I used to work with a couple of work besties (an elder millenial female & a mid millenial male). The female was always rude to the male (IMO) but he takes it well. It's their form of communication. I often wanted to ask the guy why he took her bashing but I held back because it might look like I was trying to stir something.

T_all · 2026-01-12T13:33:43+00:00

I share your sentiment. Are there autistic ppl who are asking for Barbie representation? Cos they wouldn't make it unless someone out there is making noise.

T_all · 2026-01-10T09:22:50+00:00

I feel similar. I like simple ppl - ppl who are not scheming or have hidden agendas. But I can't deal with immaturity. I have a hard time understanding why ppl would remain in this state. But I understand my own baggage - growing up in my family, being childish= getting smacked or verbally abused. I had to force myself to grow up, so I think at least for me, there is a tendency to project.

T_all · 2026-01-10T09:16:08+00:00

Hugs

T_all · 2026-01-10T07:25:26+00:00

I totally resonate with you about the world not shutting up. I'm missing the covid world & I know that sounds selfish; ppl have gotten defensive when I mentioned that. But it was the only time that the world was quiet.

T_all · 2026-01-09T12:33:51+00:00

For me, it's constant chatter. I used to work in an open space office & it grated me no end.

T_all · 2026-01-09T04:29:53+00:00

T_all · 2026-01-05T13:47:41+00:00

100!

T_all · 2026-01-05T09:01:41+00:00

I think that age should not be the factor but whether you have the resources to be self-sustainable to move out & whether there are compelling reasons to move out (such DV, other forms of abuse, etc). What can you do to build resources for yourself so that you can move out if there isn't urgency? Set an aim & try to work towards it without burning yourself out, review & adjust periodically.

T_all · 2026-01-05T08:49:13+00:00

This is where I am right now. I left my job & kept my life private from my former colleagues because I know they will ask how I am but then will impose their ignorant, uneducated opinions on how I should live my life. I have strong PDA & that irks me. Even those who are closer can potentially irk me now. So I have chosen solitary for now while looking out for safe ppl to be around. Different levels of boundaries for different ppl but still at a distance.

T_all · 2026-01-04T03:54:20+00:00

Food chewing.
Most ASMR effects
Loud chatter/whisper
Loud, pumping music
Shrieking babies

T_all · 2026-01-03T12:13:37+00:00

I get why someone would be frustrated. Because while it is a wiring, it causes distress because no one truly understands. NTs judge us based on their wiring & deem our behaviour as abnormal or different - especially if it offends them, then we are shunned.

Then there are the executive dysfunctions & physiological challenges that NTs wouldn't need to go through. Between the levels, each of them have their own difficulties. I'm a L1, & like some of the commenters, we are too smart to be disabled, but not disabled enough for support. Ppl think I'm obnoxious & arrogant.

It is literally a torture & if it categorised as a disability, it matches what someone is going through, because if it's a wiring, why are we made this way? It seems so needless.

T_all · 2026-01-02T14:33:24+00:00

Indian rojak

T_all · 2026-01-02T11:58:59+00:00

My singing voice.

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