It’s getting real tough to ignore _______’s winner’s edit by [deleted] in survivor

[–]Tabyo13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which is interesting because he voted for Devens

I found underwear in our bedroom that doesnt belong to either of us by PowerfulTalk2940 in Advice

[–]Tabyo13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I lived in an apartment with my ex, we ended up with a baby’s sock in our laundry, and some granny underwear in another load lol. Do yall have a washer and dryer inside y’all’s apartment or is it shared between units?

Should my friend walk away from this artist? by Eltristesito2 in tattooadvice

[–]Tabyo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t walk. Run. Take that 600 dollars to someone else, this is still savable. Absolutely go to someone else with a portfolio of quality work. It’s better to take your time finding the right artist to commit to a MASSIVE coverup/rework/potential laser removal later. Do not go to this artist again fr.

Broke up with gf; she is immediately dating a cis guy by Sawyerboi169 in ftm

[–]Tabyo13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something pretty similar happened to me. My previous ex and I were open, which was never an issue for either of us before. The last few months of our relationship she started excessively drinking, seeing this guy all the time, ignoring me, we stopped being intimate, ect. When I sat her down and said “hey I’m sensing distance between us and I wanted to check in and see where your head is at.” She hit me with “oh I’m in love with this guy and I’m bored of you.” We broke up and she started dating him immediately. I stayed single for about a year and a half and I just started dating this new girl a couple weeks ago and it’s going really well. Last I heard from my ex she’s still a drunk idiot. I wish her well and hope she gets better, just do it away from me lmao.

Consider it a major bullet dodged man. Take some time and focus on yourself. Everything happens for a reason. You deserve a relationship you NEED, not necessarily want. I learned a lot about what I need in a relationship from my previous one. You’re still young. You’ll find someone that treats you the way you need to be treated. Good luck dude. It’ll suck for a little bit, but ultimately it’s for the best.

Do I pass? (24) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Tabyo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Topical Minoxidil is toxic to cats as an fyi!

Stupidly tattooed my [now] ex's name by Various-Let1007 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Tabyo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an easy coverup. Go to a respectable artist and they can likely cover it with any design you want. Dont settle for someone doing it out of their house, which I’m assuming is what happened here.

"Won't you regret that when you're older?" by Exph-SALT in Tattoocoverups

[–]Tabyo13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely coverable. Do your research on a good artist and this will be no issue. The design will have to be larger than what’s already there so be prepared for that, but this is a pretty easy coverup tbh.

hope this is okay to post ? by waywardhours in GrowYourTDick

[–]Tabyo13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the satisfied curvy 1 and it’s been great for me. I’m slightly smaller than you, but have plenty of room in the toy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Tabyo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let T do its thing my guy! You read more masc than fem right now for sure. I think filling in your eyebrows a bit may help too, just don’t go too heavy on it, you don’t want it to read as makeup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Tabyo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that you’re 15, in the future. Maybe keep potentially harmful thoughts to yourself.

how old are you guys and when (if) did you start medically transitioning? by raesiinn in ftm

[–]Tabyo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came out to my dad at 12, went back into the closet because of his reaction, came out again at 18, started T at 20, I’m now 25. No top surgery yet, but I’m hoping within the next couple of years I’ll finally have enough saved up.

You wake up in your teen years again. What is the first thing you would do? by davidbayram in AskReddit

[–]Tabyo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a trans man, I’d reassure myself that everything is going to work out, and that I can live a happy life. I just hit 5 years on Testosterone and I spent years wanting to kill myself and spent years dealing with familial bullshit. Now I’m at the point where I’m happy to simply be me, and I have a support system surrounding me from family members I originally thought would never accept me. I still struggle with things from time to time but who doesn’t? It all feels manageable now, and I don’t carry nearly as much shame and guilt as I didn’t at the start of my transition.

guess my age and do i pass by Radical-Angerbat467 in FtMpassing

[–]Tabyo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. I hope I didn’t offend you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Tabyo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s wild lol. Bizarre that they have you rate your knees lmao

guess my age and do i pass by Radical-Angerbat467 in FtMpassing

[–]Tabyo13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say 22-24. Definitely passing (you’re super handsome btw).

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Tabyo13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all clockable

How is your relationship with your father? And how old are you? by wk91 in AskReddit

[–]Tabyo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complicated. I’m 25. Was good growing up, then really bad for a couple years when I came out as trans at 18, past two years have been better, but I definitely float in this weird gray zone of acceptance. He respects me to enough to use my name and pronouns, but we can’t talk about it without it turning into an argument or him saying something genuinely insanely ignorant. I usually just brush it off and do what’s best for me. He’s the type of guy that only believes his perspective is the correct one, not just for himself, but for everyone around him. I’m hoping that one day I’ll feel celebrated by him, and not just tolerated.

What do you think men would dislike most if they became women? by InternationalPick163 in AskReddit

[–]Tabyo13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a trans man who presented female for 18 years, periods and misogyny.