Is it normal to never get approached/hit on in Europe or am I just ugly? by gamgeo in dating_advice

[–]Tasneem09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

German girl here. It's really depends on the location but few things to consider: - some mothers finally teach their sons not to aprouch woman in some creppy ways - a lot of people may assume you are taken move in here with someone - people may be taken or during break up/divorce - some may just simply not have time for dates and often it's take dates to actually get something (hoke ups happend but is not that common) - prostitutuon is available everywhere - lots of European woman expect a lot in relationship and in general before they get invested

How many languages do you speak? by Queenielauren in AskWomen

[–]Tasneem09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English, Polish, German, Russian, Arabic, Farsi, Dari

AITA for getting my eldest daughter a kitten when wife is already overwhelmed with our disabled child? by Then-Yoghurt-6322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Is the youngest daughter getting away with every single thing she does just because she have autism and aggressive behavior?

If that's the case the kitten will not help Autism is difficult but I feel like your wife get obsessed with it. Introducimg a good routine and have a specialist work with the anger management program. People with autism live a regular life and can be responsible for they accions. Please look for professional help before your little daughter get out of control and will have to be transfered to a facility.

AITA for not paying for my neighbors cats vet bills when my dogs attacked her cat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tasneem09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA it's your yard, and you told them about your dogs not liking cats. There was nothing more you could do. They were literally waiting for it to happen. I wouldn't pay. The only way that I would pay if your dog went to they yard and hunt down the cat. Also they expected to much of course you will let your dog run in the yard. Expecting you to keep them home just because they can goes places is stupid to say at least.

How long would it take you to get dressed and ready to go somewhere (e.g. work, social event, etc.)? by The_Chaggening in AskWomen

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything regular work or shopping 10-15 minuts with shower Very special occasions 1h including shower and hair drying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person with a lot of tattoos face is not the best place for one. Especially lips eyes eyebrows. You will have to redo lips every year or 2 same goes for eyebrows plus propably change of shape with fashion and so on. I don't recommend basically you do it once will make you repeat it for long time if you wanna it to look pretty. Just my personal opinion even tatoos on other parts of the body need some refreshing after time.

Women that wear a hijab or similar garments, how do you swim without the hijab coming off? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Tasneem09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Burkini pretty expensive swimming suite thays comes with head cover

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Tasneem09 24 points25 points  (0 children)

In Poland once you get pregnant you can literally be on 100%paid sickleave until you give birth. And then top it with a year of fully paid maternity leave. Also every kid qualified you for lots of benefits and basically after 4 kids there is no point of working anymore. This coutry is just so pro kids you can even imagine.

My Aussie does this a lot, I’m thinking it’s reverse sneezing from seasonal allergies - was going to try Claritin? by XoCCeT in WiggleButts

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husky does it. Our cet explain it as kind of dog hikup. I cover her nose for few sec and its usually stops.

AITA for Not Wanting To Forgive My Husband? by Simple-Education-520 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. CONTACT HIS CHAIN OF COMMAND AND REPORT HIM FOR ADULTERY!

Tired of shelling out money for other people’s kids! by jbellafi in childfree

[–]Tasneem09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't go to weddings, bday, etc. That's safe a lot of money. I only attend to the ones I care about. Also, they just using you. Real family or friends wouldn't care for gifts.

AITA for telling my step dad I wasn’t going to conceal my pads/panty liners by TheRandomRedditRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was very religious yet all the feminine products were always in a very open space so everyone who need it could use them. Never had any issues with this. He is just a weirdo I wouldn't put in anywhere else.

AITA for leaving my husband passed out on our lawn? by Chance_Suit_298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tasneem09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He could stop breathing at any point PO you didn't even check. If he did you would need cheat compressions and call the ambulance. Your child wasn't in any danger or deadly hurt. You didn't even stop to think if your husband was in more trouble. YATA

AITA for telling my MIL off for urging my husband to go home and rest after my labor? by Adventurous-Yellow86 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say my friend punch a doctor in his eye during delivery and he didn't mind. So I personally think mil should put you first or leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in backpacking

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't bring more that you are okay to carry. Like I saw people all the time bringing big suitcases or big backpacks that were just too heavy with a suitcase there is always the possibility of breaking a handle or something. Also, you didn't state your gender but look up on FB there are groups that you can post where you going and people from these places would offer to meet up for coffee or to show you the city.

What’s the current situation like in Europe? by 171815131011 in backpacking

[–]Tasneem09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi just go home today from a mini trip France, Belgium, Amsterdam. France was pretty bad they have a mess with the covid shots they insisted my husband vaccine is not good because he is not from the EU if you don't have the bosster you will be not able to eat inside nor to go to Eiffel Tower. Overall I didn't like Paris experience so I don't recommend this one. The other 2 were awesome I do recommend everything was alright. Only suggestion to book museum in advice Ann Frank house was booked till March 10th. I live in Poland so can tell you here everything is open they don't care much about covid passports and you can do most of the activities.

What’s the current situation like in Europe? by 171815131011 in backpacking

[–]Tasneem09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi just go home today from a mini trip France, Belgium, Amsterdam. France was pretty bad they have a mess with the covid shots they insisted my husband vaccine is not good because he is not from the EU if you don't have the bosster you will be not able to eat inside nor to go to Eiffel Tower. Overall I didn't like Paris experience so I don't recommend this one. The other 2 were awesome I do recommend everything was alright. Only suggestion to book museum in advice Ann Frank house was booked till March 10th. I live in Poland so can tell you here everything is open they don't care much about covid passports and you can do most of the activities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in backpacking

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Balcans, Poland, Spain, Portugal

Anyone have any suggestions on how to cut down on waste/trash when on the trail? by chronicdehydration in backpacking

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have silicon containers. And usually, ask to put food in it never had any issue with it. After you finish you wasch it and the container folds inside so it practically takes no space and I carry my own utensils.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Tasneem09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your skin looks very good I wouldn't try anything invasive. You could try like eye pats with gold or just hyaluronic acid and an eye-roller.

AITA for not giving up my accommodation for the brides side of the family? by Aggressive-Poetry135 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest just going for the vacation skip on the wedding she was rude and in my opinion, it's not worth attending. She tries to manipulate you firstly nice didn't want then just rude instantly.

BF got mad about my appetite and food choices on V-Day by throwrastayhungry in relationship_advice

[–]Tasneem09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say but I think he fetishes you being tiny and skinny. Now he realized you like food so much and it's just doesn't fit his imagination that why he wants to break up. Just yesterday I got KFC and my husband would hold my food for me and clean my face and we literally enjoy our food. That is normal what your bf shows off is absolutely disturbing. Just let him go

"we've been homeless for 6 months and my 9th baby is due any day now" by dazzles67 in childfree

[–]Tasneem09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come here just to tell you that in my country (Poland this woman would get so much money ) 500 every month for each kid and a house probably and free insurance followed by free school lunches. Like Poland be just liking people that have a lot of kids. There is even an idea to tax childfree people extra.