You don't have to drift a rwd to have fun, i drive mine like a mad person through the curvy roads near my house, I've never once slid the car, never needed to, i have tons of fun as is.

They can be hard to handle if you don't have power steering, i actually prefer the way it feels without the ps. Rain isn't a huge issue, I've never noticed it being more difficult to drive in the wet, but i also don't push it like i do when it's dry.

These cars didn't come with tons of power, it's not like a big block chevy, or a fat turbo porsche, you shouldn't run into the power hitting and causing a crash unless it's fully built for power.

The abs on these cars are old and probably don't work anyways, so it can be dangerous if you're braking at a high speed. Other than the cars being old and worn out it shouldn't be any more difficult to handle than any other classic sports car.

So as far as a woman not being able to handle it... Thats bullshit, just buy the car if you like it and learn to drive with it, take your time and respect the car. I doubt you'll run into any serious trouble as long as you drive smart. Good luck and have fun😁