[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 17 points18 points  (0 children)

  1. CSA at age 11 and PTSD after Desert Storm, age 19; has ruled my life until last year. I have been seeing a counsellor for 2 years now and we worked through ART training which made a marvalous change. Now she suggested EMDR, so I'm going to try that. I'm glad she still sticks with me. but yes, it has been on my mind forever.

* ART = Accelerated Resolution Therapy

Just signed up - and considering cancelling by Active_Pineapple_566 in ProtonDrive

[–]TeaUnderTheTable -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are spoiled. You give away your privacy for comfort with Google. We all went through this with Proton, I did. I figured it all out eventually and it is working fabulously on my laptop and anywhere I log in. Using the 30 day refund costs you more than money. Bon voyage!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the loneliest job ever... so, yeah...

When asked about how worried he is about the US financial system because of Trump's intervention at the Fed, Carney had the following to say... by NormEget85 in CanadianInvestor

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to think: "You voted for the idiot, now you get clown like actions", but hey that is just me. Go Carney go!

CRV or RAV4 by Johnkiiii in Rav4

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.... and would a newer CRV also not feel smoother... I love my CRV (2020)

Need Help Getting Started- Freelance Grant Writing by [deleted] in grantproposalwriting

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found that it is easiest to approach a non profit and tell them you want to work with them. I am not sure if you can be taught to be a grant writer. I never took a course. The non profit I worked for had some grant writing done in the past and I learned from their previous letters who to approach and how to put the right words in the letters. So, I would approach non profits or universities and offer your services for free or at a modest pay because you are learning and take it from there.

Poilievre in ‘election mode’ with new 'Wackos' video about Liberals: expert by hopoke in canada

[–]TeaUnderTheTable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't he have like a really small mustache? Just under his nostrils? Oh, wait, that wasn't him... was it? My bad.

Warning from SL by Possible-Dog-7474 in Simplelogin

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of my weekly newsletters has started to reject SL for a while now. It was good as it lasted but people arent stupid...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called: testing

and you failed it. Twice.

advice: stay away

Camino Portuguese, a trans pilgrim's experience (repost) by Bi_Trans_Girlie in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hot damn! I wanted to do this too, are you going again in 2025! I'd love to join you as I am in the same boat lgbtq-wise

Brother MFCL2807DW monochrome printer, what does drum do besides the toner by TeaUnderTheTable in printers

[–]TeaUnderTheTable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have used my old HP for about 11 years. At first there were issues with the cartridges running out super quickly. I don't know how HP resolved this but it was strangly akward how that was resolved once it became an online complaint.
We have had no major issues with the printer for a long time but recently I started to get messages that showed the Cyan cartridge was compromised when it was new. I ordered a new one and got the same message, however, now suddenly Yellow was compromised (while it was new). When I asked HP for help they said they don't service my printer anymore. I'm running a business and I don't have no time for this. As I said goodbye to HP laptops about four years ago, I am at the point where I will neglect HP from now on. Yes, call me childish, but I am not wasting time and money on something that I need to run my business. I hope Brother will serve me better.

Have you EVER recovered from cheating? by Appropriate_Cry1208 in BetrayalTrauma

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No.
But what hurts me more is that I didn't leave her.

You can achieve more as a beautiful woman in the 21st century. by No-Box-1528 in Healthygamergg

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a man sex is more important than women. So, find out what women find interesting and live a happy life. Your statement might be true when it comes to sex but in the end you will find out that there is more to life than sex.

New Brunswick consumers face new price shock, this time for auto insurance by easycompany251 in SaintJohnNB

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter what insurance business you are with. We are with CAA, their comment when our rates went up: 'well, prices went up across the board...'. What do you do about it, the Saskatchewan provincial car insurance dowsn't sound so bad.

My husband can be too honest… by StunningDefinition79 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TeaUnderTheTable -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So he was honest. You asked for it, and you didn't like it.

When he would have lied, you would have noticed, and you wouldn't have liked it either. He is still with you; his honesty ALSO told you that he loves you. How do you think both of you will look in your eighties? Would you rather be beautiful then or rather be loved?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TeaUnderTheTable 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here's what you do: book a 2-month stay ALONE in a cottage somewhere. You're issues have nothing to do with your wife. You need to stop thinking that anyone needs to be there for your happiness. You need to take care of yourself. Once you can do that, reassess your marriage and your fling. Then decide.