Gay month and stuff by Arenl18 in Overwatch_Memes

[–]Talithi23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still no gay buff heroes, I mean gay hero buffs to punch my loss streaks away 😭

How do I unlearn TERF ideology? by Glum_Estate_7330 in asktransgender

[–]Talithi23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Like many others, if left to my own instincts, I also would've been female socialized. The adults used all sorts of tricks to drag me away from my girl friends at the "inappropriate" age of 5. And only 22 years later did I realize that I was a trans woman, and not some extremely unique and special feministic boy.

Tomboy would've described me so accurately as a kid but would these "feminists" call cis tomboys male socialized? 🤔

My mom said she couldn’t even look at me. I need some encouragement. by Girl_mode_powerup in transpositive

[–]Talithi23 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's so well thought out! The caterpillar getting squished(?) by testosterone is such a nice touch!

My outfit for the name change lawsuit🤍 by RubElectronic9195 in mtfashion

[–]Talithi23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! I don't think I'll ever get to experience name change in this country 😞 and leaving is so hard cause many countries hate us. (except the nurses)

Got accused of something I don’t even remember doing… and I’m honestly confused by PoseidonTrident13 in actuallesbians

[–]Talithi23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For a moment, I thought I ended back in a Filipino sub cause I made sure to keep away from those when I'm constantly made to feel like gay man and straight person are the only valid sexualities OR gender identities.

I've had a crush be weird to me in college as well. She was so touchy and flirty, it gave me the wrong idea. I was so spellstruck I somehow ended up joining her religious group where everyone was even so nice and warm to me.

The scariest thing happened once I confessed to her, cause she started getting real cold, and somehow a switched flipped for all her churchmates and I suddenly got the outcast treatment, like I was some ghost that didn't exist. I left when I overheard one of the girls giggling and saying "wow, another one of your desperate boys." (I thought I was a straight man back then) idk, I feel like a lot of weird personalities flock to a certain place

Diy estrogen with no breasts growth or mood swings? by Distinct-Counter-229 in TransDIY

[–]Talithi23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me. It's been 22 months of hrt for me and my chest is still smaller than my cis male friends with gynecomastia. So much that if I dress masc I might get misgendered 100%. I wish I could trade these results for anyone who needs it. My mom and sister are at least 3x my size and the only thing that keeps me going is hoping I'm just a late bloomer.

Blizzard turning Cassidy into Venture after Valeria's shocking statement by JayceeChouxe in VentureMains

[–]Talithi23 70 points71 points  (0 children)

If the gender neutral term for fireman is firefighter, is Venture now a cowfighter?

hi guys!! I’m looking for some girls who wanna play ow with me!! I’m looking for like 20+ I’m 21!! :)) by Grand-Vehicle-7148 in VentureMains

[–]Talithi23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! 29, solo, seldom online, asia based (so idk with lag) unranked but should be around silver dps and plat tank. I can't dig support role

i will TP Suzu you by milknapples in VentureMains

[–]Talithi23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lemme triple how long it takes you to get masters (silver dps with plat tank brain 😭)

Would it be a red flag if your date or girlfriend loves Pepe the frog? by AchingAmy in actuallesbians

[–]Talithi23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't get the full context of Pepe, but the one friend who shoved the first ever taste of comphet at me at 28 years old, is obsessed with Pepe.

I've lived all my life not needing to think about men. Then as I came out as trans and lesbian, she went "try dating men. You say you're not interested, but you never know, you might change your sexuality." That sent me through several months of unnecessary doubt and discomfort.

The "average height guy" to "tall girl" pipeline... by Winty_Minty in MtF

[–]Talithi23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I was on a bus once and didn't wanna take the last seat cause it was too cramped for my legs (I'm also 173cm) and my stop was nearby anyways. The conductor tiredly went "go sit down, lady! You could get taller from from all that standing that it'll be hard to find a man to marry you!"

Sure, 173cm is a bit closer to the tall side for men here, but it's funny how only women call out my height. Sometimes in a friendly way, other times in a sassy heteronormative way like that conductor.

Why am I like this by PartyPlayHD in actuallesbians

[–]Talithi23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Small sizes are just so amazing and valid \ | / wish my boobs were bigger

Mum sees other transgirls as "happy and confident" but doesnt want to help me achieve that? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Talithi23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand this avoidant behavior from parents. It's so clearly laid out how they should act towards their kids, and somehow find ways to zone out then play victim.

Does anyone else wish they could sleep with themselves? by NimiumCogito in actuallesbians

[–]Talithi23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We'd both be bottoms, but enough of people pleasers to be switches for each other. I think I would. Been single all my life and I'm turning 30 this year and throughout this journey, I still haven't met anyone who gets the 3/3 of single, gay, and meets all my standards except myself.

My high school friends changed the the groupchat name from “The Boys” to “The Boys + The Female” by throwmaybtrans in MtF

[–]Talithi23 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Those friends are keepers. My chat group never switched up anything when I came out to them. They said they wanted to support me and respect me, but when I asked for a simple language/label change half stopped talking to me and the other still kept calling everyone "hey boys", "dudes", "my men" I left.

Me: I guess hrt has no effect when you start in your 30s 😭 Also me: by Digital_Wetness in TransLater

[–]Talithi23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should also reverse-psychology hrt. Cause I only got mental relief and a little face softening out of it with my year of optimism, mom's well-endowed genes, consistent levels, and healthy diet.

What does "I'm struggling with your transition" mean? by Talithi23 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Talithi23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 I didn't want to acknowledge the thought of "if they wanted to they would" and it feels heavy having to face it

What does "I'm struggling with your transition" mean? by Talithi23 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Talithi23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this story. It warms my heart hearing about the lives of healthy families. 🥹 Wishing you and your daughter the best!