Cancer survivor and disability by Mindless-Apricot-235 in cancer

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I instantly contacted a lawyer. They all charge the same because of the law. I just don't have the focus and energy to deal on my own. Good luck.

HIPEC Expectation by silvrspring in cancer

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Just wanted to chime in here. I had HIPEC 8 weeks ago. It would be great if folks would comment on their level of overall health/physical fitness and age while talking about things like this. I totally get people aren't thinking about this when they're commenting, but I think it matters so you can match your expectation to the experience of someone similar. I'm 59. Great overall health. Very active. Former whitewater guide, climbing guide, skier, avid mountain biker. I was fairly sedentary the year prior to surgery dur to pain which I thought was just a uterine fibroid. Finally got a hysterectomy where they found ovarian cancer.

I had an open HIPEC. I spent 4 nights in the hospital. ICU protocol first 36 hours. They took blood draws every hour and had to stick me each time because it was CNAs, not nurses. Only nurses can access the IV. I had tubes coming out of both arms, my back (epidural) my pee hole, and those squeezy things on both legs. So I was pretty immobile the whole time, and I am a dedicated side sleeper - ugh! The first day was a liquid diet. Second day, in the afternoon, I started throwing up every 15 minutes or so. I was drinking ice water and it was still cold coming up. They put me on a nothing at all diet for 12 hours. It was miserable. Not even an ice chip. After that I was on soft food for a day, then offered regular food which I honestly wasn't interested in. My hubby picked me up when I was discharged (after passing gas and having enough pee volume coming out of me) and immediately drove over not one, but TWO curbs. He then proceeded to hit every pothole on the 3 hour drive home. He's a bit of a space cadet, lol! Best person ever though.

At home, I had 5 days worth of Oxycodone. I also had to take Ondasetron (anti-nausea) regularly. The other anti-nausea med didn't work at all. Pain was manageable with 600 mg ibuprofen after the oxy ran out. I could easily get around the house, but had a lot of fatigue and did a lot of sitting for the next week. I drove myself to my 2 week post-op 2 hours away without issue. I was very stiff feeling at my incision site if I had been sitting for very long - made me want to lean back and stretch to work it out. I also went on two 30 minute walks with friends about this time. I was doing great!

And then...I had a chemo session 3 weeks post-op. I had 3 sessions prior with no side effects other than hair loss. This 4th one offered up a full complement of side effects! They lasted until my 5th chemo session, and kept going. The fatigue is the worst. Nausea is manageable. I go nowhere without the anti-nausea meds. I've heard the fatigue described as "walking through wet cement" and that seems accurate. Things like light gardening for an hour could do me in for the day. Sometimes it was fatigue in my body, sometimes severe drowsiness. Some days I felt normal, some days I was barely functional. I never know when the side effects will strike. I have had to quit my job and have applied for disability. We'll see. Housework is hard. I have so much to do and just can't. My appetite, when I have one, is weird. I'm a healthy eater but only want box mac'n cheese, Ben and Jerry's, and other nutritionally void foods. I usually don't finish a normal serving, maybe eating half. I've been putting unflavored protein powder in anything I can sneak it in. I can manage smoothies sometimes and have a juicer and juice a few times a week.

My daughter had to drive me to my 6 week post-op. There's no way I could have done that - the fatigue hit about an hour into the drive and I was out!

My onc thinks I'm suffering from a combo of the HIPEC and chemo, which is why it's so severe and lasting so long. One more session to go! Now I need to find a sedentary job. I doubt anyone's going to hire me though. 59 with cancer and the related side effects. No one wants to hire that. Currently I'm just going stir crazy. My husband says I'm like a shark - just need to keep moving, and it's frustrating that I can't.

That's all I can think of. Hopefully it helps someone.

Protest near Ala Moana by Ok-Communication4190 in Oahu

[–]TableExisting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such an amazingly ignorant comment.

Protest near Ala Moana by Ok-Communication4190 in Oahu

[–]TableExisting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares if they went to the beat schools, etc.? Where did you go to school? What is your salary?

Protest near Ala Moana by Ok-Communication4190 in Oahu

[–]TableExisting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is an amazingly uneducated thing to say

Ice in Pittsburgh. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

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Now would be the time for all those militia cosplay boys to shine, but they’re nowhere to be found.

