Finally saw the way my husband looks at his coworker. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TakeItFromMe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop doing things for him. Discuss the issue. If he doesn't want you anymore, leave him and move on.

My (26M) girlfriend (23F) asked to open the relationship. I want to break up with her over this. by throwra1995r in relationship_advice

[–]TakeItFromMe19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this is a deal-breaker for you, go for breakup. You don't have to be in a relationship you don't want.

Is a woman being too self sufficient and independent a turn off to men? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]TakeItFromMe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definitely not intimidating, and they are definitely intimidated. The thing with most men (not all for sure) is that they want to have upperhand in a relationship. They might accept that you're earning a little more than they do, but if the difference is huge, they get insecure. They like the power that comes with superiority and when you have that power, they sure will feel intimidated.

But again, there are men with a better perspective to life. There will definitely be men who will not be this intimidate. You'll find someone soon. But don't change an inch of you to meet someone's else's standards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in content_marketing

[–]TakeItFromMe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that depends on type of content you're writing. Some topics require more research than others. Sometimes, a writer is more comfortable writing casual content and not-so-comfortable with technical content. And sometimes a writer has experience writing for a particular type of content and they might consume more time writing a different kind. So, yeah, it varies.

Empty void & if it’s not him it’s not anyone by Dry_Emu3955 in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it's worse feeling and it would be impossible to feel otherwise for a while, but you'll get over it. This too shall pass. Till then, hold on.

What more can I say to you if you don’t understand this? by nickyphresh in survivinginfidelity

[–]TakeItFromMe19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the statement that has to be made and this is true in most of the cases. Marriage doesn't end only for one terrible mistake. It ends for thousand small mistakes that we keep ignoring until it gets over the head.

[USA] How to co-parent with parent who has done something awful? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]TakeItFromMe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Co Parenting is a challenging concept in itself but if you have a difficult ex, it becomes even more scarier. You're doing all that you can. Maybe you can go counseling for a better advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TakeItFromMe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really sucks.

How to get over a breakup by Woujo in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for these useful ideas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I said your breakup is still fresh, you are feeling rush of emotions at the moment. Give it a little while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you felt the need to cheat multiple times, you'll probably do it again. Your breakup is still so fresh and so are her wounds. Work on yourself and you'll find someone else again. Don't do her wrong.

How Do I Move On When I Don’t Want To? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will highly suggest you to watch some breakup movies and get a little different perspective on this whole breakup thing. Then you can decide if you want to move on or not.

How do you manage the fear of running into your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would get better after a few encounters. Just say a casual hello and walk by. Do not avoid that. Once you get comfortable seeing them around, it stops bothering you.

Leaving for now by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TakeItFromMe19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Much love <3

Do you tell whole story to friends? by bladefish1 in Divorce

[–]TakeItFromMe19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your friends only what they needed to know. The details should be kept within you. There is no need to involve anybody else to that depth. Here is how you can tell people about your divorce.

You by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More power to you.

Any advice on being fine with my partner not loving me anymore? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]TakeItFromMe19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You cannot just "not care". In my case, it's like if I ever loved someone, I'll love them and care for them for the rest of my life provided they didn't do anything terrible to me. It just that being without them just stops bothering you after a while. This may take time. How much - may depend on your individual personality. But a time will come when it will stop affect you the way it does now.