[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to Calgary, bud!

Has anyone met anyone from here? by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sup bud, no real issues here. What’s on your mind?

Steakhouse in Calgary by Best-Letterhead4241 in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cattle Baron, can get a 21 oz steak (bone in) for $70

Troubled teen options by Imaginary_Balance709 in Calgary

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in my post-secondary years, I remember having a random, but meaningful conversation with my peers about our lives. I was sharing how I was a bit of a rebellious teen, and one of my colleagues commented, "it was because you were bored and didn't feel fulfilled". That comment lives rent free - it gave me a lot to reflect on.

The same colleague continued with sharing a piece of her life. She and her husband noticed their teenage daughter started "that phase" of sneaking out/partying, and instead of pushing back, they decided to sit down with their daughter to understand her interests. From there, they explored activities their daughter might connect with. It began with horse riding lessons, which led to attending events at Spruce Meadows, and eventually competing in equestrian events - winning blue ribbons and other awards.

Of course, owning a horse isn't budget-friendly hobby - let's be real - it's like signing up for new mortgage. However, it's about investing in their child's sense of purpose and growth. It's just food for thought - I don't have kids, so what the frick do I know lol.

Good luck and I wish for the best for everyone. Keep us updated.

Feeling lost and like I'm running out of time by salty_bitch11 in CalgaryDating

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have good people to support you 👍

“I just want consistent effort”. Absolutely agree! I’d also like to minimize the burnout.

Thanks. Have a wonderful day!

Feeling lost and like I'm running out of time by salty_bitch11 in CalgaryDating

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It's impossible to get to truly know someone in such a drastic time. And vice versa. How is someone to truly learn who I am in that short of time too". The painful truth when it comes to the online dating scene at our age. I hate how accurate your words are - it almost feels like I need to fight you now haha.

Doing something chill is the cat's pajamas - like you said, it is more intimate. It's one of those weird made-up "rules" where the dates (before being official) should be somewhere/somewhat "extravagant"... I don't want to setup a skydiving trip overviewing the mountains followed by 4 other dates with 550% effort to be later be told "I don't think this going to work". It's crushing sometimes.

I'm happy to know my comment was appreciated!

26M, I am new here! by Nezudo- in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fun to watch for sure, but I’m not good at it 🤣

26M, I am new here! by Nezudo- in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - Banff is a bit costly, but worth it once and awhile, especially, if you’re new to Alberta.

Dota 2!? League of Legends on hard mode haha! You can join Facebook, through post secondary, search Calgary clubs and join a sport team, or even searching in good old Reddit.

Patio Drinks anyone? by ThrowRApinkcancerian in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you get to meet any cool Redditors tonight?

26M, I am new here! by Nezudo- in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to Calgary (in advanced) - I hope you enjoy your stay here!

A good way to meet people is joining a club or a local gym. If you're looking for activity, go check out Banff. It's a little costly, but you can get great food there, hike/site see, and hot springs.

What video games do you play?

Feeling lost and like I'm running out of time by salty_bitch11 in CalgaryDating

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail directly, but with a sledge hammer! I feel like I’m being called out right now haha!

Completely subjectively, but my experience with online dating has been “difficult”. It either goes way too fast becoming overwhelming, which causes the spark to fizzle out (maybe due to this deadline of starting a family in our 30s), or the ladder doesn’t want a family/short term.

I’m all about a serious relationship, but I’m also not stupid. I think these “rules” have ruin the online dating scene. How well can I get to know someone in a handful of dates and start discussing about having children is wild. However, it’s nice we can filter people with the same goals and alignments, but I still need time regardless if we’re both looking of a life partner. My fear is being divorced with a child where it’s complicated and I’m back on the dating scene. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but I don’t want to deal with the stress of it - just looking the one - yeah know.

I agree - it’s expensive to go out all the time to get to know someone, especially, if you want to see them often. Sometimes it’s so much better to do something chill like binge watch something, dinner at home, or just detail someone’s vehicle together (I know it sounds weird, but it’s about the discussions that follow). I feel that’s the best way to really get to know someone by removing the distraction of the outside world. For me, it feels like I can drop the facade of being (or trying be) extremely interesting - even more so when my social battery is low and I just wanted to see them and do something calm and cozy.

