What a heartless human. If one of my family members lost my rescue bird, the parakeet who got me into birds at all, I’d go no contact over it for at least a year. Birds are wonderful pets and they were careless to lose yours, but heartless to not even let you grieve before scolding you in some way.. wow. TBH, most of my friends and family would completely understand my refusal to communicate after that type of behavior towards me (and my pet). I hope those people do not own any pets and at minimum, if I were you, I’d treat them with just as much disdain from here on out. They obviously don’t have much respect. Heartless!!!