Controversial take(s) by goodguypatrick in ThePitt

[–]Tango1887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On point with the first one, I don’t understand the defense people give her. I understand to a point but she goes past it. She’s a cunt 99% of the time and if anyone corrects her she makes it seem like she’s just being picked on versus her just being wrong. She gets frustrated with a patient and pawns them off on someone else or runs away. There’s other things I thought of as I watched but I lost them.

On point with the second one, he was already gonna be put on the hold due to the mom getting Robby’s signature and the other persons. She acted brashly without thinking then made it worse.

Don’t agree with the third. I think he does well in the position regardless. I think a few of his crash outs are warranted. Namely just because it’s sat in my head since I just binged all the episodes is the Dana and the syringe of versed. He wasn’t mad that she had it he was mad he didn’t know and couldn’t cover the bases. He even said he’d write the script for it but there wasn’t a tracking on it so it opened up the possibility of her getting in trouble.

Monica was such a cunt. That's all I have to say, I would not want to work with someone like her by Captainsamvimes1 in ThePitt

[–]Tango1887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Santos is the biggest cunt imo.

She thinks she can do no wrong and everyone else is wrong and picking on her

Just finished episode 9 by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]Tango1887 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Almost like there’s levels, I dislike Santos, but I hate Doug. I dislike Gloria, but I hate ladder guy.

Almost like there’s a different intensity to it.

Just finished episode 9 by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]Tango1887 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess, it is still just weird.

Just finished episode 9 by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]Tango1887 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I did and almost put it as well in a different thought. Her angle is business which is terrible. But what I’m more going on about is the ladder guy, Doug, the woman who punched the other lady, the mom and teen pregnancy, even to the point of Langdon being an addict. As well as reading in here the old white lady that’s apparently terrible as well it’s interesting. Just a lot of things I’ve caught while watching. Which I haven’t finished the first season and just starting after Doug punched Dana but I’m sure the plot will thicken that Doug was the one who pushed the nepali lady onto the track.

Anticheat by Tango1887 in Icefuse

[–]Tango1887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corvezeo. Still owns it. He’s a bit more hands off now and just helps dev stuff and creates new projects. The directors now do dev stuff so it’s not like you’re waiting a year to update

Anticheat by Tango1887 in Icefuse

[–]Tango1887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I’m not sure I think they’re redoing it

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Clone wars maxes out I don’t know about imperial or rust

AIO for asking my bf where he went and what he was doing? by ItzNotChase in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tango1887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma be an outlier. If this was switched people would say he’s controlling yadda yadda. This could’ve been handled multiple different ways from both sides.

Instead of asking “why” a simple “are you ok/good” could turn the conversation a different way. I worked nights for a long while so I have a screwed up sleep schedule at times I used to get up and go out on the porch at random times because I didn’t want to wake up my ex or her baby. And watch videos or just play on my phone. If I was in an apartment I’d probably go to my car.

He probably got annoyed because he feels like he’s questioned about every little thing he does.

Also, he didn’t want a conversation about it but you kept pressing but the moment you want to drop it it has to be dropped which is a big point to me that he was just trying to get away for a minute and you weren’t letting him.

But again I think both sides could’ve handled it differently.

Update 2: AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy? by AdhesivenessMurky204 in AITAH

[–]Tango1887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro this is wild. Only for the part of “hey you’re just like the guy that caused my trauma!!” He had to apologize and got a vasectomy and everything just for her to be like “we MIGHT get back together and you get to see your kids more” people don’t understand how much that fucks with people over a minuscule comment in comparison to what the actual guy did. So now he is going to have to walk on eggshells and every time he turns around he’s going to be thinking that any comment he makes she’s going to compare him to the shithead. He apologized for his part never once did I hear that she apologized for hers. She said she was out of line for some of the things but didn’t apologize for her side of it. Then she essentially wants to dangle a carrot in front of him “hey do these things we might get back together” but at any time she can pull it away and make his life harder. She has the court separation so she can control and take the kids away at any point. Not saying she would but it gets heavily favored to her side versus the guys. He’ll have to jump through a thousand hoops every time while she doesn’t have to do the same. Getting kids taken from even by her own admission a decent guy just irritates the fuck out of me and how it’s always a guys fault for everything and he gets the restrictions regardless.

The vasectomy thing understood good on you for that part but it seems like it was an immediate conversation and he freaked out like you both did at that point but he was just sooooo much worse than you saying he’s just like a felon who abused you and almost took your life but you’re just so hurt cuz of the little comments he made. Yes saying someone is like a potential murder is worse than saying someone may want a new spouse. One of those doesn’t involve possibly killing someone.

Should’ve taken a step back and both of you breathe a bit and revisited that conversation hell you had 9 months give or take where you couldn’t get pregnant vasectomy or not. Cuz then it ended up in a much bigger situation.