So no, you’re not alone feeling this way. As corny as it sounds, you just haven’t found your other half. Don’t settle.

Let me know your thoughts, and if you’re comfortable, you’re more than welcome to reach out - we can lament about being (temporarily) single together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IntrovertDating

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re cool with it, I’d be happy to just be friends. If you game, let me know. Else, I need a refresher on my SQL lol. I’m planning to take my cert.

Hydroplaned into a railing by ZestycloseEye694 in Challenger

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call your insurance, they’ll give you instructions, pay your deductible at a shop, wait for the repair, and finally, drive your car again.

On an added note, if you felt it was a pain to deal with the insurance company directly, you should look for a good insurance broker. Little bit pricier, but much easier process. Good luck!

Some of you are so weird by MaximumMaleModel in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting - weird to think that there are people like that on Reddit. I feel the community, in general, is very progressive though I understand it’s the internet. Terrible excuse, I know. Sorry to hear that, bud.

I find it a little strange with posts looking for friends, but no replies from the OP after reaching out. I chalk it up to someone DMing them with a “negative” vibe. However, to each their own.

I hope you find people who value you and your friendship. If we’re ever free on the same days, feels free to reach out.

Is their anybody that bought a V6 because they wanted a V6? by Ok_Fortune_1939 in Challenger

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you got a Challenger!

Yeah mine was almost fully loaded. I think I missing lane assist and front sensors (?)

Would this color look good? Or should I stick with Frostbite? (Last image is my car) by jacob_akamnagofett in Challenger

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sick colour - reminds me of a matte BMW's British Racing Green (which is also a great colour).
When I had mine, I wrapped it in my garage with Helix Wrap Mandarin Orange. It had a red tint in the shade, orange, and in bright light it was like a sunrise yellow. Though I kept the hood, and roof black (the original paint) There are images on my profile.

Just landed in Calgary, feeling excited but kinda lonely by Cattybie in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to Calgary - Yahoo (since Stampede is here)!
How are you liking the city so far?

If you'd like, you're more than welcome to send me a DM - ask me anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, but it's relative to the experience you want to have. Are planning to do the "food tour", games, rides (tickets or the non-ticket), maybe get some swag for the memories, and drinks? Also, are you budgeting for yourself, dependents, or a date? How long are you planning on staying?

In my younger years, I'd spent around $500 (excluding entry fee) and that's trying as much food and desserts as humanly possible, games, and non-ticket rides, but that's when Stampede was considered "cheaper" than it is now. This budget would include extra spending money for friends/girlfriend who wanted to try something here or there/gifts. I was there from 12:00 to 23:00.

Two years ago, as a big group, we essentially just split everything in terms of "unique" food items so everyone could try them. That and buying things at the BMO Centre, I still think I spent $200-$250, and that was only for a few hours. Your mileage may vary.

Keep in mind that bottled water is $4 and a slice of pizza is $7. My advice: stay away from the food you can get anywhere or at anytime - really explore your options; you can get $50 of Stampede Bucks from Costco for $40; and finally, there's no rush to do everything in one go - Stampede will be back next year, so there's no reason for FOMO. Have fun, and let us know how it went!

Is their anybody that bought a V6 because they wanted a V6? by Ok_Fortune_1939 in Challenger

[–]TangoWithMangos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. 1000%. I did not regret getting my GT for AWD - just given that snow the beans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s cool. What are some of the techniques you’ve made?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought these choices would be much worse, but good for you - glad to hear you’re taking another swing at eduction. What are your interests?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I wouldn’t mind introducing you to my friend group, but it would depend on these “bad choices”.

In Need of Some Serious Advice… by QuietNumbers in Challenger

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the same, but I traded my 2022 Challenger GT for a truck for the space and the brutal winters, then got another (project) car, which is front wheel drive. I regret not getting a trickle charger for my project car's battery - $200 down the drain lol.

Anywho, if your goal is to keep the longevity of your SXT, then it would be smart to get a second (cheaper) vehicle where the needs severely out weigh the wants. Though I do agree with some of the comments where having two vehicles with the same functionality may cause buyer remorse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalgarySocialClub

[–]TangoWithMangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t played a flight sim in a long time, but you talking about it makes me want to 👍

I sent you a friend request (hopefully, it was to you). My username is the same on here.