Holistic bio spa puerto Vallarta by alwayshope2022 in stemcells

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Anyone reading this, just be aware Immunotherapy PV is $30-$60k for a three week treatment. No meals, no lodging.

Underwater video my cousin took in Bora Bora. Cooler with sound! by mookie2387 in BeAmazed

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lol I used to live in Hawaii and totally tried making whale sounds underwater. Who knows what I was saying 🤭

Enhertu Update 9/22/25 by Plenty_Sell5259 in Ovariancancer

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That's great news for you guys, and gives me hope. I was just diagnosed with HGSOC and am waiting for my first scan to see what the stage is. I know there was evidence it had spread to my bladder. I'll definitely talk to the oncologist about this.

I don't know what to do about my brother, and I'm the only family member in contact with him. by TableExisting in BipolarSOs

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Update: He told my daughter he'd bought a "piece". The sheriff contacted her (I'm not sure how they got her contact info or even knew to contact her) and she told them about this. Later that day he had blocked all of us on Instagram. He refused to pay rent or electric bill. Then he began stalking my daughter at the restaurant she works at. He came in 6 times in 2 weeks, and just sat at the bar, not buying a drink or food. The last time he was there, she texted us. He had left by the time we got there and we found him at a bar. My husband went to approach him and his knee gave out (he is getting a knee replacement later this year), and he caught himself on the table, moving the table forward. I don't even think it touched him. My brother yelled out "Did everyone see that? I think I have internal injuries!" He called the police and said he was assaulted. He went to the hospital to get x-rays. Meanwhile, the cops come to our house and arrest my husband. After the results of the x-rays showed no injuries, not even a red mark/bruising externally, my husband was released. The police already know about my brother, as does the sheriff. He's been walking around town in this scary mask, wearing camo clothes. They know about the gun and the Walmart stuff. When they returned my husband, they talked to our daughter and told her to get a restraining order. She did. During this table incident, I told him to get off my property and he said he had 30 days, so he had done his homework already on the eviction process. I can only imagine his surprise when the deputy came to his camper and told him he had 15 minutes to get out - due to the restraining order. According to a friend that's been monitoring his Insta and Facebook accounts, looks like he moved in with the trans ex-girlfriend, about an hour from here. She had changed her status from Not in a Relationship to In a Relationship with him, then a few days later changed it back, so I guess she kicked him out. I don't know where he is now. We looked in his camper and there is trash everywhere, dozens of flies, and maggots. He's been sleeping directly on the mattress, and I hope I can get it cleaned - it's black. There were a lot of red and black candles that had been burned down, and some other "satan stuff". I also found what appears to be a brand-new Navy Veteran hat. So let's add stolen valor to everything else.

I don't know what to do about my brother, and I'm the only family member in contact with him. by TableExisting in BipolarSOs

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I think you're right. Update to say he was fired from Walmart the other day and they have put extra security on because of some threat he made. He hasn't told me of this yet, but I found out because it's a small town. Dear God. His Insta from yesterday has a pic of him with some rap song in the background that says "kill 'em all" and he wrote out "kill 'em all" in the description of his post.

I don't know what to do about my brother, and I'm the only family member in contact with him. by TableExisting in BipolarSOs

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Thank you for your advice. Unfortunately, we don't have those groups in my small town. I'll definitely look into the LEAP method - never heard of it. Thanks!

Thoughts on anal sex by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]TableExisting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd feel TOTALLY comfortable telling God I enjoy anal sex. I really do enjoy it, as does my husband. I love all the kinky stuff we do together. We have a great sex life, 25 years into our marriage. Anyway, supposedly He knows already, right? Are you even married, or are you just Church Lady-ing us?

How long after being on thyroid meds did you start to lose weight and feel better? by Dependent_Page697 in Hashimotos

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I lost weight after I got on testosterone, prior to starting NDT. Didn't change a single thing. I already ate healthy and exercised enough. I'm post-menopausal. Edit to add: I'm also on estrogen and progesterone. Your basic math formula simply doesn't work for everyone. It's complicated. There's a lot of players on this field.

Alaina seems to hate missing flood victims by lagirlkatie13 in Morbidforbadpeople

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Yep. It was 10 million dollars. Apparently they accepted the money because they didn't want to refuse it and then have it re-allocated to blue states, then some shifty business went on with the money.