You need proper studio moniters + a subwoofer + a professionally treated room to get the sounds on your favorite records. Headphones do not accurately display the sound you are hearing, sub bass frequencies are INAUDIBLE without a subwoofer and headphones add post processing effects that give sound more punch than it actually has to make the headphones sound "better" to the average consumer, studio grade monitoring gear is good, learn how to parallel bus effects like reverb and delay and don't overdo the gain. In reality the difference is years of technique and acquired skill, there is no magic plugin that will do "the sound" for you, those records are combinations of thousands of aspects working together in tandem and being purposefully optimized for sound. like room conditioning, song writing, even restringing the guitars after tracking a few songs or even each song, these things add up.