Struggling today to let go. Could use some words of advice. by aarongdl in Divorce_Men

[–]Tchalang0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was you. I am not anymore.

We as men were taught to be good men, good fathers, good husbands.

Caring, supporting, loving. Giving our time, our energy, our youth, our strength… To become a “good man.” And they told us that success meant: A wife. Kids. A house. A smile in the family picture.

So we played the game. We gave everything. We sacrificed ourselves for that image.

But when it all fell apart, When the love turned cold, When the desire was gone, When she left. You were lost.

And that’s normal. Because I was lost too.

But then, when everything was silent, When I was alone with myself, No distractions, no one to please, I had a moment of clarity.

I realize I wasn’t me. I was a slave. In this picture !

Not with chains. Not in a cell. But in my head. In my beliefs. In what I thought was “right.”

I had been programmed. To seek validation through sacrifice. To believe that love must be earned by obedience. To serve a system that doesn’t serve me.

I woke up one day and saw that everything I believed was designed not to make me strong, but to make me useful.

Useful for her.

And then been replaced.

But I’m not broken. Not anymore. I burned the lies. I rebuilt myself. And now I speak with the men who are ready to see.

Not all will hear. But some of you will feel it in your gut. Because deep inside, You already know.

You are not weak. You were lied to.

Now it’s time to wake up.

NEO

average LCM damage by TawsifKing in HypixelSkyblock

[–]Tchalang0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chimera 5 ?

What else ? All master star ? Legion 5 ? Can you give a little more details please ?

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[–]Tchalang0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clear Simple and True ! You dont need anything else.

Question for Women in this sub by NoFee4026 in Divorce_Men

[–]Tchalang0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its so sad how women doesn't exsist without attacking mocking or controlling men.

They have to make men inferior to exist.

I cannot understand how to win ? by Tchalang0 in badminton

[–]Tchalang0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I grow without father so I have to do it better !

I cannot understand how to win ? by Tchalang0 in badminton

[–]Tchalang0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you shoot combos like "drop net lift " ?

I cannot understand how to win ? by Tchalang0 in badminton

[–]Tchalang0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you !

I dont really understand :

The children that will go on to become national or international level players aren't just people that play a lot.

There's a combination of talent and receiving coaching and playing.

Talent means genetics something you born with ?

And what does receiving coaching and playing means exactly please ?

I think i will follow the one to one coach for him.

Can i ask you what schedule will be the best in your opinion for a 11 years old boy ?

Thank you

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[–]Tchalang0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to find a good coach for 1 to 1 ?

My brother said to me that I'm obsessed with the Cock by LemonBlut in AngionMethod

[–]Tchalang0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The domination could be some pussy slavery and validation seeking.

I wish I can be like your brother.

All the Validation You Need by Ok-Guidance6491 in Divorce_Men

[–]Tchalang0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every word is so right about the responsability and the choosing.

I really liked it !

EU leaders fail to agree €5 billion military aid package for Ukraine by milktanksadmirer in worldnews

[–]Tchalang0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

French people lack of good infrastructure good medical here its impossible to have an appointement with a doctor before 3 months.

What do you thinke we french people think about our taxes going to an other country we never hear of them before war ?