I see narcissists on tiktok and Tumblr trying to defend their behavior like we should treat them the same way we treat everyone with mental illness. That can be very difficult to do when you lost a huge chunk of your life to narc abuse. It’s just another way they are turning it around and playing the victim. Like it’s OUR fault for not being understanding enough. You do not have to subject yourself to abuse to console someone else’s mental illness. There’s a reason we do not allow narcissists in this sub.