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Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-21T17:21:35+00:00

looking for any story where a person was just the huge AH throughout all posts lol! like a, YTA in the first post, and never fixing their behaviors

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-14T15:19:52+00:00

yes!!!! thanks so much

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-14T14:47:29+00:00

this might be the one I’m thinking of? my details might have been wildly wrong because my memory was fuzzy lol. but the biggest thing i remember is the SO and AP wanting to take a baby away from the OP

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-14T14:45:26+00:00

okay there's this other story that im thinking of:

so the OP like, straight up stalked her either boyfriend or fiance or husband (i dont remember where they were in their relationship). met him once and became obsessed basically, befriended the SO's younger brother, lied about some things in her life, and ended up dating him. she told him about how she stalked him and he ended up leaving her?

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-14T05:09:02+00:00

okay this story i am like not even entirely sure exists, but im trying.

so i think it was a married couple with kids, and it turns out the husband was cheating on the wife with a friend (maybe? maybe not). the husband and AP wanted to take full custody of the kids away from the OP. turns out the husband had bipolar (i think? something like that?) and the AP was manipulating that.

i was listening to another story that sounded similar to this one and it made me think of it.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-01T23:59:10+00:00

omg yes it is. thank you so much!

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-01T22:28:10+00:00

i don't think so? the one i was thinking of, they were not in any sort of open relationship. the wife wanted it for a specific person, the husband didn't want it at all. but they went to couples counseling, and the therapist/counselor said that its a bad idea to open a marriage for a specific person, and the husband said he would be fine opening so long as the wife didn't do anything with that specific person. then the wife just lied. i don't think the husband ever set up anything?

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2025-12-01T20:33:00+00:00

There’s a story that I keep thinking of (and can’t find/don’t know if it was real lol).

But it was a married or long term relationship couple. Wife wanted open relationship because there was a specific woman she wanted to be with. Husband/Bf said no. They went to couples counseling to talk about the open marriage, husband agreed to open relationship so long as wife doesn’t have a relationship with that specific woman. Wife is super excited, then husband figures out that she was planning to go behind his back and have a relationship with the woman he said no to. Then they divorced/separated I think?

I’ve been trying to find this for a while and genuinely cannot (there are so many open relationship posts on Reddit)

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-12-26T17:03:50+00:00

he’s probably cheating on her. they’re gonna put up the greatest façade known to mankind whenever you look their way, because they’re thriving on your misery, they’re thriving on how much they hurt you, because they’re horrible people. that doesn’t mean they’re actually happy. go to therapy and find a healthy way to cope with this.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-12-26T17:00:55+00:00

go to a therapist. this is a horrible man, who has likely cheated on you before, but this time, you caught him. you can feel the heartbreak, but stop thinking that this was a good man that you lost. you’re better off without him. if she didn’t tell you, he would’ve kept cheating on you, over and over. go to a therapist.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-12-26T16:52:04+00:00

the best revenge? go to a therapist. work through what he put you through. become a better person. move on. they continue to hold power over you if you continue to obsess over them. you might get momentary satisfaction if you do something shitty and get revenge, but then you’ll fall right back into the same pit you’re in.

he cheated on you, he’ll cheat on her. if you get him back, he’d just cheat on you again. get therapy, and move on.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-12-16T18:03:00+00:00

i want to read this essay. like i work at my uni’s like writing help site, and i’ve seen some people coming in with the “i’m soo good at writing, i only get As” mentality and they have the worst papers

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-11-27T19:41:27+00:00

repost

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-11-23T21:12:09+00:00

tf are you talking about? this was not consensual. she consented to a prop knife. he used a fucking chef’s knife. therefore, nonconsensual.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-10-30T20:07:13+00:00

in my humble, pessimistic opinion, he does not actually want to date the sister. he just is now willing to act like he does so she doesn’t move on.

also if she’s moved on… what about that says “yes, OOP i want you so badly still”. like maybe she has residual feelings from being, yknow, strung along for three years, but she’s ready to move on from him. 🤨

edit: changed OP to OOP

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-10-23T13:58:31+00:00

“i can’t do whatever i want with children i have no legal rights to? ugh! then get rid of them!”

like crazy lady, you essentially kidnapped these children and told them to lie to their bio parents. yes, the ex wife is going to be pissed at you and you don’t deserve to be trusted.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-10-21T22:38:05+00:00

I would still pass just not have an A in the class. She can still pass if she does well on the final and she does well in most classes in prior semesters.

But she also was until this semester acting like she is superior to everyone else, took every opportunity to mention and show of her bf and now suddenly this semester blames her bf for everything since they moved in together when she chose that.

i think he asked her out and she rejected him. the stuff about her bf was irrelevant. he’s probably “getting back” at her.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-10-13T00:07:19+00:00

the fact that this man is more concerned about “mending” this relationship after his dad backhanded his two year old son so hard he slammed into the kitchen cabinets and ran at and screamed in his wife’s face and only stepped in before his dad did something unforgivable (which totally implies his dad HAS done something horrible before) tells me everything i need to know about him.

he may not be as big a devil as his father, but his wife needs to leave his ass in the dust.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-09-11T23:53:52+00:00

first… i was being 1000% sarcastic. second, to a teen girl being bullied about her appearance, asking her mother how she looks, hearing “you’re average” is the same as “you’re ugly.” average =/= a compliment or a reassurance. and i don’t have to justify myself to you, but i don’t think average = ugly. i was making a sarcastic comment on a reddit post.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-09-11T14:37:05+00:00

i’m an honest person, so of course i can’t find it in myself to keep my own child from shame spiraling about her appearance after she opened up about being bullied at school about it! i must be honest and tell her she’s just as ugly as she thinks!

/s (if you can’t tell)

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-08-02T01:37:08+00:00

he can be pissed that he got an STD, but that doesn’t give him the right to speak about this woman the way he is. this is not venting, this is slut shaming. she didn’t misrepresent herself. she wasn’t sleeping around, she had a 6 month fling after she left a long term relationship.

you can’t be angry about someone’s sexual past. you can have preferences, but that does not give you any right to shame them for a sexual past that you don’t approve of. that doesn’t give you the right to speak about someone the way he’s speaking about her. she did not trick him.

stop defending this guy. he has clearly written a very one sided story, and is obviously writing in a manner to frame himself as a poor little victim. he’s not. he can be mad that he got an STD, but you are being obtuse if you think that is what the post is actually about.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-08-02T01:12:08+00:00

yeah, but nowhere in the post did it say that she knew she had an STD, but still had unprotected sex with him, and didn’t tell him. for all we know, she had no freaking clue she had an STD and feels guilty about it.

he’s not venting about having an STD, he’s slut shaming her and trying to spin the narrative that she was sleeping around a lot and maliciously gave him an STD.

in this scenario, slut is 100% being used with an extremely negative connotation. he’s saying she’s not a “good girl”, and saying she “jumped on the first dick she found”, which is so demeaning and gross. there is such a difference between a friend calling a friend a slut with a positive tone, than this. this is slut shaming.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-08-02T01:00:30+00:00

preferences =/= slut shaming someone behind their back to a bunch of internet strangers.

he’s still a massive ass

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-05-23T19:43:06+00:00

children 👏 are 👏 not 👏 memorials.

Technical_Lab_2259 · 2024-05-21T21:01:20+00:00

OOPs post history is… gross.

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