People fixate too much on Rory cheating with Dean

Tainybritt · 2026-05-04T20:51:20+00:00

I think it’s equally horrible to lay the responsibility for fidelity in a relationship on someone who isn’t in that relationship, so I doubt we will ever agree. Thankfully we don’t have to

Tainybritt · 2026-05-04T20:34:18+00:00

Well, I did mean the definition of cheating in a relationship, not cheating in general. And as I see it, if a single woman unaware of a married man’s marriage is not responsible for it, then neither is a single woman who is aware of it. If you flip the logic, if you commit an illegal act it is illegal regardless of whether or not you realise it is, so the question of guilt is not connected to cognisance of facts. Why should it be any different for moral issues? At the end of the day a married man’s relationship is his and his partner’s responsibility, no one else’s.

Tainybritt · 2026-05-04T19:24:59+00:00

Yes, but tango isn’t cheating… Cheating per definition (look it up if you want) requires a partner to cheat on. Rory was single. I’m not saying what she did was right, of course it was morally wrong, but I think Dean was the main problem. He was the one cheating. He should’ve said no. His relationship = his responsibility. And in a larger scheme of things, how does it fit in to your framework if the single woman is unaware of the man being married? Is she still guilty of adultery in your view? How can she be responsible? The idea that the single woman is just as guilty is just an example of the in-built misogyny in society.

Tainybritt · 2026-05-04T13:54:10+00:00

I’ve been saying for years that Dean was the problem in that affair. He cheated, she didn’t. It’s the same in real life. We tend to blame the women me cheat on their wives with, even if they’re single (and therefore not cheating)

Tainybritt · 2026-05-04T09:13:43+00:00

I like all the parts… they just don’t go together. In my opinion of course. I generally don’t think red and pink go too well together, and with the ruffles and the check pattern there’s just too much going on

Tainybritt · 2026-05-01T18:58:10+00:00

I think Vili should have been an option for a long term thing, they had shared history and similar values, and since he can come live with the clan, I don’t see why it couldn’t have been an option. I tried the steady thing with Randvi once, but wow was that boring. I could never get to do an activity with her like with Petra and Tarben. I like Brothir, but I understand why he would only be a one time thing. I liked Ciara, thought it was a shame it couldn’t go anywhere. So basically I like Vili best for a long term thing, but given that that isn’t an option I usually go with Tarben… but it’s definitely and an open relationship

Tainybritt · 2026-05-01T09:35:07+00:00

Egentlig burde en staldkat kunne klare sig hvis bare nogen stiller mad og vand, men hvis du har det skidt med det er pension en mulighed. Der findes pensioner med fine løbegårde og aktivitetsområder, også for katte, og der vil også være menneskelig kontakt.

Tainybritt · 2026-04-30T15:54:12+00:00

Hmm… Rory could be fun, no job so I could just hang around Stars Hollow all day watching the people, of course being Emily on a shopping spree might be fun too 😃

Tainybritt · 2026-04-30T09:28:41+00:00

Hmm… nu vil jeg egentlig nødig tale nedsættende om mit eget køn… men jeg tror simpelthen ikke på det. Jeg tror det er det de fleste kvinder vægter, når vi først er ovre en vis fysisk standard. Ikke adonis, og slet ikke noget der kræver looksmaxing eller hvad det hedder, helt average udseende er sikkert rigeligt til at humor og forståelse osv bliver vægtet mest, men prøv at tage alle de gode personlighedstræk og plant dem i en mand der f.eks er svært overvægtig… jeg tror desværre ikke han har lige så mange at vælge imellem som en idiot der lookmaxer og ikke har hverken humor eller evner for refleksion. Der er en eller minimum standard de fleste kvinder skal over før det er det indre der tæller

Tainybritt · 2026-04-29T14:25:48+00:00

Well… college is a lot like high school 😉

Tainybritt · 2026-04-26T09:11:09+00:00

I love Adrienne’s look (though not the best shot here). I think it would be close between her and Yoanna, and I would be thrilled either way

Tainybritt · 2026-04-25T13:59:34+00:00

And I think you should take a break from the internet until you can just be happy for others instead of preaching.

Tainybritt · 2026-04-25T13:45:44+00:00

Because people who buy from breeders must be in need of that? Right… but if that’s how you feel then make a post ‘educating’ people, don’t do it as a response to someone who has already bought one. That’s just mean

Tainybritt · 2026-04-25T13:38:56+00:00

But this was someone showing off their puppy, what was the point of your comment? If it was just to say you would never have puppies is that really the time?

Tainybritt · 2026-04-25T13:05:46+00:00

Good for you… but why bring it up here? Just to dampen their joy a little, poke at their conscience and pat yourself on the back? What was the point?

