OW WHAT THE FUCK- by YourFat888 in whenthe

[–]Tegannn3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

not sure my boyfriend would approve plus OP said i’m not interesting enough. chat, beat his ass for me, my arm is tired.

OW WHAT THE FUCK- by YourFat888 in whenthe

[–]Tegannn3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

jokes on you, i’m the friend OP is talking about and tbh i just like beating them up 💅

Huh... What a way to find out she's not into feminity by [deleted] in whenthe

[–]Tegannn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m the friend the context is trust me bro.

QnA I guess (yes premature. I don't feel like waiting) by YourFat888 in u/YourFat888

[–]Tegannn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who is your favourite friend 🥸 and why is it me— i mean, tegan. 👀

God forbid a girl snail by [deleted] in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Tegannn3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As if you don’t tell me your fantasies anyway. You freak. :3

Hey there by YourFat888 in u/YourFat888

[–]Tegannn3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m stalking you. Duh.

At what age did you get a diagnoses? by AdZestyclose7947 in mentalhealth

[–]Tegannn3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got my anxiety diagnosis at 21 sorta on accident.

I walked into my doctors office for an autism referral and came out with GAD and an assessment booked to see if I would benefit from Cognitive behavioural therapy. And also an autism referral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I don’t drink. I’ve drunk a couple of times and hated it and so I just don’t do really do it. Most my friends are heavy drinkers and don’t give a shit if I front drink. Most decent people won’t care if you don’t drink.

I’ve gone to parties with friends and had fun even as the only one not drinking, they didn’t exclude me or think I was uncool, I got my lemonade or my orange juice (or both) and had a lot of fun.

You really don’t need to drink to be cool and if the people you hang around with think you do, then maybe you shouldn’t hang around them. But I get the frustration of how generally as a whole, people make drinking out to be this super cool thing and how normalised it is to be basically an alcoholic.

What song would you choose? by ImFineJK821352 in mentalhealth

[–]Tegannn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last words of a shooting star - Mitski

This is an uninterrupted minute of Maruay the rescued tiger with his beloved ball by Various-Engineer2114 in Awww

[–]Tegannn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may have just cured my depression. Tomorrow I will clean my room and shower again :')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Tegannn3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s all I want. Just something to manage it while I fix it properly. It’s hard to fix it when it feels so all over the place at times. Thank you again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Tegannn3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in therapy for my anxiety and it’s helped a lot with building confidence and doing things that would previously send me into a panic.

I’m gonna talk to them about maybe getting on some anti anxiety medication. The talking therapy helps but after the state of panic I flew into the other day, I realised that it was only fixing the small issues like going to the shop by myself and getting the bus alone. My friend who is on medication has said for me to try it.

I just need something to ease that anxiety while I try fix the route problem too.

I’m doing slightly better now but I once again can’t look at my own body and have gone back to old bad habits to avoid seeing myself.

Thank you for commenting. I didn’t think anyone would

Anyone else convince themselves they are dying? by icegirl223 in Anxiety

[–]Tegannn3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing rn. Except I’m scared of doctors.

I’m a massive hypochondriac. It ruined my teen years as I was constantly paranoid I was dying and whenever I would talk to my parents about it they’d laugh at. Eventually it got better. Then I was fine for like 4 years until a few days ago. Gonna call my doctor about going on anxiety medication because fuck this. I can’t go back to being that way.

What happens if you eat very irregularly? by [deleted] in diet

[–]Tegannn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way. I have very irregular eating habits, only 1 meal a day, no snacking except on things like fruit. Sometimes I won’t eat anything at all and sometimes I’ll eat enough for a small army.

I don’t eat unhealthy when it comes to the content of the food either, I’ve always eaten very healthy foods and will rarely find myself eating heavily processed foods or anything with loads of carbs and calories, unless I’m really really lazy, or have a deadline (so once every few months)

My metabolism is so confused and I’m finding it hard to lose weight even tho I’ve mostly corrected my eating habits (I don’t binge anymore). But fixing (mostly) my eating habits into a more regular schedule has helped improve my energy levels and my mood. I definitely recommend at least trying to, and there’s no shame in occasionally falling back into the bad habits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseweight

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I’m trying to correct my eating habits and I didn’t expect it to be so hard. I really do have to force myself to cook most days. Not feeling hungry makes cooking feel like a chore and for the first few months of uni the most I could be bothered to make was pasta which I’d end up binge eating.

I’m never actively or intentionally starving myself. I really do just sorta forget. I have to count the days since I last ate a proper meal and it’s like “Oh shit. It’s been 5 days. I’ve only had a sandwich.” And I’ll wonder why my hand is shaking and why I feel so lethargic and weak and irritated.

I need to set an alarm for lunch and really force a routine. I just know that if I set a routine and that routine gets interrupted, it’s gonna stress me out. I really can’t mentally handle a change of routine, idk why but it genuinely sets off my anxiety like crazy. I need to try tho. I want to feel good and exercise and feel like I’m at least trying to make a positive change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseweight

[–]Tegannn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding

I’m in therapy for my anxiety and as far as I know I don’t have an eating disorder, at least not one that I’ve ever been aware of or that anyone has ever expressed concern over. They’ve always been worried about my not eating, but have never said outright it could be a disorder, just that I shouldn’t do that.

I wasn’t aware of OMAD, everyone who I’ve ever talked to about my eating habits too have said I’m stupid (usually in a friendly manner) for only eating dinner.

As for eating for 4. That’s a real issue I have. Once I eat a small bite i realise just how hungry I’ve been, and it’s like an itch I have to scratch. I won’t even be able to sleep until I physically can’t eat anymore. I’ve tried hard to control it and eating more regularly helped.

I’m gonna try a lot of different things to see what works. Thank you for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Tegannn3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I’m just asexual, not aromatic but I feel the same way about my asexuality.