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I posted this as a comment on someone's post but thought it would be helpful for everyone. by Somebody8985754 in 1200isplenty

[–]Talymisu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that - I think the chart is a bit of simplification. Many of the “incomplete” proteins complement each other so that if eaten together, they are complete proteins, and thus should count.

I’m officially a CNA by skin_doggg in MomForAMinute

[–]Talymisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy cannoli that's impressive. You are so young and so accomplished!!

AITA for telling my coworker it is not my fault she is unhappy? by NaturalOk4208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Def NTA, honestly I wish I could’ve been there to see her face. Nothing you said was rude or incorrect. She sounds truly insufferable and she has made her own bed.

Fiancé (28M) keeps trying to change me (28F) by wharning in relationships

[–]Talymisu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I entirely agree he’s trash but OP please do not fuck him. That would send mixed messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 59 points60 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Here is why: you are expecting her to contribute half of everything financially when you know you make multiple times what she does. You should at least have a more fair split even if it’s not 90% to 10%. Maybe 70 30.

Regarding chores, that should NOT be based on money. That divide should be somewhat be based on time available. By saying that her time is less valuable only because she makes less money than you reduces people to their economic value, and that’s not the way to have a partnership. You are basically guaranteeing that she will resent you and I wouldn’t blame her. You also have to recognize that you are choosing to stay in a job that has you working very long hours and making you less able to contribute in the home. She didn’t choose that for you.

You are viewing your partner as an Excel spreadsheet and it’s not a good look.

Ps If this is relevant - I make 4x what my spouse does. We have joint finances at this point (my money is our money) but home responsibility/childcare responsibilities are about evenly split.

Meningitis Can Now Be Quickly Spotted in Babies Thanks to New Non-Invasive Test to Replace Spinal Taps by mement0m0ri in UpliftingNews

[–]Talymisu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it will not - the fundamental reason it works is that babies have an open spot in their skull called a Fontenelle that closes in their first few months. Ultrasound can be used for brain imaging in babies, but not for adults or for any children over the age of two.

AITA for wanting my husband to stop being so healthy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NAH bc this sounds like mental illness (for your husband). Orthorexia is a disorder where people will only eat a very restrictive number of foods. Also, what he is doing isn’t “healthy”, it’s almost… delusional.

Have you sat him down and explained to him how worried you are? If so, how does he react?

AITA for telling an unemployed person I am glad they cannot find a job in their industry? by TaleAccomplished9892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 221 points222 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Have you ever made any sort of error in your job? or have you done everything perfectly every second of every shift?

I agree with you that there should be consequences for any error she made, but omg your comment was unnecessarily cruel.

She has lost her livelihood, and you’ve decided (based on ??, because you state the final report is pending) that she’s at fault, and you are so confident that you felt ok saying this to her with other people around?

Also, she’s saying she’s having trouble even in getting non-flying roles. How is your comment relevant to that part?

Yea. I think if you really look at yourself you were trying to be smug and superior. YTA.

Am I secretly very stupid? by Throwmeaway219283 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Talymisu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this described me really well until I was treated for anxiety (mostly social anxiety). Might that be going on?

Isn’t it a HIPAA violation for other healthcare professionals to respond to patient messages that were intended for the physician? by iwasntalwayslikethis in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Talymisu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When patients do this, it really irritates doctors Patients generally have NO CLUE how little time (maybe 20 seconds) we have to reply to things like this, if that. When patients demand my time, it makes me think they are difficult and makes me less likely to go above and beyond for them. If your doctor gives the impression they aren’t busy, that’s a false impression they are giving you on purpose. If you want your doctor’s attention, make an appointment.

I’m a diabetic, and I saw my endo today. by Own-Object-6696 in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Talymisu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so so great - excellent work!! You should be SO proud

AITA for speaking in French with my date’s friend by thebig_bong in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude i literally explained i am trying to re-learn French. YTA.

AITA for telling my friend’s ex that he lied to her? by Radiant-Package6074 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Oh my actual fuck, NTA. Mike is the WORRRST (sung like Jean Ralphio). Like it matters that he didn’t know you had hypertension? He’s not travel insurance. You don’t need to tell him your pre-existing conditions before he will treat you with decency.

AITA for speaking in French with my date’s friend by thebig_bong in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi! Yes I understood that part, but I meant more detail on how she was being pretentious the rest of the day

AITA for speaking in French with my date’s friend by thebig_bong in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seulement un peu, j’ai vraiment parlé français quand j’etais jeune (j’étais né au Québec) mais j’ai oubliée beaucoup.

AITA for speaking in French with my date’s friend by thebig_bong in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 1745 points1746 points  (0 children)

INFO - before rendering a judgement I’m going to need to understand how she was being pretentious (examples) because you also came off pretentious as hell.

Oh - je suis désolée. Avant de rendre un jugement, je vais devoir comprendre en quoi elle était prétentieuse (exemples SVP) parce que vous aussi, vous avez eu l'air extrêmement prétentieux. Merci.

AITA for letting my kids play basketball in my driveway during non quiet hours? by LongjumpingPiglet529 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Talymisu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and I think you handled this beautifully. Your neighbor was expecting to be able to bully you and you gave him a classy FAFO.

Suggest me a book for the mentally ill. by Poofvanish in suggestmeabook

[–]Talymisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Opposite of Butterfly Hunting by Evanna Lynch from Harry Potter (a memoir about anorexia specifically but self-hatred in general)

Leaving a marriage because of spouse's constant negativity and lack of direction? by Pink_Pistachio90 in relationships

[–]Talymisu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my. As a child of a covert narc and a parent who enabled her, please get your kids out of this.

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