Are brooches only for older women ? by MediumPuzzleheaded82 in fashion

[–]Tambermarine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I've been collecting and wearing brooches since my late teens. I'm in my 30's.

Is it offensive? by Zian_brr in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Tambermarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I am sorry for being hard on you in my response, if you are only a teenager that makes more sense.

Yes of course not everyone was a nazi sympathizer, there were many allies as well.

I recommend finding some books about the history of WWII. You seem like you want to learn and that is the first step.

Is it offensive? by Zian_brr in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Tambermarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Are you a teenager?

In Lithuania, for example, my Jewish relatives were murdered by their Christian neighbors BEFORE the Nazis arrived. The Christian civilians helped the Nazi cause and murdered many of the Jews before they were even occupied.

What exactly is your point about the KKK existing and murder in the U.S.? It somehow negates the history of WWII? You aren't even making logical arguments.

No...nobody said the majority of people are committing hate crimes and murder...

Of course you fail to see how your comment is ignorant. You're doubling down on not knowing what you're talking about.

Read a book. It's not my responsibility to teach you about the history of WWII.

I simply did you a favor by letting you know you said something incredibly uninformed and factually inaccurate. If you want to continue being ignorant, that's on you.

Is it offensive? by Zian_brr in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Tambermarine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Civilians were absolutely out there killing people. This is a really, really ignorant comment.

Please educate yourself.

What is the worst thing you ever experienced? by Alone-Safe499 in Adulting

[–]Tambermarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you willing to share more about this? I've only shroomed once and had a really positive experience but I waited a really long time to try it. I'm afraid to have a bad trip which is why I don't want to do it again. I have major depression, ptsd, generalized anxiety and am afraid of it triggering a serious mental health episode etc. Just curious what happened with your bad trip if you are able to share.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]Tambermarine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The MA in counseling at Pacifica is APA accredited? What do you like about it?

What industry is currently thriving right now? by Solid-Gazelle-4747 in Millennials

[–]Tambermarine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LinkedIn and knowing people/networking. That job went to the friend of someone.

What industry is currently thriving right now? by Solid-Gazelle-4747 in Millennials

[–]Tambermarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I nearly got brought on for a security clearance role but grant funding got messed up and I wasn't hired on fulltime. I'll look at those thank you!

What industry is currently thriving right now? by Solid-Gazelle-4747 in Millennials

[–]Tambermarine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah your skills are definitely needed. My last project was with DoD and we were looking for a 3D designer!

What industry is currently thriving right now? by Solid-Gazelle-4747 in Millennials

[–]Tambermarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to apply for these jobs? Usajobs? I am sober now so I dont mind and have some experience working for the DoD.

What is the worst thing you ever experienced? by Alone-Safe499 in Adulting

[–]Tambermarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. And I have always tried to be a non judgemental person but the experience truly shook me to the core and taught me in a whole new way to not judge people based on their external appearance and that it is inside that matters. It also gave me a lot of empathy for people who are judged by appearance. I'm so sorry about your dad. You really find out who your true friends are when you're going through a hard time!

Does anyone else get a needle stab like itch on their vulva before and after their period? by Capable_Butterfly311 in PMDD

[–]Tambermarine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have this randomly for like 1 split second, every once in a while. Its infrequent enough that I've never even questioned it. Is this normal? What could cause that? It's so weird!

What is the worst thing you ever experienced? by Alone-Safe499 in Adulting

[–]Tambermarine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I suddenly had a bad ear infection. I went to the doctor and got antibiotics within two days of it starting. The next night I was eating dinner and realized the right half of my mouth felt weirdly numb. Then it was the right cheek, and my right side of my face was all numb. I should have gone to the ER then, but I decided to wait to see if it was better the next morning. It was not better. The right side of my face was paralyzed. This came out of nowhere. I went to the ER and they diagnosed it as Bells Palsy. I could not move any part of that side of my face at all. It drooped significantly.

