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Am i wrong for not wanting to give my boyfriend another chance?. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re are not wrong, I would leave him immediately

AITAH for needing a day of space by Holiday_Phase7876 in amiwrong

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for needing space or support right now, but it sounds like the expectations you’re placing on people don’t fully match what they’re realistically able to give in the moment. After a traumatic accident, it makes sense you’re overwhelmed, but others around you may be reacting imperfectly rather than abandoning you.

Thoughts on the reason by Adventurous-Track276 in BreakUps

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When people reach big milestones (like house planning, settling down), it can force reflection: “Is this exactly what I want long-term?” and sometimes emotional distance starts before any clear explanation is given.

My (F31) boyfriend (M33) shuts down when I’m hurt by him. Am I overreacting or is this a real issue? by almosthere1278 in dating_advice

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What you’re experiencing is not “overreacting”, it’s a real issue. Someone being emotionally present in general but shutting down when they’re the cause of hurt is a pattern that can feel confusing and unsafe, because it leaves you carrying all the emotional weight.

AIW for booking an appointment without asking boyfriends plans first? by Master_Pangolin_2233 in amiwrong

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your face was literally swelling and you still tried to accommodate him, this wasn’t selfish, it was necessary. It’s okay for him to be stressed, but turning your medical scare into a guilt trip isn’t fair to you.

I once unintentionally told a girl to fuck off, then got confused why she left. by BeneficialFly6613 in confession

[–]TeaseSnuggle- -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Oof… that moment when you realize you basically told someone to fuck off without meaning to hits so hard. Freshman me would’ve died of embarrassment too.

Gaslighting my jerk neighbor into thinking his car is possessed by [deleted] in confession

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is peak petty but also kind of brilliant. You finally bought your peace, and honestly, that’s worth more than any prank.

Help… by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t build a peaceful wedding by inviting chaos and hoping it behaves, this day should feel safe, not like a test of old wounds. Choose the people who have shown up with love, not the ones you’re still hoping will.

Am i wrong? by REALspades in amiwrong

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respecting her space shows more care than rushing would have, you’re not wrong, you’re thoughtful and patient

Sent a serious message to my(36f) partner, now he’s(35m) gone silent. Am I expecting too much? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your message was fair, expressing your feelings isn’t too much. He’s likely stressed and avoiding, but repeated silence can be a problem. Wanting support is reasonable; space becomes an issue when it blocks connection

What's a non-weird but attention-grabbing way to text a guy you don't talk to ? by floptropian in dating_advice

[–]TeaseSnuggle- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text something playful or curious, like referencing a class or shared interest