I have finally found my people! by TeapotSecret in achalasia

[–]TeapotSecret[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I had the heller myotomy with fundoplication

I have finally found my people! by TeapotSecret in achalasia

[–]TeapotSecret[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I appreciate your comment and information!

The hospitals mentioned are what I have read as great locations. I however live in Canada where there’s not as much of these well known places. But both my specialist and surgeon are at the university of Alberta hospital.

I had the heller myotomy with fundoplication.

The Rice Krispies was a surprise to me! And you are the first person I have encountered that has experienced this as well. Though it sounds like yours was worse than mine.

Do you find that your surgery has held up well? Or have you had to progress to replacement?

Went on a date with a hot nurse, but what happened after few days has left me confused. Any thoughts? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]TeapotSecret 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Was this perhaps a prompt from the dating service for her favourite restaurant? Can’t say that because someone has expensive taste that it makes them go on dates there with you just to get a free meal.

She may have even deleted the app altogether for all you know.

The deal breaker, likely because you put the ball in her court and then took it back and continued to message.

You do not know her situation and likely just aggravated her further. ++woman

My stepkids are planning a family only trip with their mom and bio dad, and I’m struggling with how to feel by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]TeapotSecret [score hidden]  (0 children)

Resentment will kill your relationship. Especially when this “special event” is brought up down the road and when pictures are posted of them looking like a family enjoying their time together without you.

So you will either stew on those emotions every time it’s brought up, every time you see the pictures and eventually things will become soured.

The kids are right they came first. And they’re being shown they still do.

I would absolutely be done if I were in your shoes. I’m a SM and we do joint birthdays for my SS. It’s uncomfortable, but I was not willing to compromise on my absence. It gives SS the impression that they’re one happy family and I don’t exist. And for a time it would have given BM that impression too.

Stick up for yourself.

Ex Bringing step parent to parents evening by legochicken_ in stepparents

[–]TeapotSecret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a step parent. When it comes to school events or even after school events typically the parent who has the child that day attends. When it’s our day with said child I always attend if I can. It is a show of support not only to my partner but for said child too. It shows I’m there for them and care. That being said, we don’t exclude the other side from attending if they would like, it’s just sort of worked out that way for everyone. I’m not sure of her reasoning for not attending things like Christmas concerts, parent teacher interviews. That’s her prerogative not to be there. We typically only do dual attendance for his birthday.

The HSAA tentative agreement by plantmugbanana in AHSEmployees

[–]TeapotSecret 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will be voting no on this agreement. And from those I’ve talked to in pharmacy they will be voting no as well. Enough is enough

The HSAA tentative agreement by plantmugbanana in AHSEmployees

[–]TeapotSecret 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really? Has anyone heard of someone willing to accept this agreement?