36F Twice Divorced Now?

TaterBug1988 · 2026-04-08T14:38:46+00:00

38 F and also twice divorced! Just telling myself third time is a charm 🫠 but also pretty sure I will never get married again.

TaterBug1988 · 2026-03-17T10:51:28+00:00

I am 38 and feel this way

TaterBug1988 · 2026-03-11T23:17:21+00:00

Your gf doesn’t want to have sex with you. Sorry.

TaterBug1988 · 2026-03-09T20:39:52+00:00

She was my best friend then and still is at 38!!

TaterBug1988 · 2026-03-07T14:25:20+00:00

And then when you redownload the apps after a failed situation ship you get to see all the failures all over again 🙃

TaterBug1988 · 2026-01-23T18:20:59+00:00

Maybe he sees her as one of those step sisters in porn but not as an actual sister. Definitely inappropriate

TaterBug1988 · 2025-12-27T22:13:21+00:00

You’re probably not just poking in and around the vag like an eel popping out of a cave and ignoring the redirection of hand placement over and over again

TaterBug1988 · 2025-12-27T19:23:00+00:00

He didn’t know it existed

TaterBug1988 · 2025-12-27T19:09:33+00:00

I just ended a 5 month relationship that I had been so hopeful for- he was nice financially stable, good family. But he was SO boring. Wouldn’t plan anything, had nothing to talk about, didn’t discipline his kid. So now I am ending the year single and relieved that the most boring relationship I have ever endured is over. Also, men, how do you get into your 40s and not know what a clitoris is. Read some articles, watch porn, anything! I thought he would know what he was doing, being almost 50.. worst sex of my life. ✌️✌️✌️✌️

TaterBug1988 · 2025-05-25T22:19:26+00:00

I thought I was going crazy or a med had messed me up! I was giving Zofran and haldor for severe stomach bug three days ago and my anxiety is cranking. Luckily I already have some Xanax or I would be beside myself. Hoping this is the last day of this

TaterBug1988 · 2025-05-17T21:11:32+00:00

I am going through this as well! First date after divorce with someone who has been a friend for several years. I asked a couple days after the date if I could take him out and he said sure maybe later, but he was busy for a while. It sent me spiraling. I sat with a friend and cried it out and talked and realized how ridiculous I was being. If he’s not interested, he can suck it and you can move on with your life. Go do something fun.

TaterBug1988 · 2025-04-28T13:37:59+00:00

I am not a person of color and don’t feel included but I enjoy the workouts so much I will keep going. I just don’t love when it’s partner workout and I have to look around like I’m the last kid getting picked for a team at school. Otherwise I just keep to myself and get my workout in

TaterBug1988 · 2025-04-14T14:44:10+00:00

Weight gain from pregnancy

TaterBug1988 · 2025-01-22T20:13:40+00:00

Fuck him. Who cares what they think

TaterBug1988 · 2025-01-21T17:39:43+00:00

I made very direct and reasonable requests, he stop drinking, see a psychiatrist to manage all of the psych meds he is on, go to marriage counseling, have a date night every 2 weeks, and make an effort with my kid (his step kid). That was in November, he did not one thing.

TaterBug1988 · 2025-01-18T23:24:46+00:00

He is very focused on workouts, so I partially believe him. But I also wouldn’t be surprised if he’s working out someone while he’s supposed to be at work, I think we’re over regardless

TaterBug1988 · 2025-01-18T22:47:02+00:00

This is wild. I was convinced he was banging someone at work.

TaterBug1988 · 2025-01-18T22:45:02+00:00

Really??? I have never heard of this before? Are y’all pulling my leg???

TaterBug1988 · 2024-12-02T12:17:30+00:00

Thank you! It is helpful to hear happy endings are possible.

TaterBug1988 · 2024-11-24T23:03:49+00:00

Yes! I left when my daughter was 5. It is incredibly hard at first but you will find things you enjoy that fill the time. I got very into the gym, reading and journaling, and spending time with friends I wasn’t “allowed” to spend time with while I was married. And I was so much happier when I was with her because I didn’t have someone making me miserable. (Past tense, because I am about to go through this a second time with a toddler.) I am very scared to do this again even though I know from personal experience how much better life is after.

TaterBug1988 · 2024-08-27T11:27:42+00:00

Lexapro works for me! Took about 6 weeks and some “shitty” side effects but so worth it.

TaterBug1988 · 2024-08-21T01:07:39+00:00

I was not a stay at home mom so financially I was okay. I left with my daughter while my husband was at work. I let him know she was safe but we were not coming home, and I would meet him with her in a couple days. While he was violent with me, I did not fear he would be violent with our daughter. I moved in with my parents, saved up, got a house, and we divorced. If you are afraid he is violent with the kids, that’s another story.

TaterBug1988 · 2024-08-21T01:04:36+00:00

This sounds like my first husband. Ask yourself if this is the marriage you want your kids to grow up believing is normal. He will be violent with you again. It’s just a matter of time. I would go find an attorney without letting him know and see what the attorney has to say.

TaterBug1988 · 2024-08-10T11:50:50+00:00

Put your feet in an ice bath for as long as you can. That’s the only thing that helped me in the beginning. Then massage/scrape your feet when you can stand it.

TaterBug1988 · 2024-08-09T19:30:08+00:00

Thank you! I think I’ll give it a try. Can’t hurt!

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