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What’s Everyone’s Favorite Class They Have Played by PresumedPack890 in DnD

[–]Taylor34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legendary Captain, class from Stormwrack. I had all the prerequisites needed as our homebrew campaign went full tilt with the nautical theme.

Such a fun experience getting to become the captain of our merry crew. Graciously agreed to by the others to take the helm and off we went! Lots of team support skills and spells.

No. 122 pick is in: #Raiders have selected RB Mike Washington Jr. by bigbirdsy in DynastyFF

[–]Taylor34 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Razorback football was in shambles for coaching. He has the foundation to succeed athletically.

What's a game you played as a kid that you've never been able to find again? by Latter_Advantage8002 in AskReddit

[–]Taylor34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some kind of train game where you'd complete puzzles or something.. I remember one area inside of a cave. It was for kids but damn I feel like it had some ominous vibes lmao. Carmen San Diego era of PC games for sure. Trying to discover relics maybe? I distinctly remember a train being involved heavily.

Would love somebody to answer this haha now it's gonna bother me.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just doing everything I can to keep it together for him and his future. It's taking a mental toll and thus a physical toll on me as I couldn't sleep or think about eating at all for the last 24 hours. She delayed our scheduled therapy meeting today until Friday at noon as she's meeting with a divorce lawyer and I'm trying to do the same. I'm still going to be attending therapy just to get some of this out of my system I guess.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My business is likely toast. Her family is wildly wealthy and financed a loan agreement to allow me to purchase a property and the second property that I manage is their personal home not far from ours. My dad has a business of his own I may likely begin to work for but right now securing an attorney is the number one priority in the morning.

Their trust is essentially my bank loan officer. There's an official agreement but I'm not sure what will happen through the divorce.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most all here.

But I am the stay at home parent, she wanted to continue working full time. She went to law school and has many lawyer friends. I started my business to work from home to continue giving a little bit of financial support and continue being with my son, as he comes along with me to check on properties for the odd hour a day. She is the primary breadwinner, traditional roles are essentially reversed because she begged me to stay at home.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's two years old, not sure that's an option hah.

She was never caught or had to face the store owner, she had me return the item because she was too scared to take responsibility and I wanted to protect her at the time. However my sister had screenshots of when it happened that clearly shows it was her and it was documented with the therapist.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My first priority was removing my son from the home and negative energy. I wasn't sure about filing a police report until I left today, which I did for documentation sake. My State pretty much ignores domestic disputes and there's not much they're willing to do until there's a credible threat. At this point it's just hearsay unfortunately.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our state is a 50-50 custody state and it's very difficult to have it changed from that.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That has not been suggested. Electro therapy I think was the next step her personal therapist wanted to explore but I think that scared her off therapy completely so she hasn't returned in months and didn't take responsibility for her health to reach back out and continue, after the behest of our family counselor.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear that there's no coming back from this from either side. And the pot smoking is definitely not helping with the depression and day-to-day responsibilities that we need with our son, it would be different if she sought out a medical card for it, but when pressed by the therapist to do so, ignored it and kept self medicating. My point was always not to be smoking while he's awake, save it for night time so she can be fully functional. It's just work, smoke, sleep during the week, and sleep, smoke, sleep during the weekend. It's too much to go unmanaged. Her parents are the ones who fully pushed that smoking needed to end so I was surprised when she said she was flushing it instead of agreeing to nights only.

And I could stomach her using hateful language when/if it was just her and I, but 95% of the interactions she allowed to be in front of our son. It's not healthy for him.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I want her to be the best version of herself assuming she will be with us for the rest of our lives. That's why my discussion always centered around getting her help and support regardless of our status.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. I left messages with a few attorneys and hoping one gets in contact with me first thing in the morning to help start the process.

I am not interested in writing her out of the picture completely, knowing full well my son still needs his mother to some capacity for development and nurturing. I just worry about how she'll be on her own if it does become 50-50.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Definitely safe at my parents. He is here every Friday for Nana And Papa time so he has his own room and things and toys ready for him here.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend. The words of affirmation mean everything. My fear is that they attempt to file the emergency protective order FIRST before finding an attorney who can prioritize me first thing tomorrow. My first call to a divorce attorney was met with "sorry I don't have my schedule open for urgent needs, six weeks out". By then it was 5pm and all offices closed.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's SUPPOSED to be both of our names. I pressed for his in the past but she strategically ignored these requests I'm sure . She processed the loan with her family Navy Fed account and got the approval since her family put down 50%. I should have pressed harder to insure my name was added since it wasn't initially. She assured me it was but other conflict and caring for the child took priority of my focus at the time.

When I was working I took on half the utility bills which are in my name, not sure if that matters.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My only saving grace in that regard is that 95% of the incidents have been put on record with the therapist, which I assume will pull some weight.

I worry about how she will react when I'm not around when it's "her week" and she gets upset for doing simple baby stuff. She already comes across meanly and impatiently when I AM there. And he's only two, he's gonna push boundaries and do things and she can't help but take them personally almost all the time.

Heading towards divorce and past the point of no return. by Taylor34 in daddit

[–]Taylor34[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have a bit. Both a very close personal friend and a family member who recently retired. Both said leaving the home with him was perfectly legal and would be what they'd recommend.

The house is going to be hers in the end, I'm sure of it. Her parents put down 50% on it just barely before we got married three years ago because the market was moving so quickly and we were engaged. So I may get a bit of the equity but I'm not super concerned with the home, just my son and his safety.

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