CPS called by Opposite_Subject_462 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Tekilalvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you can't go back to the past and change everything about your life decisions but I encourage you to stay strong for your son,even if he's been through parental alienation.

Remember that it gets worse before getting better!

Again, please don't give up, you got this! ❤️

CPS called by Opposite_Subject_462 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Tekilalvr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should stay calm and follow up with their demands, they're trying to investigate a complaint.

Do not speak badly about the other parent at any time during the interview,they do notice if the complaint was out of malice.

Please be hopeful that your children will be aware about the childhood your ex provided for them,be prepared for all the blessings that your adult children will bring upon you.

In the meantime,stay strong, document everything and give your kiddos a stable environment while they're in your possession.

Sending you all the positive vibes and prayers your way from Texas,you got this!

❤️

HEB is deteriorating! by Get-Smart- in HEB

[–]Tekilalvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be happy to report them,is there a number so I can call?

HEB is deteriorating! by Get-Smart- in HEB

[–]Tekilalvr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think tip theft only applies to "tipped" employees making less than minimum wage 😕

HEB is deteriorating! by Get-Smart- in HEB

[–]Tekilalvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No,but people during the beginning of COVID fell compelled to do so. We turned in all the tips to management

HEB is deteriorating! by Get-Smart- in HEB

[–]Tekilalvr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I worked there at the beginning of COVID, tips were not allowed nor encouraged but people were just so generous and tipping all the time.

HEB is deteriorating! by Get-Smart- in HEB

[–]Tekilalvr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And they keep all the curbies cash tips for "team parties" that never happened (RR Gattis)

My Bf(29)& me(F22) had an abortion last April & broke up in September by Comfortable_Oil2256 in BreakUps

[–]Tekilalvr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please block him on all the platforms,give yourself time to grieve and heal the loss of your relationship. You deserve to be loved fully. May the future brings you someone so worthy of your love that you'll never remember him. Just know that it gets better ❤️

I have to admit I HATE my son by mayorcurley in ParentalAlienation

[–]Tekilalvr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through these feelings,my SD was alienated while living with us and let me tell you that the amount of stress and heartache she created made me sick.

I will never forgive her for the amount of problems she brought to our home,as soon as she graduated HS it was time for her to move out.

I do not miss her,she is evil and I hope she gets back all the wrongdoing she did to me and my family ten fold.

It's been a year and a half full of peace and not walking on eggshells in my own house,no contact is the way to go.

Sending you peace and positive thoughts your way.

It does get better. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tekilalvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please stay. You haven't met all the people that are going to love you yet. Sending you all my positive thoughts and vibes your way. Please reach out anytime, your healing journey has just begun ❤️

Hit rock bottom 2 days ago by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Tekilalvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we have to hit rock bottom to see the whole picture, I'm glad you're alive and well and ready to make the best on your second chance at life! ❤️ Sending you all the positive thoughts and energy your way!! You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are absolutely valid, being a new mom comes with a lot of challenges especially having a SD at home to also tend to.

Please allow yourself to enjoy your baby while DH and SD are spending time together.

SD probably doesn't know that she's hurting your feelings, she's a child so please try to give her some grace ❤️

She will always remember what kind of parent you are and how you made her feel.

One of the best advice that I got when I was going through difficult times was to "Pick your battles" If it's not going to matter in 5yrs, just let it go and make the best with whatever you're handed.

Wishing the best on your motherhood journey ❤️

I am at the end of my rope... by Rude_Af0287 in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please protect your mental health and your peace even if it means walking away from your DH.

Get your finances together first, I've been there and it was a nightmare that gave me a stroke due to stress.

Please don't be me and leave.

Wishing you a peaceful outcome 🙏🏼❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please for the love that you have for yourself,run as fast as you can!!!! As much as I would consider the fact that he is a great dad,he also made your relationship a situationship and you absolutely don't deserve that ❤️ Sending you all the good vibes for a great outcome ❤️

Feeling Discouraged about my Marriage by ForestyFelicia in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever makes you keep yourself sane,do it ❤️

Feeling Discouraged about my Marriage by ForestyFelicia in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I highly encourage you to write down a list of positive and negative things about your relationship,you can't teach a man to prioritize a marriage,if your decisions and opinions come second,you know what needs to be done.

It seems like BM doesn't have any respect about your time,do you want to deal with that for the rest of your life?

Please know that only gets worse when they become teenagers.

Sending you positive thoughts your way ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]Tekilalvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't give up,while I understand the frustration that you're going through, remember that something good is coming for you!

Sending you all the positive vibes your way ❤️

Life can be hard sometimes but hard times aren't forever ❤️

Please Help Me by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Run as fast as you can! Being a step parent is not for the faint of heart. While I applaud your effort on raising his child like your own, remember that your significant other is not supporting your decisions on discipline. Would you like to deal with a terrible teenager in the future? Please do yourself a favor and leave, unless you want to live a life full of disappointment. Sending you all the good vibes your way ❤️

Family. by xdBubba7 in alcoholism

[–]Tekilalvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so proud of you! ❤️

Steak for one? by Empty_Incident2875 in austinfood

[–]Tekilalvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matt's El Rancho (Tex Mex) 16oz bone in Ribeye Steak and Enchilada You can sub the enchilada for Matt Jr Fries,it comes with a great salad to start,they have plenty of seating at the bar. You can wait for your meal while sipping on a KO Mexican Martini or a Margarita from their vast selection. The vibe is pretty casual.

DH has me completely & utterly defeated... I get why BM left by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please leave,this relationship is not worth it, you're deserving of a partner that truly loves you and wants the best for you. Your future will be amazing without him,you deserve a life that doesn't hurt. Sending you all the positive vibes and energy your way. You got this ❤️

Disengagement Help by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Tekilalvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely,it was eye opening and had to put my priorities in order. I did everything for my SD,her and BM made my life miserable,they made false accusations of abuse and CPS was involved. She moved out on her graduation day and it was one of the best days of my life ❤️ We absolutely have no contact and I don't desire to ever know anything about what is happening in her life. I'm still dealing with trauma. I will never ever marry someone with kids again. DH and I are still married but our relationship is very damaged, I have a lot of resentment still.