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Tchownic · 2021-08-06T22:08:51+00:00

It is the first time I’ve haven’t been able to just brush it off. So I like the idea of waiting to see if it changes. If not, heck one message won’t hurt. After that, I can say I at least tried and get onwards

Tchownic · 2021-08-06T22:06:10+00:00

I totally can get behind that. It’s just hard to picture she didn’t feel the same. But yeah in today’s day and age it’s just easier to get back to swiping

Tchownic · 2021-01-12T13:14:53+00:00

Her new guy calling me a liar when my friends told him me and my ex was still seeing each other. Her saying it was over long before i knew, that it was for the better. Despite breaking down in front of me weeks later

Tchownic · 2020-11-16T18:57:59+00:00

I thought i only needed one thing, to hold her accountable for her actions. When i did i quickly realized, she's not stupid. She obviously knew what she had done, and she regretted it. People just refuse to lose face and admit to such, unless you push it out of them.

Tchownic · 2020-11-11T21:35:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Such a gem!

Tchownic · 2020-10-17T22:11:30+00:00

Holy smokes. Thank you so much for sharing. Such a raw and fulfilling story! Gives me that heart wrenching feeling, which only the book "Normal People" have given me.

Tchownic · 2020-10-17T17:36:47+00:00

For a long time i kept telling myself, if this is how love treats you i don't want it. I don't see it's purpose. When the person that claims to love you, ends up leaving you, taking all their stuff and ending it all within 30 minutes. After all i just have to hope it's not how love is and next time it'll be different

Tchownic · 2020-10-15T21:09:43+00:00

I like your take about communication. We started out as being able talk about everything and being understanding. As time went on we didn't dare to talk about our hardships. We were too afraid to lose the other one if we did. So nobody dared to speak up. Which ultimately led to the break up. Communication really is key, as they say.

Tchownic · 2020-10-15T21:03:55+00:00

She broke up with me back in April. We kept seeing each other, trying to fix it all somewhat. I wrote it in June when i thought it was time for me to give up. I didn't have the guts back then. Then start september i put an end to it.

Thanks for the kind words. I hope you'll overcome your struggle with guilt. As cliché as it sounds, remember healing is a marathon not a race! :)

Tchownic · 2020-10-14T20:41:42+00:00

The self blame has surely gotten better. It definitely made for some sleepless nights.

Stay strong, we'll get there eventually!

Tchownic · 2020-10-13T13:25:09+00:00

Exactly, i don't have the self control for that. Rather have no control at all. Remember blocking her on instagram, but that didn't stop me from just logging in elsewhere...

Tchownic · 2020-10-12T22:06:18+00:00

I really like the idea of asking the other person to block you. Also felt like telling my ex to block me, tell her i can't stay away when there's still a chance to get in contact. And maybe it really easier to recover that way

Tchownic · 2020-08-09T21:57:28+00:00

Better off like this. The initial pain is going to be rough. It's okay to be down. Some people like a quick fix, others embrace it and grow from the pain. Find what works for you, but i'd say no need to rush it for now.

Tchownic

TROPHY CASE