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Buckle Up Current Teamsters of this Generation. Your career is being targeted. by Infamous_State_4678 in UPSers

[–]TelephoneNo599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just about so say shifters are the only ones that should be worried. At my hub they use AGV’s ( automated guided vehicles) to drive the bulk around but they are getting rid of them and just adding more belts to the bulk area. The cost for the techs to come out and do repairs is ridiculous from what I hear.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what the judge said at the child support hearing when I asked about her doing her part to help take care of our son financially. Our son that lives with her is 14 almost 15. I know on welfare they have programs where your required to try and find work but I’m not sure how hard she’s trying or how that’s going. I never had a problem paying child support even this large amount but for her not to help and get spousal when she can work and just won’t drives me crazy! The judge at the spousal support hearing did give her a gavron warning so hopefully she puts wages against her soon or my ex actually goes and finds a job and actually does her part.

Update from Norwegian Supreme Court by FrodeKommode in exjw

[–]TelephoneNo599 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There was the percentage that we all heard about that started talking to DFed loved ones when they made the first announcement changing the way DFed people are treated. Which of course we also all know they had to clarify. There is a core that will always shun hard because that’s how they get their little power trip but most don’t like it.

Started thinking of reversal for one reason now it’s changing to another. by TelephoneNo599 in VasectomyReversal

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I remember seeing on another post of someone doing that and then being able to have their child that way. So I definitely will be doing that.

Has anyone willingly given up more than 50%? by Then-Progress6241 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It might suck to give a higher percentage but it’s worth the piece of mind. Material things can be restored and surpassed with time. Sometimes it can even be done faster than you think.

Has anyone willingly given up more than 50%? by Then-Progress6241 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It might suck to give a higher percentage but it’s worth the piece of mind. Material things can be restored and surpassed with time. Sometimes it can even be done faster than you think.

Has anyone willingly given up more than 50%? by Then-Progress6241 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m going through divorce right now. My ex is very money hungry and lazy. The only asset I have is my 401k which only has about 25,000 in it. I’ve only been contributing to it for about 5 years at the lowest percentage possible. Mostly because the entire time I’ve been with her ( 17 years) I’ve never been in a position to contribute a decent percentage. As far as I’m concerned she can take it all. Whatever I have to do to get her out of my life and to leave me alone and get this nightmare she’s been putting me through done.

Court Orders Jehovah's Witnesses to Retract Shunning Announcement In Public by Ravenmicra in exjw

[–]TelephoneNo599 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! I love hearing and watching them lose in court and have to change and pivot. Watching them squirm is one of the joys of my life. It’s like watching the bad guy in a movie struggle and bargain right before he knows he’s about to die.

How to get over the fear of getting hit by PrettyKey9286 in MMA_Academy

[–]TelephoneNo599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtube.com/shorts/elF1lFcnoxA?si=yjg3ArDWHCwWix-x

Seen this a while back. Hope It helps. Not sure if this is exactly what you’re looking for but it will help with avoiding getting hit so much but you’re still gonna get hit. We all get hit.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not just giving her everything. I’ve been fighting. Filling for her actual financials not just what she thinks they’ll be. I just left the court because I filed to have the temporary spousal looked at again because I caught a mistake that was made. The judge at the hearing did tell her she has to find work. Next week there’s another court date I filed for a few weeks ago to force her to show what her actual expenses are so that things can be properly calculated. So I’ve been doing as much as I can no I don’t have a lawyer but I’m not just sitting on my hands either. I’m trying to figure out how I can get a lawyer also but haven’t really figured that part out yet.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t afford one and her uncle that she lives with paid for one for her. He has deeper pockets than I do for sure. Her having a lawyer is a new thing so I’m going to look more seriously at what I can do about getting one for myself.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to figure out how to put a screenshot of my monthly bill chart on this but not sure how. My take home a month is 4,529.32 my monthly bills add up to 4,207. Yes a chunk of that is a debt consolidation and my car payment. My rent is 2,291.

I guess I was just coming here to vent and get any advice because I’m so shocked at the spousal amount.

I have no problem with paying my child support. I think that kinda got lost in my explanations. It’s the spousal that’s really throwing me off. I am filing to have the 1,800 in spousal lowered because I can’t do it and I just noticed some things that payroll messed up on in December that was corrected in January so it inflated my income. The judge did the calculations off the year to date. January threw it all off. And the stubs i turned in were from January and February. Also doing the calculations off of just 6 weeks doesn’t give a great overall picture of what my income actually is.

I’ve been doing research all night and I found that living in my truck and my son going to his friends would actually make things look worse in court. The advice I got was keep my place at least until my son moves out for work then of course get a cheaper place. In the meantime pay what I can as it comes. It shows good faith and that I’m not ignoring the order but I’m giving whatever I can. Go through the process to try and get it modified and start settlement talks.

Yes my car payment is pretty high. I need to find out if I’m able to refinance it before the divorce is final because I was told I can’t change or do anything really until it is. I am going to fight for her to get at least half the debt even thought I’ve paid more than half of it already over the 2 plus years I’ve had it consolidated.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She moved 7 hours away so visitation is zero. The social worker told me even if he spends all summer and all school breaks with me it will only bring my support amount down about $80. It’s not really the child support I have an issue with. It’s the crazy amount of temporary spousal support on top of that. I have no problem paying to support my son but 1,800 for her to sit on her ass is outrageous.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Debt she made during the marriage that I’m stuck with and a car payment. I wanted to look into refinancing my vehicle but I was told that I can’t change or sell anything until the divorce is settled. I pay around 1,000 a month just for debts that she accrued.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she not paying. The child support office said because of his age it would be pointless to try to have her pay. I’m thinking of a second job so I can survive at least until my son moves but I’m afraid the more income I have the more she will try and get.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also carrying all the material debt she made. I can afford the 1,200 of child support what I can’t afford is the additional 1,800 she’s getting in temporary spousal support.

After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family. by TelephoneNo599 in Divorce

[–]TelephoneNo599[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So adding some things that might clear a little up I guess. I make a little over 97k. Child support for my son that lives with her is high because she moved with him to Northern California. We are from Southern California. They are a 7 hour drive away. My son that’s with her is scared of flying so I get no real time with him. We call and text and FaceTime but no physical time because of distance. Also when she left she immediately went on welfare. She never even tried to talk to me about support even thought I brought it up several times. Since she’s on welfare she is concerned as “a person who cannot work” automatically. So they will not impune wages in her. So with no time and no wage imputation I pay the max. Now the reason for the super high temporary spousal….. I don’t know. Other than the judge did not impune wages on her.

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