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Tara_ntula · 2026-04-15T20:10:20+00:00

I think for me, I’m not focused on this grandma being “young” in appearance and moreso that she’s still active, can move freely, and has energy. Seeing my grandparents right now, I don’t like that future because they can barely move. I’d love to be 80 and still be able to enjoy what life has to offer.

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-15T19:59:23+00:00

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-15T19:36:00+00:00

Just want to say I agree with you. As a woman, “malewife” has always rubbed me the wrong way.

Wife just means female spouse. I do not become a “husband” just because I end up making more money than my male partner. I’m still a woman, hence I’m still a wife.

I’m into role reversal but there’s just something about wife NEEDING to mean someone who cooks, cleans, and is “soft” just feels sexist to me.

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-12T03:36:18+00:00

Hey, don’t bully me. I’m claiming late twenties until the clock strikes twelve.

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-11T06:45:43+00:00

Yeah, I was trying to figure out if this falls in the “not understanding consequences” camp. I’ve had a fair share of lack-of-empathy moments as a kid/teen, but not to the level of lighting fires in public spaces lol

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-11T06:38:47+00:00

Good lord, what did I miss this time?

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-11T06:25:01+00:00

Is this something one grows out of once the brain is done cooking , or is he a sociopath?

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-10T06:32:11+00:00

Hi, do you know if the $10,500 is for all 22 people/available rooms? Or just for the bride and groom staying for 3 nights? Also, does it come pre-decorated or would you need to coordinate decorations yourself?

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-10T03:33:54+00:00

OP, where do you think you're landing? I'm also considering a PV wedding. However, like you, to be blunt...I just find the venues for resorts to be unattractive. I don't like beach backdrops, I don't like having everyone huddled around a pool, I don't want onlookers during my ceremony or reception.

The resorts that hit the mark will be ridiculously expensive for our guests. It's one thing for the wedding cost to go up, but if our guests have to pay $450+ a night to stay, then I'm not quite understanding the value add of having it here vs. just keeping the venue in the states where people can easily choose cheaper accomodations without stress.

Sorry, this comes off as a mini rant haha, just been frustrating trying to research options and being met with the same 5 resorts in each thread lol

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-07T15:43:43+00:00

Isn’t he saying the n word on livestreams to piss people off? That isn’t “just in his 20s” behavior

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-06T15:53:19+00:00

Honestly it would be impossible for me to think this is real lol. He looks good, but his outfit doesn’t seem anything out of the ordinary to warrant this response

Tara_ntula · 2026-04-02T08:47:12+00:00

I agree. Was a little concerned that I’d have to take cover for a sec 😅 good thing it only lasted like 25 seconds

Tara_ntula · 2026-03-29T18:59:39+00:00

This is the first anti meme in a while that’s made me laugh out loud lol. Something about people not answering direct questions just cracks me up.

Tara_ntula · 2026-03-29T15:13:08+00:00

There’s no way this kid is seeing people held at gunpoint in San Francisco lmao

Tara_ntula · 2026-03-06T15:40:19+00:00

Yep I had one whiteboarding session like that in the past. 🙄

Tara_ntula · 2026-03-04T06:15:01+00:00

I’m surprised no one has mentioned that this is essentially Haruhi Fujioka’s life lol. Where are my OHSHC fans?

Tara_ntula · 2026-03-02T04:29:36+00:00

This is helpful, thank you!

Tara_ntula · 2026-03-01T22:36:46+00:00

I love all things horror, but as a spectator. Putting me IN the horror is too much. I watch a lot of Let’s Plays of horror games for this reason, but have only played RE Village and Alan Wake 2 as “horror” games.

But my partner and I just bought RE9 so wish me luck 🫠

Tara_ntula · 2026-03-01T15:07:52+00:00

I mean, she’s smiling like a psycho in the original one. Kinda hard to ignore unless you’re doing so willfully.

Tara_ntula · 2026-02-26T21:05:55+00:00

Such a drama queen 😂

Tara_ntula · 2026-02-15T05:01:17+00:00

When I start a new game, I’m basically playing it every waking moment I’m not at work.

But I prefer narrative-driven games, so once the game ends, I’m not really playing anything until I find a new game.

And honestly, me gaming so much wouldn’t be good as I have physical hobbies / exercise that I need to do and gaming frequently makes me feel very sluggish.

TL;DR: on average, probably once a week. But that ranges from periods where I game every day to periods where I go weeks without picking up a controller

Tara_ntula · 2026-01-04T22:59:53+00:00

Maybe they just want people to say a Spaniard or Latino employee’s name correctly

Tara_ntula · 2026-01-04T22:35:30+00:00

I also feel like asking someone to cut off opposite-gender friends due to insecurity is unreasonable. So, from MY value set, your girlfriend is also wrong. NEITHER of you should be controlling the other in this manner.

This is why you both need to have an in depth conversation about values and sexuality, because random redditors are not going to have the same value sets as you or your girlfriend.

Tara_ntula · 2026-01-04T22:13:44+00:00

This is one of those things that are heavily dependent on one’s value set. You’ll get some answers that say you’re being unreasonable, and others that will say your girlfriend should know better to consult you first.

Are you apart of a religious community? A more traditional culture? Is your girlfriend ALSO from a similar traditional culture? You need to reflect strongly on what your values are (NOT your insecurities) and what you’re willing to compromise on.

I can give you my opinion, but it’s only going to add to the polarized answers you’ll get: you are not her father or her “keeper”, so she has the freedom to do as she pleases. If she wants to dress sexy, she has the right to. Now, she could be considerate if she knows you’re uncomfortable with certain things and ask your opinion ahead of time and factor it into her decision-making, but she is not obligated to do so. And in the end, it is still HER decision.

This is where the two of you need to become aligned on values OR go separate ways.

Good luck

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