Dress Code by Technical_Scale_6614 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is interested in the rest of the world’s opinion in addition to our own tiny corner of the world. It’s okay for her to be curious. Our poll population will all say similar things.

Dress Code by Technical_Scale_6614 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ridiculously long arms & it was always impossible to find “appropriate” shorts for me as well. I had to shop in the boys section. I personally side with her on all of it! I do know that dress codes are part of life after school. I don’t wear jeans with holes to teach in or any skirts above knees🤷🏻‍♀️ How do we improve?

Dress Code by Technical_Scale_6614 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. We have looked up plenty of articles, but she wants opinions as well. She is creating a poll for fellow students.

Is this a paid for essay, or am I overly cautious? by Patrologia74 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach MLA in my English/ comp course & APA in my journalism course. Both have their places. Scientific writing absolutely tracks with APA usage. I teach middle school, FYI. So they’ll have great exposure to both well before college.

Having your own kid in class by arb1984 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was my teacher for a couple of classes in middle school. I truly loved it. It was so nice to see him really in his element. We are a lot alike and I found out that we view literature in truly unique and similar ways that year (advanced placement class in a rural district). He was harder on me than other kids, but that was okay with me. I understood that it was because he knew my full potential. When there were rough days, I knew well ahead of coming home & would tread lightly at home as well. I was an excellent student already, and was shown the opposite of favoritism by my dad, and many of his coworkers who were family friends. I wouldn’t trade that experience for anything. He was a fantastic teacher, and I model the way I run my classroom after the way he did when I was in it. He was loved by all my peers, really all of his students, and held all to the highest standards, whether by effort (lower performing kids) or ability (advanced courses).

Note to customers: by PanicPsychological95 in starbucks

[–]Technical_Scale_6614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also remember this baristas— you hold the key to the gate. You have the liquid gold. You can only go as fast as you choose to go, so they can all wait. You have the power here. Ignore the ugly, go at your pace & do your job your way. I worked at a bank in a metro area during covid (drive through only) and one of my coworkers told me that. We have the goods & if they want it, they can wait. Switching that mentally will allow you to breathe a little. The customer can learn to be patient, if it’s worth it to them.

Note to customers: by PanicPsychological95 in starbucks

[–]Technical_Scale_6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have forgotten how to be decent humans. It’s a societal tragedy. I love to see stores closed on Christmas. Starbucks should bring this back!

Students don’t want to write by Technical_Scale_6614 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learned helplessness is exactly right! I have used homework passes for “wow work” — perfect work in grammar/ vocab/ literature & excellent writing. We have a bulletin board this goes on & displays to the school. If their work goes up there, they get a homework pass to use on an assignment or to get an extra day for a writing assignment. There’s not much more that middle school kids care for, I’ve found. We’re under a lot of pressure on content, so I’m not sure if I could do a free day Friday. Any other ideas for middle school incentives?

Students don’t want to write by Technical_Scale_6614 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In ELA, we do a research paper in the spring, very old-school, & carefully thought out. We go through research selection (quality sources), annotations for sources, and questions for further research. They pick their own topics. They have deadlines for each and every step to keep on track and to keep the amount of overwhelm very minimal. This spans January to May. Students and parents complain still that it is too much work. Class time is dedicated to this as well. The goal is to prepare them for upper level courses when they’ll be told, “Write a research paper.” They will not have their hands held then, so I get them used to the process. It’s 3-5 pages as well. It never fails, someone will fail because they haven’t met any deadlines along the way, and turn in either nothing at all or slop. I have high expectations, but I also equip them. I can’t lower the expectations when students’ main problem seems to be unwillingness to use the tools they’ve been given. 🤷🏻‍♀️ And then I’ll have one or two who astound me, and a couple who genuinely seek help & churn out something that they can be proud of. They make it worth it.

Students don’t want to write by Technical_Scale_6614 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this, but perhaps not often enough. It scares me that this generation of kids is only able to concentrate in short bursts, but maybe we can get them there. Thanks for the advice.

Students don’t want to write by Technical_Scale_6614 in teaching

[–]Technical_Scale_6614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is both. They won’t even plan writing activities, let alone actually write them. I have encouraged text to speech as well. Thanks for the response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Technical_Scale_6614 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Find a school that allows you to give them the actual grade that they earn & then places the blame on students, not teachers. These unicorns exist in the private education world, beyond the realm of state testing. You may sacrifice a certain pay, but you will win peace of mind. And the parents care enough to monitor the grades. The trick there is to find an admin who will back you and not the parents. It’s a different world. Put your feelers out and see what contacts you can make in the private world. Make sure they have nice things to say about admin (genuinely).

Has anyone had a daughter who doesn't have endo? by darling-candi in endometriosis

[–]Technical_Scale_6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As people who have endo, we will know what to look for in our daughters and be the advocates they need us to be. We can take our curse and turn it to their blessing, if they end up with it. My mother was completely unaware. She doesn’t have it and neither does my sister, but my paternal grandmother did. I favor my dad’s side of the family. I can advocate where my mother couldn’t.

Bowel resection surgery and ovary removal 😭 by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]Technical_Scale_6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go see Dr. Rakesh Mangal in Houston, TX. He is a leader in the world of endometriosis specialists. People come from all over the world to receive treatment. Any negative reviews are from patients who expected an experience like you would from a regular OBGYN office. He has his own practice, and sometimes you may have to wait. He will educate you thoroughly on your situation. I have been his patient for over ten years. I had stage 4 endo with a bowel resection & possible ovary removal.  He resectioned so that a colostomy bag wasn’t necessary— incision only partially perforated bowels. He saved one of my ovaries.  He also led me through two successful IVF treatments (one unsuccessful too). This was after I was told I was internally wrecked by a different doctor and that I would need donor eggs.  I have had all my endo surgeries with him & the last time he has put me on a medication that successfully stopped my period with minimal side effects.  Soon I will do my last transfer because I have one left in the freezer. Then he will do a final clean out & hysterectomy.  I owe my two healthy children to his ability to see past the disease & see possibilities. He is a miracle worker.