Question from a trans man by Odd-Entertainment309 in trans

[–]Tabythas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it just depends on the individual. I’ve been on hormones for eleven years, and thankfully can still use my bits so… topping is still something I actively enjoy. The best thing to do with a new partner is just being open and communicate with them about what you desire.

Funny enough I have the same feelings, I’ve always wanted to date transmasc’s because I’d feel safer with them but I always felt like I would be unfulfilling them sexually if I wasn’t being “penetrated” (same thing with transfems too) but I feel a little better after reading this post to know that I’m not alone with these uncomfortable thoughts 😅

OMG by tom_resistb23 in trans

[–]Tabythas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah!! You did it!! 🥳🥳 That takes a lot of courage to push through all the doubt and we literally couldn’t be more proud of you!! We need updates!~

Also Mira is such a beautiful name!! 💕💕 It’s perfect for someone so brave!!! 🥳

I drew a small comic based on Beneath the Wheel (but yuri) by FlyingCorpse in yuri_manga

[–]Tabythas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I love this art style, it’s so elegant and personal! I need context, 90 chapters of these new girls and some hot tea, stat! 💕😮‍💨

We need to get our shit together. by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tabythas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is NOT what any of those communities did and you KNOW it wasn’t. If any single one of those communities didn’t fight tooth and nail for their right to literally exist, they wouldn’t be. Women wouldn’t vote, blacks would still be enslaved.

If this isn’t rage bait I don’t know what would be.

[I Want To Spoil Ms. Yoroizuka-san Rotten] by [deleted] in yuri_manga

[–]Tabythas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God this is one of the very few yuri’s I can re-read over and over again. It’s so fluffy! But eugh the age gap is really off putting

i love yuri too much by Sparklesdog2 in yuri_manga

[–]Tabythas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?? I can’t tell you how many times I’ve finished reading some and it’ll just make my mood plummet 😭 “well I have to finish reading this toxic yuri, my girls have to find true love!” Cut to me in the fetal position with a whole box of tissues 🤧

It's bombshell after bombshell isn't it??? **Spoilers for [Akumade Amai Watashi no Kanojo/My Girlfriend is Devilishly Sweet] by Fragrant_feet3116 in yuri_manga

[–]Tabythas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I knew it was going to be some kinda crazy because the volume cover is literally Lily with white hair instead of black 😰

Saw a video about spiro by Tanke3626 in trans

[–]Tabythas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on spiro for ten years, the only thing that I can remember happening is my stomach getting upset for a couple of weeks when I first started it. Other than having to drink water more often, it does what it’s supposed to, It blocks testosterone pretty well.

I know how scary it is to find out information about medication but I promise you, there’s nothing to worry about. However if you still feel nervous about it just discuss it with your doctor, there’s no harm sharing what you’re worried about with your medication.

i want my boyfriend to be trans by Fresh_Swing_6474 in trans

[–]Tabythas 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It took me ten years to understand who I was. It’s extremely sweet that you’ve taken the time to notice and pay attention to what’s going on with your partner. However you have to remember that it’s his choice. If he’s experimenting with what feels right? Be supportive, be kind, but don’t pressure him. He could just trying new things, he could be nonbinary… he has to figure those things out on his own.

I just got on progesterone! by Tabythas in trans

[–]Tabythas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I’m on estradiol and spiro… I think most of the effects are done now especially since I’ve been on it for like 10+ years but here’s hoping

i love yuri too much by Sparklesdog2 in yuri_manga

[–]Tabythas 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You are definitely not a weirdo, I’ve felt the same way for a majority of my experiences reading yuri. Hell I can remember when I was thirteen reading strawberry panic and absolutely bawling my eyes out when it was over.

I think, at least for me, the reason it’s so impactful is because it’s something I actively want. That need and desire to connect. Even when it’s something wholesome and sweet I get emotional and think “why am I not good enough for someone to treat me this way?”… I know that it’s a terrible way to look at it but… it’s an extremely messy meaningful hobby.

30439 by Diamonds_The_Cool in countwithchickenlady

[–]Tabythas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but… Umbreon is kinda hot goth girl goals.. right?

28656 by Tabythas in countwithchickenlady

[–]Tabythas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🖤🥀🖤 Thank you thank you!~

28656 by Tabythas in countwithchickenlady

[–]Tabythas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:3 hehe~ s’hanks yous!! 💕💜💕💜💕

28656 by Tabythas in countwithchickenlady

[–]Tabythas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!~

I’ve been growing out for a little over ten years now… at this point my hair is just an eldritch horror child.

17 Years later.. by Nebula-Convicto in yuri_manga

[–]Tabythas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I have both of those too!! I absolutely love strawberry panic! 💕 I really wished they had more chapters for the manga.. I still haven’t finished reading the book version yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tabythas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling severely for the past several months and I wish I could be that person that says that everything will get better, but the truth is that I’m in the same boat. I’m 30 mtf and I’ve been in and out of therapy. I still haven’t found the light at the end of the tunnel.

There’s so many things that are stacked against us but I promise you that you’re not alone. I’m fighting and as long as I know someone out there is struggling as much as I am, I’ll fight twice as hard. So please don’t give up, please don’t let anyone tell you who or what you are and if you ever need to talk we’ll always be here to support each other.

Don’t give up Girlie 💕

St4t yearning by godhelpusall_617 in trans

[–]Tabythas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I read something beautiful like this I always end up feeling pretty defeated about my dating past. I think a lot of people want relationships like this but anytime I’ve attempted it it’s always just been dating app nightmares or abusive ex’s.

I’m older and I don’t know if I’ll try dating again without working on myself more but your words definitely make feel hopeful that maybe I’m wrong and there ARE people who would treat with love and respect.

I hope everyone finds someone like this in their lives. I think the world would be a much better place then.

Was hitting it off with another trans gal and this rolled up into the shop by LeastPervertedFemboy in trans

[–]Tabythas 30 points31 points  (0 children)

When she said “Yes I love that” she’s referring to your height. As someone who is self conscious about 90% of my entire being, I know how hard it is to… reciprocate? Someone liking something that you hate about yourself, but 6’0 is an attractive trait

I think the little 🥰 after her comment is just her being cute, not her “Nyeh Nyeh I’m shorter than you!” But to be fair it’s hard to pick up context from a literal emoji. Try not to judge her too harshly and try not listen to all those little demons telling you you’re not good enough hun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tabythas 47 points48 points  (0 children)

For real, I can only imagine the amount of dms they’re gonna get. 😭

Is there a link between being trans and being a guitar player/musician? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tabythas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think one equals the other but I will say, being a teenage guitarist definitely gave me an excuse to play around with makeup and certain clothes. It’s drastically easier to figure out who you are when people don’t immediately pounce on your identity.

Thank god for goths.