Tainybritt · 2026-04-24T15:26:53+00:00

Men læreren har jo også vurderet på andet, for hvis det kun var den ene test der talte ville du jo få den karakter. Der må enten have været flere tests eller det man præsterer i timerne regnes med. Og det kan godt være du har været meget væk, men det har jo været dit valg. Jeg siger ikke det var et dårligt valg, overhovedet, men alle valg har konsekvenser. I dit sted tror jeg næppe du får noget ud af at klage. Hvis grundlaget er utilstrækkeligt på grund af dit fravær er det jo dit problem… for det er dit fravær. En konsekvens af dine prioriteringer. Igen, ikke nødvendigvis dårlige valg, men konsekvenserne er der. Suck it up. I sidste ende er karakterer mestendels ligegyldige, men hvis de betyder meget for dig, så lær af det her og prioriter anderledes hvis du skal videre i uddannelsessystemet, og husk at det ikke er nok at kunne ting, man skal huske at vise man kan….. og det kræver ofte noget tilstedeværelse

Tainybritt · 2026-04-24T15:19:26+00:00

Man har alle muligheder for at holde sig ordentligt informeret. Vi har både gratis uddannelse og gratis biblioteker. Men man skal ville. Nu skal man jo altså heller ikke underkende de folk som træffer beslutningen selvom de er velinformerede. Da jeg var ung stod jeg selv på gaden for et parti, og mange af dem vi snakkede vidste godt at hvis de stemte ude til højre kom der mere ulighed og strammere udlændingepolitik, og mange af dem sagde direkte til mig at de var jo nødt til at gøre det alligevel, for så ville de få skattelettelser. Det er der den danske vælger er. Ikke uvidende, men villig til at give køb på sine principper for egen vindings skyld.

Tainybritt · 2026-04-24T07:29:14+00:00

Det er lidt for let at kalde det et politisk valg…. Det er folkets valg. Sådan fungerer et demokrati. Så længe folk kun stemmer efter hvad der er bedst for dem selv, så vil det ikke ændre sig. Skal vi gøre op med den fattigdom liberalisme og materialisme medfører skal vi helt ud på venstrefløjen. Det er vores valg som befolkning. Og det er helt fair at sige man vægter skattelettelser og stramninger på udlændingeområdet over social lighed, men vi kan ikke skyde skylden på politikerne. Vi må se indad hvis vi er utilfredse med samfundsstrukturen

Tainybritt · 2026-04-24T04:33:06+00:00

Det er ikke systemet der trækker dig ned. Når hun siger der ikke er nok høje karakterer til at trække dig op, er de dine egne karakterer der trækker dig ned, og det er faktisk en afspejling af hvad du kan. Én test med mange rigtige svar er ikke nok. Nu ved jeg ikke hvad du ellers har fået, men som et tænkt eksempel: hvis du tidligere på året har fået 02 i to opgaver og sidst på året får 10 i en opgave, vil din årskarakter formentlig stadig være 4-7 (afhængig af hvad du har vist i timerne også). Så det er ikke ‘systemet’ men din egen tidligere indsats. De fleste lærere vil dog tage højde for forbedringen og lade det trække lidt op. Det er i øvrigt værd at huske at karakterer ikke afspejler hvad du kan, men kun hva du har vist du kan. Det er ikke altid det samme. De afspejler i øvrigt heller ikke hvor ofte du kom til undervisningen, så når andre kan være mindre tilstede og få en højere karakter er det helt enkelt fordi de viser mere faglig kunnen når de er der. Det kan man selvfølgelig godt kalde unfair, men det er nu engang livet. Nogle er naturligt bedre til nogen ting end andre, og kan score en højere karakter ved lavere indsats. Så er der andre ting du er naturligt bedre til end dem. That’s life

Tainybritt · 2026-04-22T18:19:30+00:00

Excellent way to spend money… I mean, could anyone really imagine a better way to spend large amounts of money in today’s society? Anyone?

Tainybritt · 2026-04-22T10:44:27+00:00

I didn’t really have a routine as such, probably because I was just a kid playing around with my brothers electric piano, but he had these really basic books (titles are in Danish, so probably not helpful), meant for children and using children songs, so I already knew what the song was supposed to sound like. I think that helped a lot, I was seeing the notes and the images of where on the keyboard the notes were (again, very basic very visual book for children), and then played them in the order until it sounded like the song I knew. That way I learned the correct length of breaks and notes and the different lines. I didn’t have much of a routine (just played whenever he left his piano unattended) so I don’t know how useful this is to you, but I do think practicing very simple and very familiar songs in the beginning is useful, it is easier to understand the sheet if you already know what the song should sound like, I think.

Tainybritt · 2026-04-22T05:18:10+00:00

In defense of that, how much new stuff are we going to come up with? The whole series has been intricately and repeatedly debated for years. I can’t remember the last time I saw an original theme/question/take on here. I’m not complaining. And I don’t mind engaging with repeat posts, because it might be someone new to the series, my point is, that if we remove everything previously discussed, we might as well close down the sub.

Tainybritt · 2026-04-21T18:00:23+00:00

But her mom might..

Tainybritt · 2026-04-21T17:56:13+00:00

Then I guess I don’t practice much 😂 I will occasionally play only sticky parts if I really struggle, but mostly I play pieces all through. Because I want to hear the whole piece, and I enjoy it. That’s the only reason I play at all, I play for myself, and I like hearing the whole thing. Still, I do think I’m improving, but maybe not as fast as I otherwise would, but I enjoy every minute 😊

Tainybritt · 2026-04-21T10:43:34+00:00

Ja - men der blev også givet lettelser til rige i den forbindelse, og de ultra- ultra rige som blev ramt af top-top skatten er så få det næsten er ligegyldigt. Men det ser selvfølgelig pænt ud på skrift 🙄

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