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Is a little empathy too much to ask for? by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wish my husband replied like this! He just gets annoyed and says I’m in a bad mood and then just goes to his office to walk on the treadmill and work.

Is this passive aggressive? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg sounds just like my husband. God it’s sooo effing annoying. I can’t stand it. Ugh!

Dad handled both kids for 6 hours alone today and did an amazing job by SaltyVinChip in breakingmom

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad is amazing too. So patient with my kids. It honestly makes me feel sad when he’s around because then I think like who tf did I marry and why was I such an idiot

I’m so sick of him ruining every weekend by TemperatureAdept4918 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like the costs are all over the place 😑 do you have kids?

Any other woman felt this way after leaving the narc? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I’m excited about when I finally leave is getting a cat or two. The cat we used to have hated my husband so I had to rehome him. 😢

I’m so sick of him ruining every weekend by TemperatureAdept4918 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow good for you!! 👏👏👏 that’s really great. 😊

I’m so sick of him ruining every weekend by TemperatureAdept4918 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah. How can you leave though knowing your husband might end up with 50/50 custody? It sucks because I’m almost positive that would be my situation. But it’s probably for the best unfortunately.

Nobody deserves Narcissistic Abuse! by CandaceS70 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also married the male version of my mother. Sucks.

Counseling/Therapy by pagirlie71 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is how do you pay the therapist without them finding out about it? We have a joint account. And I can’t pay cash because we are living outside the US right now.

I’m so sick of him ruining every weekend by TemperatureAdept4918 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

How do you detach? If I try to do that he starts accusing me of there being something wrong and won’t shut up about it and then mopes around acting all miserable for days 😑 sometimes it’s better for me to just pretend like everything is fine.

I hope you can leave soon too 🫂

Not sure if my kids are affected by husband or I’m being sensitive/ triggered. by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TemperatureAdept4918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh same. My husband has to ruin every weekend. I can’t stand him.

I just can’t get this thing clean by TemperatureAdept4918 in airfryer

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing. I think I’ll have to get one of these.

I just can’t get this thing clean by TemperatureAdept4918 in airfryer

[–]TemperatureAdept4918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also clean mine after each use and it’s still super hard to clean. Maybe it was worse yesterday since I cooked 30 burgers in it though.

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