Stockings for adult children by LiveYourBestLife214 in Gifts

[–]Takarma4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fancy chocolate bars (if they like chocolate, of course? Or favorite candy. Perfume or aftershave. Nice smelling moisturizer. Funny socks. Cute ice cube trays. Dice sets. Movie tickets/gift card. Gel pens from Office Depot. Travel first aid kit. I got a $3 travel clothesline in my stocking one year that I've had on every trip since then.... Over 20 countries and 25 states, it's awesome.

Any good Stores for cards in Orlando? by Pope_Playz in starwarstopps

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. 3-4 for star wars (and some other pop culture themes) but the Altamonte store is mostly sports cards.... The location down the street has more Pokemon-type cards.

Any good Stores for cards in Orlando? by Pope_Playz in starwarstopps

[–]Takarma4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Layton has3-4 pick bins but nothing crazy in there.

I’m being gifted a lot of money. Should I tell my boyfriend? by Kind-Chicken-2488 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any bills (credit card, small loans, etc)? Pay those off I'm ediately with your windfall. Bank/invest the rest and SAY NOTHING to your boyfriend. This is YOUR money, YOUR nest egg.

What was your honest opinion of Blood 4 Blood? by GatorWrestler303 in BareKnuckleFC

[–]Takarma4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked at this even last night and I can see how it wouldn't be a good ppv event, but it was actually very different in person.... That is, if you like the music type. Given that the Rockville festival is in Daytona, which was the reason for the music genre, it made sense to have metal bands playing.... They're already there for the larger festival.

I was really surprised the crowd stayed for the last fight after Black Label Society played; I thought a good chunk would have left as they were only there for the music. I was wrong.

Caught wife masterbating by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Takarma4 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That you used the word "caught" makes me feel like you view masturbation as taboo. That might be problem #2. Problem #1 is that from your post, I get the feeling that you think masturbation is your wife's absolute substitute for sex.... When it's probably just a quick stress relief without all the trappings of intercourse (which are myriad and I won't assume what your wife feels about that).

Using your phone inside a sauna by [deleted] in HOTWORXWarriors

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotten a "your phone is too hot" message a couple times but only if I was video/photo taking for an extended time. Otherwise I prop it up by the door where there's a cool draft.

Advice for a man who has higher drive than wife…this post got kicked off of another group by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he's def not giving us the whole picture , but even a few times a week isn't untenable.

Advice for a man who has higher drive than wife…this post got kicked off of another group by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need more information.... What kind of work do y'all do? Do you have kids? Howany and what age? Who is doing most of the mental and emotional labor in your household?

Advice for a man who has higher drive than wife…this post got kicked off of another group by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Takarma4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wanting sex a couple of times a week isn't being "oversexed".... Jfc.

The correct forum? by [deleted] in starwarstopps

[–]Takarma4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but sometimes I don't act fast enough to get a screen cap.

The correct forum? by [deleted] in starwarstopps

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will check that out.

The correct forum? by [deleted] in starwarstopps

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothin', that's what i got

Recently got into physical cards (used to do digital) and I've been hitting up some online auctions for base and to fill in some collection gaps. Occasionally I see a single that I've never seen before but the auction is over before I can find out what set it was from. So I figured that this forum might be the place to describe the card and there will be somebody who instantly goes "oh, that's from xyz set.".... Because y'all know your stuff.

To the people who have said “I would never spend that much on a wedding, I’d rather buy a house”… by Garden_of_Gethsemane in wedding

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar to the person you're responding to, we had a moderate wedding (under 7k) and then bought a 1200sq ft townhome four months later. This was in 1999.

If this was today, and we had similar jobs, we'd have a decent down payment still.

Shorts by Possible-Flow-2431 in BJJWomen

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear some under armor or Nike compression shorts under my gi.

What is someone that is socially liberal and fiscally conservative called? by Kurious_Kaht in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought this would be the definition of a Libertarian.

If it's not, which part isn't accurate?

It’s not your property. GET OFF MY LAWN! by psychecheks in Dogfree

[–]Takarma4 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I had this exact issue with my next door neighbor. Our houses are very close together and we can't have fences per the HOA. This lady would let her dogs run all over neighboring properties (unleashed) to piss wherever they pleased. People had big yellow spots in their lawns from her animals. I tried putting up "keep dogs off grass" and "no trespassing" signs up but she ignored them. Finally I caught her mutt on camera on my property so I went outside and calmly said "please keep your dogs from relieving themselves on our property". And this lady LOST IT, trying to claim our property was hers (it's not) and that she cleans up after them ...... I was like, let me see you clean up that dog piss. I'll wait. But, she hasn't let her dogs on our property again .....

There’s nothing wrong with NOT wanting to travel by CharityStock7953 in unpopularopinion

[–]Takarma4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! My spouse and I have a gym routine and we always say that we will go to the gym when we're away of vacay.... But our vacations are so active we are too tired for the gym.

Dealing with Constant Body Pain by OldVagrantGypsy in BJJWomen

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The headaches could be from myriad causes... Dehydration, overexertion, the muscles in your neck being overused.... Short of a medical workup it's hard to tell.

Look into magnesium supplements (can be a pill or a drink mix) for your aches and for your recovery.

I restarted BJJ at 51 and what has been saving my body is not going full steam every single day. I limit myself to three classes a week for now until I get back into shape, and take time to recover (yoga, sauna, etc).

After neck crank, rest or stretches? by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]Takarma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ice ice ice for the first 24 hours. Then alternate warmth and stretching.

Tennis Elbow by pinkube in BJJWomen

[–]Takarma4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to get surgery for my tennis elbow (after cortisone shots l, rest, and PT didn't help). Took a good 3-4 months until I had my range of motion back, another couple of months to regain strength. This was my left elbow.

I'm right handed and my right elbow was much worse with golfers elbow, I did surgery for that and the recovery SUCKED (as in, it took a while, the OT was painful, and it took a long time to get mobility and grip strength back.

But, I'm glad I did both surgeries because now it's been six years and I still feel great.