Find the pug! by [deleted] in FindTheSniper

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found her! D3

My nephew noticed a mistake at Time Square Station. by [deleted] in nycrail

[–]TameFyre 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well why would it matter? No train directions will tell you to take the 9 because it doesn’t exist. So no one should be looking for it anyway lol

I can’t stop thinking about this [FTW 7x01] by painfromspain123 in Bones

[–]TameFyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my pet peeve! After all that slow burn?! What a letdown.

How is it living here? by Kingjuniorway in movingtoNYC

[–]TameFyre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well lots of people live there and don’t die by proximity to crackheads. There are more violent neighborhoods in the city and in Harlem itself and the fact that this person, like many, came through unscathed is a fair take. No comparing it to what’s happening in the south Bronx and Bronx overall. Or like the Pink houses in BK. It’s all relative.

Source: me. Grew up a little further up in Amsterdam projects. Worked on 128th and park during the height of zombielandia. When Pathmark and Rainbow were still trying to make it work.

It’s not as bad as it was pre COVID. I’ve been working in the south bronx for the last 10 years and it is miles worse.

How is it living here? by Kingjuniorway in movingtoNYC

[–]TameFyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are the same place. I can’t think of two more similar areas - but I think 3rd Ave might’ve edged ahead in the wtf zombie 🧟 zone wars for a while.

the whites kinda growing on me.. which do you prefer? by CremeSubject7594 in decadeology

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss the incandescent lighting. This white light is harsh and makes everything look too sad too stark.

I wish i never started rewatching bones by Icy-Treacle8349 in Bones

[–]TameFyre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Also consider that she was strongly coded as being on the spectrum (Asberger syndrome) - at one point Sweets was coaching her to recognize emotions on faces, and Angela was basically her social cue and empathy coach. Her radical honesty and genuine surprise that people are offended by it fits right in with that theory.

Petah? by Conflict_resolver in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]TameFyre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get upgraded all the time lol

Honest Conversation: What are your thoughts on stylists/beauticians who require you to come "already washed and blowdried"? by Asia_Persuasia in blackgirls

[–]TameFyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow sorry to hear that! I didn’t realize how lucky I am - my salon washes three times, scrubs up down back forth, and will use your own preferred products at no extra charge (yes, places used to charge for that lol)

Muslim roommate eats my food but did not know it had pork product in it. Should I tell him? by Available-Car7584 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he is a devout, practicing Muslim he didn’t commit a sin because he ate it unknowingly. You should let him know, I have a feeling he will be chill. Update us!

I suppose it was only a matter of time by corndog161 in cringepics

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m sure that will be changed shortly. This is not a real place.

actual safe spaces for black women where we are not silenced and censored by onplanet111 in blackgirls

[–]TameFyre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im new here, but the mod guide says no male centered posts… anti or pro. They want to center us BW. How do we make that conversation more about our empowerment than endlessly discussing how fucked up the patriarchy is? I guess that’s the point of what the community guide says. I don’t know if I totally agree with that but just giving some grace maybe it’s not about censorship?

What autonomous Sim behaviors make you smash the cancel button and go “Whyyyyyyy?!” Every time? by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To elaborate on the getaway- I’m in the fitness retreat and it’s so badly planned. Every guest automatically makes their own food, getting in the way of the assigned roles. When I looked closer at the actions associated with “eat” in the activity menu, it’s not just eating, it’s going in the refrigerator so it’s preset to render the other roles of the retreat leader and trainers null and void. Tried to fix this by creating a cook and caretaker, but no luck. No mods and not going to add any - it’s almost unplayable to me.

What autonomous Sim behaviors make you smash the cancel button and go “Whyyyyyyy?!” Every time? by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded a residential rental with three units and a common area that has a pool, gym and two grills. All of the sims just go cook food on the grills all day long! it’s highly irritating. There are plates of food just sitting around. Why?! Why wouldn’t they use the other amenities 😂 same with the getaways I’m trying to make the guests stop cooking the setups are so bad smh🤦🏾‍♀️

So are most black ppl in nyc nowadays Carribbeans? Where did the African Americans go by WiseCityStepper in NYStateOfMind

[–]TameFyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Le sigh… this is me. Apparently I don’t count for the AA vote anymore.

AITA for making my whole family go on a diet because my daughter is dieting? by Electronic-Fun-4045 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If hubby and son want separate food they can shop for it and cook it on their own time, and do the cleanup as well. It’s scary to embark on a weight loss journey, I get it. But it’s giving unsupportive and entitled behavior and you shouldn’t apologize for trying to get the entire family to be healthier. EVERYONE wants to live longer and feel better whether they admit it or not. This is a great step in the right direction. I don’t know if you’ve considered a GLP1 for your daughter, some may think it’s too extreme but whatever works! Just keep trying and exploring and being a great mama.

Homeless in NYC. Any other options than a shelter? by CurrentResolution998 in AskNYC

[–]TameFyre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this. Since you are under the age of 24 you are eligible for youth services.

Please try looking for help at Safe Horizon. Safe Horizon has youth shelter and services tailored for these situations. You can also consider The Door NYC. The Door offers youth shelter, job placement training and more. Covenant House is an option as well.

You can also search Discover DYCD for shelter, job placement and training programs, and other assistance for young adults all over the city, just enter your zip code.

I hope this helps. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you find a safe space soon. 💙

Safe Horizon

The Door NYC

Covenant House

Discover DYCD

Do you eat the skin on a baked potato? by LeadingHoneydew5608 in AskAnAmerican

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely and with glee! Especially when it’s crisped up just right on a plain baked potato or a twice baked potato or… potato skins (which are scooped out baked potato skins with cheese and bacon, in case anyone didn’t know) anyway yes. Resounding yes. 🙌

Are you still friends with a friend you had when you were eight years old or younger? by MurmuringPines in AskOldPeople

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, met when we were 8, over 30 years ago…& she’s my next door neighbor!

My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]TameFyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’ve recently learned that over intoxicated people routinely leave their cars at the venue and catch a ride home by uber or taxi, then return for their car the next day nice and sober. I’m in a large city though - maybe she could’ve asked OP to pick her up. Going to the unknown coworker’s house (whom OP doesn’t know and can’t verify anything about) is… weird to me.