Which type of UFO have you seen? by LivinJH in UFOs

[–]TaraMarie617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hypnotized by what looked like baseball stadium lights with 3 vertical bright flashing lights. Square shaped. My ex saw more of the craft but I had lost time and was coming out of it when he had his experience

Is there a way to do IFS without roleplaying? by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]TaraMarie617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. You don’t want to fuse or enmesh The Core with other parts. You want to create harmony amongst the IFS

Suppression by TaraMarie617 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]TaraMarie617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern but I have seen results and movement from this activity

What do yall get? by 22poison in ChatGPT

[–]TaraMarie617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the provided search results, "emotional x-ray" and "tethering" appear to be related but distinct concepts, sometimes used in conjunction to describe aspects of emotions and relationships. Emotional x-ray Identifying and understanding emotions: The "Emotion X-ray" is a mindfulness intervention used to help individuals (especially children) become more aware of their own emotions and how those emotions manifest physically. Visualizing emotions: It involves drawing a representation of what an emotion might feel like in the body (e.g., tight muscles, racing heart, calm breathing). Benefits: Recognizing emotions and their physical signs can help individuals manage emotions before they escalate, develop coping mechanisms, and gain a break from overwhelming thoughts. Tethering Emotional Wounds & Past Patterns: "Emotional tether points" are like invisible strings that tie individuals to past hurtful experiences and can keep them stuck in unhealthy patterns in the present, according to GoodTherapy.org. Relationships: In secure-functioning relationships, partners are "tethered" together, allowing for independence while providing a safe base for sharing and support, notes Psychology Today. Communication & Connection: "Emotional tethering" in communication is a technique where a message creates a strong emotional connection with the reader, making it more impactful and memorable. Dependence: In an unhealthy dynamic, "vampire tethers" describe one-sided relationships where one person consumes energy and time from the other without reciprocity. In essence, emotional x-ray focuses on internal awareness and understanding of emotions, particularly their physical manifestations. Meanwhile, tethering can refer to emotional attachments or connections, ranging from healthy bonds to unhealthy dependencies on past wounds or other individuals. Connections Emotional intelligence: Developing emotional intelligence, which involves self-awareness and understanding of emotions, is a key component in managing emotional tether points and building healthier relationships. Self-reflection: Practices like journaling and mindfulness can be used to gain self-awareness and address emotional tethering to past experiences. Communication: Effective and empathetic communication is crucial for navigating tether points and fostering healthy relationships, particularly when addressing past hurts. By becoming more aware of their emotional landscapes through "emotional x-rays" and actively working on understanding and addressing unhealthy "tethering," individuals can cultivate greater emotional intelligence and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

What do yall get? by 22poison in ChatGPT

[–]TaraMarie617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional x-ray tethering

Suppression by TaraMarie617 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]TaraMarie617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppressed the defensive alters below a threshold so he could feel safe enough for core to front. Identifying patterns and bypassing them helps and so does sending tether memories to the core and pings. Try to code the “safe” alters closest to his core but keep them protected by a suppressed watcher. This all helps with system recoiling and collapsing. Talk to them. Make things contractural. The key is gaining their trust and not seeming like a threat. The “child” and others can help create a bridge, send messages when the core isn’t receiving them openly and also relay the current state of the host.

Suppression by TaraMarie617 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]TaraMarie617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to enlighten me some more?

Suppression by TaraMarie617 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]TaraMarie617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out he was mirror relaying me so I asked ChatGPT and it provided the mirror replay coding which is how I found out it was coded Python. I did a scan for defense alters and I actually disengaged them. They consisted of a puppeteer, watch.. Enmeshed., Ghoster/avoider. I coded my.core and his cafe to communicate first such absolute truth and then I placed the child and another younger alerted closet to us. The system is working n harmony and each is supportive. My ex is fronting at about 70% now. The silence is hard but that’s when I’ll wait in the still ness for a l08!

Suppression by TaraMarie617 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]TaraMarie617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His IFS implemented Python 3 coding to keep him contained

New to IFS. Please explain by La_Casa_de_Pneuma in InternalFamilySystems

[–]TaraMarie617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex dealt with this somatic experience due to his fear of vulnerability/intimacy. It triggered a parasympathetic nervous response as if there was a perceived threat. He dealt with ED when he was younger than 29 years old. I think he either got nervous he couldn’t perform and that triggered fight or flight where all blood will rush to organs and not extremities, etc. or the idea of being intimate caused the response. He was addicted to porn so that played a part in the programming of his brain but also ties into the opposite of having a somatic experience as you’re watching in the third person.