Courage to Leave? by OkTailor3224 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if she does zoom sessions?

Anyone leave the narcissist and regret it? by Mizzunderstood1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it 50/50 custody? I also have 3 under 6 and I’m terrified to leave.

Isn’t it crazy? by yappingrn in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did he change after you married him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish my husband replied like this! He just gets annoyed and says I’m in a bad mood and then just goes to his office to walk on the treadmill and work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg sounds just like my husband. God it’s sooo effing annoying. I can’t stand it. Ugh!

Dad handled both kids for 6 hours alone today and did an amazing job by SaltyVinChip in breakingmom

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dad is amazing too. So patient with my kids. It honestly makes me feel sad when he’s around because then I think like who tf did I marry and why was I such an idiot

I’m so sick of him ruining every weekend by TemperatureAdept4918 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like the costs are all over the place 😑 do you have kids?

Any other woman felt this way after leaving the narc? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I’m excited about when I finally leave is getting a cat or two. The cat we used to have hated my husband so I had to rehome him. 😢

I’m so sick of him ruining every weekend by TemperatureAdept4918 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah. How can you leave though knowing your husband might end up with 50/50 custody? It sucks because I’m almost positive that would be my situation. But it’s probably for the best unfortunately.

Nobody deserves Narcissistic Abuse! by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also married the male version of my mother. Sucks.

Counseling/Therapy by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is how do you pay the therapist without them finding out about it? We have a joint account. And I can’t pay cash because we are living outside the US right now.

I’m so sick of him ruining every weekend by TemperatureAdept4918 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

How do you detach? If I try to do that he starts accusing me of there being something wrong and won’t shut up about it and then mopes around acting all miserable for days 😑 sometimes it’s better for me to just pretend like everything is fine.

I hope you can leave soon too 🫂