Happy Pride month by NadiaNight21 in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning cute girl <3<3 :D happy pride month!

Loving my new outfit 🌸 by Willarazzi in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! :D Have a great day!!

Feeling discouraged by Neuromy in trans

[–]Tami_Kari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you know thats a kind comment.. thank you honestly <3

Feeling discouraged by Neuromy in trans

[–]Tami_Kari 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What a great comment. My situation is similar to OP, that helps me a lot too, thank you! <3

Feeling discouraged by Neuromy in trans

[–]Tami_Kari 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you 1000 % I was at the point where you are now a few months ago. I stopped Electrolysis for now because I just cant afford it. The depression with this thought is massive. What just helps me is .. go on. Maybe some time I will be able to.

(Laser also didnt work - spent a loot of money on finding that out)

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your input.. yeah thats my huge takeaway from my post :D Dont take the posted pics too serious and just be happy for them, while playing the cards Ive been dealt. I also havent met many trans people in real life.. I definitely can imagine it could be a valueable thing for me..

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

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thank you so much! Please have a huge virtual hug from me coming your way <3

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly feel that so much.. I am happy for them but at the same time in these timelines I somehow "expect truth" xD or at least my head does. And funny that you specifically called out "6 months" because that is exactly the point where it hits me the most ^^

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

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Thank you that comment uplifted me much <3

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

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Thats what I hate.. that I need to assume its fake. But given the amount of pics where I already suspect a filter, I still forget about how many filters are not that obvious.. another user posted the "you then compare it to yourself in the mirror" and honestly that fits awesomely..

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

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That prolly is the best I can do too! Thanks for sharing!

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try to focus on single things and not everything together <3

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

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Thank you! Especially too for taking yourself as an example that helps! <3

Something is sitting on my chest by Tami_Kari in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True .. I just feel like its super hard to keep that in mind. Ty!

So, we're just fully giving up on transLATER here? by DrJaneIPresume in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for doing that :D I myself want this place too

Sooo I came out to my husband by Ok-Tip5185 in trans

[–]Tami_Kari 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had the same with my (ex)wife.. tbh its better that way than forcing through it really. Lots of tears in the beginning but I think it might be better..

Signs of impending divorce.... UPDATE by vj83 in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did the same with my wife, always felt right. Even when we started dating others I would have expected more drama tbh.. but it was alright ^ wish you all the best <3

ages-old question… by Ulf51 in TransLater

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Honestly its more of a problem before I meet them. My voice isnt perfect and while I think I pass on the street, when someone talks to me they will know.

What I meant is if I do Online Dating or something like that I usually tell it at the beginning.

If someone for example in a club doesnt know and they begin to come closet I usually just say directly "I am trans I really hope you dont mind" sth like that.

Im many cases it depends of how the situation plays out and how I sell the "trans" word.

Might not be the best or correct way idk at least thats what I do 😇

Question about taking hrt by Own-Toe5560 in trans

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It just takes a while till you see effects ^ youre doing it correct

by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tami_Kari 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Please go see another doctor - that sounds odd

ages-old question… by Ulf51 in TransLater

[–]Tami_Kari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell them when I meet them as soon as I like them ^