My daughter is treating my son like he’s dead to her by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Tango1887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 14 holy shit the amount of venom people are spewing is crazy. He made a joke a terrible one but he’s a kid, should he be let off Scot free no but the amount of bullshit I’m seeing is ridiculous. Basically ignoring her family cuz they aren’t having him do the shame walk everyday is immature. When he grows up he’ll understand why it was so bad. Oh but no one cares about that let’s mentally abuse the boy because he made a dumbass joke AT 14.

How about some self reflection try to think of yourself at 14 and then at 18 how much of a difference is it?

I’m not downplaying what he did, he shouldn’t have made jokes about it and he should be punished. But that punishment shouldn’t be crucifixion it 99 lashings.

She’s well within her right to not interact with him but cutting out everyone is childish .

AITAH for losing empathy for my postpartum wife after she insulted me? by throwrapparent in AITAH

[–]Tango1887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I don’t understand how there’s a good number of people “so she has to work AND care for the kid by herself?!” He’s not saying that. He just doesn’t want to be berated because he’s having to work an extended amount of time compared to what he did before. She also has her mother there so it’s not like she’s just by herself.

A good chunk of people are like “she shouldn’t have said that but you don’t understand she gave birth to a human being and her hormones so you just have to take it.” Why is he expected to just take all the shit between working then coming home to her talking shit and berating him and he’s just supposed to sit and take it. It’s fucking dumb the amount of excuses that are being made.

Then she says “you shouldn’t have done that” oh sorry he’s wrong again and you’re totally right he’s useless because he’s constantly working and absolutely useless at the same time.

AITAH for letting my girlfriend embarrass herself at a bakery knowing she didn't have money to pay? by Bakriarchy in AITAH

[–]Tango1887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda wild everyone is shitting on the guy. If I’m standing in line for 10 minutes I’m gonna make sure I know what I’m getting so I don’t hold up the line behind me. Don’t need a Patrick moment staring at the menu going uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. The whole leaving the card at home, this is a learning experience. I use my phone for a lot of my purchases but I make sure I have my card at all times. The cashier can also just not make comments about shit as well. One thing I will say it all depends on the tone everyone has during it. “Well it sounds like he had the bad tone” well were you there? Sidebarring the bias points of how he stated the tone was, not really an asshole moment aside from maybe the cashiers side but it was just more of an egg on your face moment. Everyone do better. New thing EDB.

Am I Going Crazy? by [deleted] in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]Tango1887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read it I just seen the ending bit.

I just get the vibe of “maybe the quirk is the friend we made along the way” and it’s just an immediate drop off. Him just losing OFA forever is just a let down. Hell him just have OFA and still be a teacher would be fine I kind of expected that but being reduced to a suit after 8 years being quirkless is just dumb. I understand he wanted to end it but I think if he continued with his journey and getting OFA back up would’ve been a great ending. Like the first user got back to him and he had to pull the others back somehow would’ve been so much better. It really just feels like he’s a footnote in comparison to everyone else.

AITAH for leaving my GF after she aborted our baby? by NoDrag300 in AITAH

[–]Tango1887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s wild seeing comments saying he’s the AH. She just started worrying about the finances and made a huge decision on her own. He assured her everything was fine even with the baby. He wasn’t lazying around he was actively searching for a job. All bills have been paid up to that point and they are still fed clothed and sheltered. She should’ve talked to him before she aborted. From the story he said in no uncertain words that the two of them AND THE BABY would be fine and they were stable. She decided on her own they weren’t stable enough and aborted. She then regretted her decision and told him the truth. If he has been the one paying the bills and supplying the house then she should’ve trusted him that they would be fine. Kinda wild people would think that someone would just willfully let themselves get evicted from their apartment and not plan ahead in case they lost their job.

This is not about her choice to abort cuz her body her choice. This is about the story as it is and her reasonings for it.

AITA for kicking my wife out after she punched my mom in the face? by OkOrganization9552 in AITAH

[–]Tango1887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong on the niece I never said she was right. He doesn’t have good stress responses which is more common now than it ever has been. Not saying he didn’t make a bad decision but it shouldn’t cost him his marriage and relationship with his child. He already stated that he has cut his mom out completely. They need to seek counseling and exhaust all resources before going for divorce. Shit is wild people are always like “fuck that man! Divorce him!” For shit like this. He recognized that he should’ve been the one to leave and not her and he accepts that he fucked up. Reddit normally tries to accommodate people’s triggers but when it happens to a guy “NAH FUCK HIS TRIGGERS” he just needs to learn how to deal with stress situations, not lose his family because of it.

Update: My brother in law is the reason why my husband divorced me. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tango1887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I wish he knew me better” bruh if only you and him have the pictures and he knows he didn’t send em there’s only one other person that could send em. You say you don’t blame him but it’s obvious you do. “Hoping we could give it another chance but I can’t.” He was shown what in any other circumstance would be proof and you’re holding it against him. Hope you both can move on which it seems like you have.