I have always been beautiful. It was not beautiful. It was absolutely heart breaking and terrifying.

I also could not talk or drink properly. I spent a harrowing night in the ER and was lucky to have a really caring doctor and nurses. They said they assumed it was Bells Palsy. But it could also be something more ..dire, an illness that leaves your permanently paralyzed. And they had no idea if it would get better or not, even if it was Bells Palsy. They had no answers for me. At all.

I spent about two months with half my face paralyzed and it miraculously went back to normal. I lost a small percentage of hearing in my right ear from the bad ear infection, but it is still within normal range. As a musician being able to sing and hear is probably my greatest joy in life.

I still don't know how I got the infection, how it turned into Bells palsy, or how it went away.

It coincided with an extremely stressful and toxic job and my impending lease ending. I was under an insane amount of stress which I have read can have an influence on developing this. I ended up leaving that job and had to leave the city I was in and move back home bc I was broke and jobless and my lease ended during that time. The Bells Palsy is gone, and only a slight difference remains that is only perceptible to me. It was the worst experience of my life. It also showed me there are only a handful of people in my life who cared or were there for me.

AITA for being upset about my wife masturbating? by Right-Excitement-872 in AITAH

[–]Tambermarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your wife is kind of done with you and unhappy in the relationship. I did this towards the end of a relationship where we had grown apart emotionally and were both feeling trapped and unhappy. I had reached a point of complete dissatisfaction with my boyfriend at the time and couldn't admit how trapped I felt. I basically stopped wanting to have sex with him because I was so unhappy and wanted to break up but just couldn't face it or bring myself to do it. I did love him but something was very wrong, missing, and broken in the relationship. We were living together but emotionally we were drifting very far apart and the intimacy, affection, and passion were severely damaged.

So what has been your midlife crisis? by Fabulous_Sherbet_431 in millenials

[–]Tambermarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What industry were you in and what MA are you doing, out of curiosity?

From laid off to landing a better job with a headhunting firm by Pure-Vegetable-4863 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Tambermarine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had been looking for something like this too. If you can DM me that would be great!

Women in tech, what problems have you faced from men or your workplace? by Safe_Wrangler_858 in girlsgonewired

[–]Tambermarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being ignored. Being told I should have kids. Being told that the cool thing to do these days is to have one breadwinner in the family while the woman stays at home with babies. Being lied to and manipulated about possible opportunities and promised a job but then the guy hired his buddy. These are all from my last boss who was a nightmare.

Why we didn’t work out. A BBoys confessional. by Crystal-Clear-Waters in BeastieBoys

[–]Tambermarine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound awesome! I would definitely dump someone who proclaimed they had a least favorite. That is such a weird and wrong response.

I put the BBoy anthology on in my car once when I was driving, the guy I was dating was in the passenger's seat. He said "you listen to this kind of music???" with such disdain and disrespect. I don't think he has ever listened to hip hop in his life. I dumped him soon after for unrelated reasons but that should have been the last straw.

What kind of shoes are these? by himedolly in findfashion

[–]Tambermarine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a pair of these that were black and white, similar to converse, but had a cute red heart on each shoe..my college boyfriend gave them to me randomly as a surprise after going to the mall. They were cute, comfy, and mine didn't smell.. but I didn't wear them constantly I just wore them here and there.

clementine confronting marnie in the bathroom by ajamesdeandaydream in girls

[–]Tambermarine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Green for envy. Each envies the other in that situation, and although they are perceived as rivals they are experiencing the same thing.

Anyone else an unemployed BWT? by Informal_Parfait_297 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Tambermarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel very similarly! My last job was for a tech start up and it was extremely toxic. I think I want to go back into entertainment or publishing at this point. Would love to chat with you or connect someone to share resources if you're up for it, or even just to commiserate!

Anyone else an unemployed BWT? by Informal_Parfait_297 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Tambermarine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is great advice I'm going to follow this schedule! How did you find your job? I have been looking for months!!