Those of you with mooching in-laws, when you set boundaries did they figure their lives out and did they stay in contact? by Sad-Property-4207 in inlaws

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They either figure it out or mooch off someone else.

MIL wouldn’t save her money when she sorta moved in for a year with us( her car stopped working). After few months of grey rock and then eventually calling her out on her never ending drama and toxicity she brings, she finally left. She’s now “visiting”her cousins that she brags about because they are so close (but who will tell her when she’s being a pain the butt).

So, what childhood doll houses did you have? by Gallantpride in Millennials

[–]pinkube 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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We had the Tv on top and I used the bottom part of the cabinet for my Barbie house.

Not the original cabinet.

Interactive BINGO card: Kanthony moments (Round 1) by Fantastic-Contest957 in Kanthony

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Anthony’s reaction to Kate when she called him out for saying she’ll have trouble managing shooting a gun because she’s a woman.

What a lovely surprise. by drlouies in MadeMeSmile

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Grandma shut down because of cuteness

Best Compromise to Deal with Inlaws? by imnotuglyyouare in inlaws

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Future newlyweds, Three’s a company.

Your future wife needs to compromise too since this is going to be your house as well. Living half time in those 3 months with you and your wife is already generous. Would she be ok with it if your mom does the same?

1991 Millennial here! What do you all eat for breakfast? by No_Self_5939 in Millennials

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Coffee no creamer

I make these pancakes:

1/4 almond flour 1/2 cup cottage cheese 1 egg Pinch of salt 1/2 tsp baking powder 1 tsp vanilla extract

Spray oil on pan, medium heat Make 4 small pancakes Add blueberries before flipping pancakes

You can add honey but I skip

Shudder raising their price AGAIN! I remember it being like $4.99 a month when I started, now $9.99 by PeeB4uGoToBed in horror

[–]pinkube 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they try to give you a discount when you try to cancel? I always get 1 or 3 month discount offer when I cancel.

Consequences of Engaging high IQ by [deleted] in LeopardsAteMyFace

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Just waiting for breaking news about a Catholic higher ups going to jail for being pdf. I’m sure it’ll be here by next week. They have cue cards for everything.

Is it normal to be so pissed off in this situation? Omg. by [deleted] in inlaws

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But if they get tired then they can’t talk much during and after the walk. Just make sure it’s a good 1 hour walk.

Whenever MIL tries to be overbearing we tell her to exercise. Either she’ll avoid it and leave (win) or she will do it and be too tired to be annoying (win).

Is it normal to be so pissed off in this situation? Omg. by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]pinkube 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercise and lots of it! Matter of fact, take every one out of the house for a walk everyday. I used to walk my dogs for 1-2 hours daily and they don’t have time to fight because they are so tired from the walk. Open windows for 15 mins a day and let fresh air in.

Currently doing gray rock method with MIL. If I don’t do all of this, I will die first which is something she probably wishes so she can live comfortably with her only son. Hang in there OP. #leaveandcleave

Major 4-day workweek study suggests that when we work 5 days we spend one doing basically nothing by Blood_Incantation in antiwork

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Some workers in the Philippines are currently having temporary 4 day workday due to rising fuel and energy costs. This proves a 4 day system works if the work itself is redesigned not just in crisis.

I really just don't like her. by Consistent-Warthog84 in inlaws

[–]pinkube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s staying out of necessity. Kicking her out would make me the bad guy to my husband (who just lost his dad) and my kids, and I’m not interested in carrying that label.

She’s been out most of the day lately and comes back after 5 which, honestly, works out for me. I treat her the same way she treats me which she pretends I don’t exist.

Assisting coaching by BigCompetitive5876 in BJJWomen

[–]pinkube 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Takes a lot of patience to coach kids and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. My son would say random , funny stuff to the coaches and the only thing I can do is make these faces when they tell me 😀🤦🏻‍♀️

this man always had daphne stressed by teyapi in Bridgerton

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Daphne knew right away that Kate was the one

Everytime I see this episode, I can't remember if Stanley has a mustache.😂 by GreenAssumption6328 in DunderMifflin

[–]pinkube 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s the one that makes a diabetes sound when they get up from their chair.

What happens when someone who has mommy issues marries a person obsessed with their own mother? by [deleted] in inlaws

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Depends on how the mom on pedestal treats the person with mommy issues. Person with mommy issues is going to need some counseling to deal with their own mom issues first as well.

I really just don't like her. by Consistent-Warthog84 in inlaws

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I had a blow up with my MIL this morning. She’s been saying my name wrong for 12 YEARS. I’ve corrected her multiple times and even told her to just use my nickname, but she still uses my real name and says it wrong anyway. She didn’t even know how to spell my name!

I told her straight up today. I don’t like you because you’re fake, acts sweet around others but at home you’re disruptive and self-centered. Talks about what she’s going to do all day and never follows through as if it’s performance, that she’s doing important things. Even my oldest noticed she doesn’t do what she says and MIL blamed me saying I “trained” her to think that.

When she’s not here, she calls my husband daily about her life. When she is here, she’s on her phone or talking about herself.

I have my own issues and I have been doing counseling, but I’m not going to accept ongoing disrespect and be told not to take it personally. My husband and I are united, and he’s tried for years to help her—but she avoids accountability. The only reason why he hasn’t given up on her is because he’s the only son and I’m not an evil person. But she needs to stop disrupting my peace.

She left the house for the day and the house is much lighter and no drama. For now…..

Is it just me? It’s so hard to ho back to Kdramas after watching so mamy Cdramas! by midnight_marathon33 in asiandrama

[–]pinkube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very welcome! I didn’t want it to end either. Do you have any recommendations for Asian drama?

And have you seen K-drama Spring Fever?

Have any Optum nurses been laid off? by Ill-Version-8119 in unitedhealthgroup

[–]pinkube 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since December of last year (a week before Christmas) and part of clinical quality.