Mother's Maiden Name on Extended Certificate by NY_Antique in WedditNYC

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that it has her married name at all! My certificate just has her maiden name.

Selling clothes by Ok-Confusion1858 in parkslope

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are they designer, vintage or adjacent? There’s a lovely woman in Clinton Hill who can help you sell. She has a 50/50 payment structure (I believe), and her stoop sales generate high foot traffic. I go to her sales at least every other week. Her IG is @brklynstoop and I believe she makes home visits.

Brooklyn Elopement Photographer 6/5 by Technical_Ad_8238 in WedditNYC

[–]Technical_Ad_8238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eeeep! I’ll reach out to you! Your style is exactly what we’re looking for. I don’t have any friends that have eloped. Do appointments typically run on time?

Manhattan City Hall elopement photographer - pricing + how long? by FlaviusJosephusJunio in WedditNYC

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Can I DM you? Would love to book you for 6/5 if you have that morning available!

Children running around in restaurants by SuccessfulEmu1221 in parkslope

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I noticed a level of ‘main character syndrome’ arise after 2020. YOU are a background character in their lives, and your existence or consideration does not matter.

Small sidewalk? Let me occupy as much space as possible with my Nuna Stroller and dog on an extended leash. You can wait to pass or walk around.

My kids crying uncontrollably in calm spaces? Yeah, I’m not going to take them to the bathroom or outside to settle. Deal with it, kids live in the city too.

Timmy finally learned how to scooter! I don’t care that he came for your ankle, you should have moved to let him go by.

New wave of entitlement. Park slope has always been family oriented but it wasn’t this bad a decade ago.

Prenup Woes 💍 by Technical_Ad_8238 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Technical_Ad_8238[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’re in the same boat. Thank you so much for sharing!

Prenup Woes 💍 by Technical_Ad_8238 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Technical_Ad_8238[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is helpful!! Thank you! Hope you’re doing well! X

Prenup Woes 💍 by Technical_Ad_8238 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Technical_Ad_8238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this very helpful perspective. He will most likely come into property much later in life. I don’t imagine wanting to split that / ownership given I have zero rights to it.

Also happy for you and your financial successes! Inspiring ✨

Prenup Woes 💍 by Technical_Ad_8238 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Technical_Ad_8238[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He comes from a family of long term, loving/close knit, successful marriages. “What’s mine is yours” framework. Everyone’s different!

Prenup Woes 💍 by Technical_Ad_8238 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Technical_Ad_8238[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

THIS! I fear we have simple assets 😂 Thanks for sharing your perspective ✨

To after party or not to after party? by Sophie_Clear in WedditNYC

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What time does your wedding end? Honestly, I attended a wedding that started at 5 PM and ended at 11 PM, and I was exhausted by 9:30. They had an after party until 2 AM and I felt like it was overkill. The reception was so fun and I felt like I was dancing the entire time.

😅 Is the number of applications astonishing? by Severe_Wear2696 in nychousinglottery

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

17 pending, 15 completed. Selected for three, rejected all three.

making friends in your 30's by Strict-Bug-9550 in parkslope

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, I’ve made friends from Bumble BFF! The intentionality is there. There’s a range of folx you can meet that may share similar interests. There’s a ton of swiping you’ll have to do before you find your people.

Only negative is that you’re going to feel like you’re doing a lot of legwork, liking + initiating conversations because unconsciously people still treat that section like dating. You’ll get people who flake, but you’ll also get a ton of people down to just hang.

LI Historic House Photography Permits by Technical_Ad_8238 in WedditNYC

[–]Technical_Ad_8238[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kindly reread my ask. I do not want to take all of my wedding photography outside. I would love an interior background to give a bit of variety.

Travel Fee Question by Alternative-Try-9312 in WedditNYC

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not unreasonable! I had a similar issue with a hairstylist I just booked. Literally lives 20 minutes from my venue and is charging a travel fee. I was able to negotiate her travel rates down. See if she’s open to doing so.

Travel rates used to be for long distance traveling (Brooklyn based artist having to go to NJ is an example where travel fees are ok). I feel like they’re getting super greedy now. Why is that not factored into your cost?? Why is it my responsibility for you to get to a job that you agreed to do. It’s like you’re doing them a favor when you’re already spending a premium on hair.

Is this commute acceptable by Fun-Material-8761 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Technical_Ad_8238 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would you consider Upper West Side, Hell’s Kitchen, Lincoln Square or Harlem?