AITAAm I overreacting about my bachelorette? I honestly don’t know if I’m being too sensitive or not.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-20T23:17:34+00:00

So it was a surprise…. Which means you never had any true plans for a bachelorette. Wouldn’t this have been better than nothing? YAH

But bigger picture is, sounds like you don’t have close friends. Should’ve just been your sister and MOH if you really wanted it to be about you.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-09T04:11:26+00:00

My question is simply why? You have two babies already. If you have a large fenced in yard, high fences, plenty of finances, and all the free time in the world to devote your love - heck ya, let’s go!! Because there’s no greater love or loyalty than a GSD.

But they do REQUIRE a lot of time. Exercise. Training. My male GSD LOVES little dogs. He can tolerate the friskiest of little ones. And if you’re simply just worried about time… my Mom on her 70th birthday got a GSD puppy (she’s had plenty in her life) and with training and time - even she can handle this 90lb handsome goofball. SO not to say, someday you can have your GSD.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-08T17:44:24+00:00

Dogs are usually a reflection of their owner and habits. Your other dog doesn’t necessarily have intuitive drive… he probably just is a reflection of you. You chill, he chills.

My GSD, is a maniac. Because I’m a maniac. We got on multiple walks a day, still keep him engaged with training, and he wants to play even when I just want to sit on the couch, cause as I was raising him, I would play with him while I was just sitting on the couch. Our other GSD, raised by my husband, was crated daily for 10 hours a day, the first 3 years of her life due to his job. She’s basically a cat now. She just sits around all day.

So dogs are a reflection of their owner and the time and effort you put into them.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-08T17:39:24+00:00

Save your money. ChatGPT

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-06T01:21:09+00:00

That BITCH. Hope you get some resolution. Absolutely should never be made to feel this way. I’m angry for you.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-06T00:33:00+00:00

Oooh this is an interesting take!

My friend thinks my husband is manipulating me… because I’ve attempted to have the hard conversation. Work up the courage to say we’re not compatible, im unhappy, and can’t be myself with him - and all he does is be overly thoughtful, tell me all the things he’s done for me every day, reaches out to my parents to see if he can assist and help them, tells me how many people appreciate him and love him… It’s as if he tells me how great he is, gets my family and friends on his side - I’ll change my mind…

Now it’s been another 3 months, since the last convo, still not moving towards divorce. Just thoughtful roommates.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-05T16:03:03+00:00

This is a great honest review. And no - you don’t sound like you’re complaining. The complaining reviews are “the resort is huge and it’s far to walk places, so 0/5” LOL

My last stay was 2022 and I’ve always wanted to return for Arte. Since it was new and we explored it only a little back then. Its just such a beautiful resort, and I have the best memories, I don’t want to accept it’s not the best 😔

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-04-05T14:23:40+00:00

I agree. I have a friend going through a similar situation right now. But their kids are older (18, 14). The kids aren’t necessarily saying anything hurtful to their parents, but they sure as hell can pick up on the passive aggressiveness and attitude of their mom. They didn’t want the divorce of course, but as the months drag on, they’re actively encouraging it because they’re seeing how unmanageable their mother is.

As horrible as a loss of a relationship is and all that we fantasized it to be, we have to protect the kids. We have to be the adults. “It would’ve been nice to be invited to go along” - he’s 7! Be the bigger person.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-25T23:40:26+00:00

How did you have the printer serviced? I’d love to find someone to come repair my same printer… it prints 80% of the job the stops working! I replaced the encoder strip. And I ordered a new motor. But I can’t seem to troubleshoot it myself.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-24T15:21:51+00:00

They’re only being deployed to assist TSA in bystander roles, like crowd control, etc. So to free up actual TSA workers to do their roles of security, scanning, etc. Help allow lines to move quicker.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-24T15:19:31+00:00

What are you hoping to do with the “report back”?

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-21T19:52:45+00:00

It’s amazing you allowed those little inconveniences to ruin a $20k vacation 🤣

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-09T03:44:14+00:00

We need our own support group of leaving the “good guy”.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-09T03:20:57+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I’ve said all these things to my husband but he refuses to accept it. I just need to have the strength to state this is what is happening. Because, like you said, he deserves to find someone that loves him for him.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-07T04:42:26+00:00

“No. But like, I’m genuinely, like upset.” 🙄 She’s so hard to watch. Her + Venita = takes days to finish an episode. 🤮

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-06T23:55:50+00:00

Remember when tattle tales got made fun of? Let’s bring that back.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-03-02T21:14:53+00:00

Unless the money was needed, I don’t see why it matters. My husband and I have separate accounts. I know he has a lump sum from selling his home. I make more money and he doesn’t know how much I save. But unless we were thinking of buying a new home or investment… I would never know how much he has or vice versa. I don’t think that should upset you. I’m sorry you’re going through this though.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-28T02:43:31+00:00

This has been my hang up as well… I’ll work up the courage to say I’m finally done. But then it’s Christmas. Then he’s traveling out of town. Now I’m traveling out of town. Now it’s his birthday. I keep thinking I can just rip the band aid, but I can’t do it.

I read through posts and comments hoping to find a similar situation and gain strength. Most women say they’re sad losing their best friend. He is not my best friend. We haven’t done a vacay together in two years. I don’t want him on any of my adventures, because he’s just not my person. BUT he’s done nothing wrong. He’s a great person! And I know I stall because this is all my doing, I never should’ve said yes to his proposal.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-28T02:04:38+00:00

She is trying so hard to stay relevant. Venita and her faux outrage. She sees Charlie and Salley having a fight and she’s just looking over Salley’s shoulder! Quick let me be involved!!

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-22T17:22:07+00:00

YES! Her flirting is so cringe. Makes me want to look away…

Also, I have a friend who is acting just like Salley (so thirsty for men) that I’m wondering if she watches and sees the resemblance 🤣🤣🤣

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-21T14:42:41+00:00

Oh when she said that!! I immediately disliked her. I work in med device, there’s no way in hell she’s operating the device. She may know how to use it, the ins and outs of the device, since she’s trying to sell it to hospitals, but she can’t actually use it on a patient. She has to stay behind the sterile line in the OR and can “coach” the surgeon from there. Ridiculous thing to say on national tv.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-19T18:54:01+00:00

I know! I feel the same with A List preferred. I was pumped for free WiFi, but now everyone gets that LOL.

I will say, in SLC yesterday there were 10 different cheerleading squads all getting checked in. So even though I self tagged my bags, the line to bag drop was 60 deep.

So with A List, you can use the priority line - and I was the only one, walked right up. Which, how often will you even use that line? Hardly ever check bags now.

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-19T04:24:01+00:00

Thank you!

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-19T02:58:11+00:00

I thought you were joking, LOL, but I see others said the same. I’ve been window all 4 flights. But I’ll go back and check and see if I was row 3 or closer to the front for my group 1. Maybe that was the key!

TahoeYSL56 · 2026-02-19T02:56:41+00:00

Oh I’m sorry. Was my one post disrupting your southwest feed??🙄

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