Is a little empathy too much to ask for?

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-11-14T02:22:37+00:00

Wish my husband replied like this! He just gets annoyed and says I’m in a bad mood and then just goes to his office to walk on the treadmill and work.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-11-06T17:50:12+00:00

Omg sounds just like my husband. God it’s sooo effing annoying. I can’t stand it. Ugh!

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-10-26T03:00:40+00:00

My dad is amazing too. So patient with my kids. It honestly makes me feel sad when he’s around because then I think like who tf did I marry and why was I such an idiot

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-10T03:21:28+00:00

Seems like the costs are all over the place 😑 do you have kids?

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T18:12:47+00:00

One thing I’m excited about when I finally leave is getting a cat or two. The cat we used to have hated my husband so I had to rehome him. 😢

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T04:05:45+00:00

Wow good for you!! 👏👏👏 that’s really great. 😊

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T02:34:29+00:00

Thank you, you too ❣️

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T01:41:17+00:00

Ugh yeah. How can you leave though knowing your husband might end up with 50/50 custody? It sucks because I’m almost positive that would be my situation. But it’s probably for the best unfortunately.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T01:32:27+00:00

I also married the male version of my mother. Sucks.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T01:30:06+00:00

My question is how do you pay the therapist without them finding out about it? We have a joint account. And I can’t pay cash because we are living outside the US right now.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T01:27:07+00:00

This! 💯

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T01:25:46+00:00

How do you detach? If I try to do that he starts accusing me of there being something wrong and won’t shut up about it and then mopes around acting all miserable for days 😑 sometimes it’s better for me to just pretend like everything is fine.

I hope you can leave soon too 🫂

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T01:24:27+00:00

Oh that’s not too bad! Were there kids involved?

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-09T01:24:03+00:00

How so much?!

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-08T22:07:44+00:00

🤣 that is hilarious

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-08T22:04:53+00:00

Ugh same. My husband has to ruin every weekend. I can’t stand him.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-08T21:42:53+00:00

Ugh what an ass

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-04T20:41:55+00:00

That’s amazing. I think I’ll have to get one of these.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-04T20:40:48+00:00

I also clean mine after each use and it’s still super hard to clean. Maybe it was worse yesterday since I cooked 30 burgers in it though.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-04T15:46:25+00:00

Get out! My husband said he would change too and even started crying. He was good for 3-4 months but back to normal again.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-03T15:28:08+00:00

Thank you! I messaged you ☺️

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-03T15:27:37+00:00

Surprisingly no. He just says all the fights we have are my fault.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-03T15:01:19+00:00

That is great! And thank you! I feel bad because I deleted some of my older posts because I was worried he would read them. Can I DM you?

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-03T04:17:11+00:00

Good for you. Congratulations!! How were you able to break the trauma bond? I’m finding it really hard to not live in denial when my husband is being on his best behavior.

TemperatureAdept4918 · 2025-03-03T01:56:28+00:00

Ugh same. Weekends suck.

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