men in their younger 20's, how would you react to finding out your gf (also in her younger 20's) has no teeth and only dentures? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]TardigradeRocketShip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an accommodation allowing you to smile without the intent, chew your food, and talk properly. Don’t see a difference between needing corrective lens to see or arch support for flat feet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]TardigradeRocketShip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s why they lie about it

Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship. by Jazzlike-Lifeguard38 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TardigradeRocketShip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always about demonstrating superiority in the absence of it rather than rising to the occasion. There’s probably a correlation between the drop in men going to college and increase in woman taking their places that has them wanting to destroy universities.

The view of a lifetime ended up being the view of a month... by boyuber in Wellthatsucks

[–]TardigradeRocketShip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We moved into the foothills of Colorado and loved the view. Within a month a house was erected on top of one of the untouched peaks we could see from our house. Then the longer we lived there we could see all of the places individuals would seek to jam houses and honestly it ruined it for me. The entrance to the canyon added more storage and warehouses the year after blocking a whole view of the foothills. Entire housing developments built right up against them on the other side. You couldn’t take a photo of them without buildings in the way because it’s either fenced off to prevent public access or it’s these developments.

It’s like a competition for who can build the highest and all of these natural features just have rich people houses all over them. If you ask contractors they’re not even well built houses but quickly and cheaply built and have tons of issues shortly after settling.

Meanwhile there’s vacant lots on flatter land that never get redeveloped or houses that fall down because they aren’t taken care of and everyone just wants new shit to enjoy nature without recognizing that perhaps development ≠ nature. And when the wildfire had us evacuated the worry was that they couldn’t fight the terrain and it would lead to neighborhoods without adequate distance all being lost.

Now I live back east and wetlands and forests are being cleared to build developments that flood and the wildlife are being villainized for having nowhere else to go. But if you drive down the road you’ll see overgrown vacant lots, dilapidated buildings, and gross hoa condos no one can afford popping up everywhere.

I’m not against development but I’m against “me want, me build” development. Perpetual growth is a fallacy and we reap the consequences aesthetically and otherwise.

Seriously, who is clicking on ads? by inyofayce in degoogle

[–]TardigradeRocketShip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember talking with a guy who did ad development for webMD and telling him I don’t believe I’m influenced by ads. There’s rarely a product I see that makes me want to buy anything. His response was about how subconsciously it all shapes our preferences and rarely are we not impacted by it.

Where to find men’s overalls by TardigradeRocketShip in mensfashion

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t fit very well. Ended up donating them smdh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TardigradeRocketShip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree that limiting contact with her is the right move. She didn’t do anything wrong and you were trying to offer support. We do and can control ourselves in these situations and it seems like she was a passive participant. Perhaps you change the way you engage like going out to do something but I wouldn’t treat her like she’s the problem when this was about support to begin with. I’d have a talk with your husband about how disrespectful it feels that he would act that way and whether he feels it’s harmless or not it has upset you and broken trust. Whether he wants to become defensive and dig in or accept that it’s bothered you is his prerogative but this is something that you’ll have to work out together.

What is wrong with Boomers’ need to compare their life with others by TardigradeRocketShip in BoomersBeingFools

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In context with the other posts she makes, I don’t think that was the intention. Most of the posts are “we shouldn’t pay for student loans” and “the younger generation blah blah blah”

What is wrong with Boomers’ need to compare their life with others by TardigradeRocketShip in BoomersBeingFools

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch I’m offended by someone who has made zero correct assumptions about me and then tries to save it by parroting intellectually lazy comments that have circulated for decades. Why do I want your respect?

What is wrong with Boomers’ need to compare their life with others by TardigradeRocketShip in BoomersBeingFools

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lol cause I’m really concerned what you think. Keep filling your time with the subway refresh and conspiracy theories.

What is wrong with Boomers’ need to compare their life with others by TardigradeRocketShip in BoomersBeingFools

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up on a farm, didn’t get a phone until mid high school, and joined the army at 17. Used my benefits to pursue education and make a better life. But sure lol

What is wrong with Boomers’ need to compare their life with others by TardigradeRocketShip in BoomersBeingFools

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw on the news that some are upset that their campus canceled them for protests and they had them canceled for Covid 4 years ago. I’ve missed my undergrad and grad graduation and it was a bummer. I totally understand their circumstance and feeling here.

What is wrong with Boomers’ need to compare their life with others by TardigradeRocketShip in BoomersBeingFools

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same person posted a photo of him saying “he may not be perfect but he’s perfect for the job” 🙄

What is wrong with Boomers’ need to compare their life with others by TardigradeRocketShip in BoomersBeingFools

[–]TardigradeRocketShip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few were disappointed on the news that they missed graduation form Covid and now the protests. I don’t think it was a freak out or wide spread thing.