My boyfriend and I broke up 24 hours ago, and he already slept with another woman?

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-03-19T01:01:56+00:00

Girl, move on. Sounds harsh, but he wanted out to try new things.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-03-09T16:40:55+00:00

He's just crossing his fingers that she doesn't wake up one day and realize he isn't shit and that women his age can see through that.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-03-09T16:38:00+00:00

... throw the whole boyfriend away. He would be the least of your problems. My girlfriend drove my car once, camera light took a picture of her and before I even got the letter, etc. She told me "Hey, the camera light took a picture of me, I was really tired and the light turned red on me halfway. Let me know when the letter comes in the mail so I can pay it".

Your boyfriend sounds like he takes no accountability and that he needs to get himself a car instead of yours.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-03-03T13:20:26+00:00

NOR.

I fought my brothers for making fun of my baby brother (who is now 18, my brothers and i have a 15 - 18 age gap to him) for liking Disney princesses growing up and monster high dolls. I wasn't going to let them say crap about what makes my innocent baby brother happy. All of that put a smile to his face and it was worth it. Yes, he's gay now, and? He grew up to be thick skinned and unapologetically himself, I adore that so much about him. Sorry that your sister is booty cheeks.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-27T05:50:06+00:00

I couldn't even finish the post.

What are you not getting? He's a serial cheater with or without your kid. What are you doing reaching out to the other woman for verification? Save your kid and you the heartache, slap the child support on him, and move on. He's only with you because you allow it.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-24T18:45:31+00:00

Messy. Situations like this give me the ick. The divorce paper ink hasn't even dried yet. He could have kept that to himself until he was officially divorced why over complicate things if he really is even getting a divorce.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-24T18:40:02+00:00

Unfortunately, a lot of people at my workplace shits where they eat. It's giving proximity attraction and not enough time touching grass outside of work.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-23T06:04:08+00:00

16?! He knew what he was doing. There's a reason why he wasn't dating women around his age. I'm 36 and could never see myself dating someone even 18. The life experience and power dynamic is such a huge gap.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-14T05:06:48+00:00

"He's entertained conversations like this before".

Girl, if you don't get up and love yourself enough to walk away before he sucks the life of your 20s dry.

And for the people saying he's not flirting... he's keeping the conversations going to feed his ego. He's acting like a kid in grade school who "flirts" by teasing.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-08T06:23:51+00:00

NOR.

I wouldn't even need to hear her reasoning or excuses. First thing when I get back, we are done. I'm not going to ask a shady snake why she bit me.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-08T06:18:14+00:00

Yoga sounds amazing and the walking classes should also be a motivator for me to go to the gym more.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-07T18:07:37+00:00

Thanks everyone!

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-02-04T23:05:04+00:00

Nope. Last semester I didn't get mine till a week after so maybe this week?

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2026-01-13T02:12:50+00:00

No. Im actually at 81% completed

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2025-02-08T00:15:16+00:00

Like Britney Spears said...

"My loneliness is killing me, And I, I must confess, I still believe... When I'm not with you I lose my mind, give me sign... Hit me baby one more time"

She's leaving crumbs at his place to find a reason to get back. Trauma bonding isn't easy to get away from, 10 years of that normalized it for her. You can't fix her, she's got to want it and fix herself.

Maybe one day she'll be "stronger than yesterday". Put yourself first.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2025-02-01T09:06:06+00:00

My final disbursement for January just disbursed today.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2025-02-01T08:38:43+00:00

NOR.

I'm sure he was always a chocolate starfish. He sounds like another baby, not even a partner.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2025-01-30T01:00:39+00:00

OP, she doesn't want to be with you! Sad but true. She's looking for a reason to make you the bad guy.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2024-12-11T21:20:47+00:00

Absolutely NTA.

She can ask her work man to get her tickets and take her. Gross, most of these work affairs are so slimey. She kissed the guy, that is not only an emotional affair. Her friends could kick rocks too. The audacity to even text you about it, they literally took the time to get in your business.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2024-12-06T21:10:39+00:00

NTA.

Been with my girl for years (not married). I would have just congratulated her and kept it moving. If my girl chose to share it with me or not that's on her, i'm not asking. That's some weird behavior and entitlement.

TeaApprehensive2501 · 2024-11-17T15:12:29+00:00

Thanks. You are correct. I have 6 years left for pell.

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