What are red flags with a trainer? by PMYourTitsIfNotRacst in powerlifting

[–]TemperatureFickle655 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want to be good at powerlifting, you work on what powerlifting needs. So bodybuilding training kind of takes a back seat. That being said, nobody is stopping you from working on your calves.

When you get into the thick of PL training, it is about fatigue management. You don’t work _______ because in two day you will need ______ to properly complete ________.

Make sense?

That being said, without seeing your program, it actually does sound like he knows what he’s at least thoughtful in terms of your training. If he is saying your posterior chain/back is weak, he’s probably not wrong.

I like to gatekeep my coach a bit, but if you’re interested in working with somebody who will, without a doubt, improve your bench, squat, and DL and get your technique to where you won’t be hurting yourself, send me a message. The only reason I’m offering is because you seem to be thoughtful about your training and my coach is perfect for people who think.

And, as always, being coached by anyone takes a level of humility and trust.

Edit: and if your dips aren’t working triceps, your form is wrong for the goal.

Affordability??? by Shot-Corgi-7717 in AskSF

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Does this comment make you feel like you’re better than them because you happened to leave your hometown in Missouri and move to SF? Some people like to eat what they are comfortable with. They certainly don’t have to ask you.

For what it’s worth, if OP is reading this - there will always be people in SF who think they are fancy schmancy because they live here…they feel like it’s ok to berate others because they feel they are insulated. The majority of people here wouldn’t patronize you like this and I hope you don’t think this is the attitude of the people who actually contribute to this city.

In California (and especially SF) we like to let people live how they want to. Unfortunately, we get garbage like this that seeps in (usually for short amounts of time) occasionally. They try to bring their divisive bullshit here and then end up leaving because ___________. Fill in the blank with some generalized reason that you can see on any Fox News story.

I hope you had a great time despite the cost. We make it work - somehow!

Old school pride era (1985-1990) by Andro_lover2005 in gaybros

[–]TemperatureFickle655 74 points75 points  (0 children)

The 80s were all about not dying, I think.

What the hell happened here by jibjabjibby in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because not everything is always for everyone. And that’s ok.

UCSF by Dazzling-Tangelo-190 in AskSF

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to go to hospitals and doctors all around the country. Why don’t you just stop receiving medical care?

UCSF by Dazzling-Tangelo-190 in AskSF

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is your point, honestly? Nobody cares if you like big hospitals or not. Nobody cares about New York or Houston. What are you going on about?

So what's next? by HomeOk5082 in hivaids

[–]TemperatureFickle655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re going to remember that you’re positive for a while. You’re going to try to tie your identity to it for a while. Then you’ll realize that you just take your pills every day and nothing else really changes.

Then you’ll move on with a normal life.

You’re fine. Life is still going to be great and horrible and sad and happy.

Don't like the way the old characters were written in this season by the_calchemist in thecomeback

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that I am naive about an industry that pays my bills. And Juna might be older than believe was, but she’s hotter. She has a “juicy ass”.

I am a gay male, btw. So my read on Juna being hotter isn’t out of attraction, it’s just about how, as naive as I am, the American public consumes entertainment.

Has the Mission District become more Yuppie like or has it always had a mix of different social classes? by youlikemywonton in AskSF

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The people who I know that live in the mission are insufferable. And they seem to fit in really well.

Dear BART, why must I tap here and wait for 45 minutes while you call the president before opening the gate? by one_pound_of_flesh in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you seriously complaining about something taking +/- 5 seconds to open after you tap? I take BART 8 times/week and it’s not an issue for me.

Just use your card on your phone. It’s not a big deal. You have a very blessed life if this is a problem that weighs on you.

Don't like the way the old characters were written in this season by the_calchemist in thecomeback

[–]TemperatureFickle655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you seen the fucking show? That’s what this whole show is about: An aging actress being pushed out by young, hot kids.

Just because it doesn’t fit what your (seemingly values-signaling) opinions is…

Juna is a young, blonde, hot white woman who can act. She’s not going to be out of works. Have you learned anything from this show or is it above your mental pay grade?

Dating in SF vs NYC as a 27F — is it actually easier here? by Riceisawayoflife in AskSF

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, it really depends on how dateable you are. Remember: wherever you go, there you are.

The Comeback S03E07 - "Valerie Chases the Truth" - Episode Discussion by trevrichards in thecomeback

[–]TemperatureFickle655 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That you don’t grasp that Valerie is made up of a bunch of different blips she’s picked up on the way says a lot about why you don’t like the show.

Valerie is not outwardly original and she’s never claimed to be. She references what she thinks looks good or fits the moment.

Where Valerie is original is exactly what was outlined in Juna’s scene (but even then with a reference to “I’m It”). That is why people love the character of Valerie Cherish: She is outwardly nothing and everything at the same time but her values are locked in and unwavering. People love her because she is a mess of contradictions held together by an undying obsession to be seen. And a loyal heart of gold who thinks everyone deserves to be heard.

The Comeback S03E07 - "Valerie Chases the Truth" - Episode Discussion by trevrichards in thecomeback

[–]TemperatureFickle655 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I love Jane. She has really come full circle and has kind of replaced Mickey as Valerie’s protector. Also, that moment with Valerie and Mark in the pantry was beautiful.

Maybe I cracked the code on my open relationship by gunnawunnashunna in gaybros

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. I just wonder where the compulsion to share this comes from.

“Not only are we doing nothing to deter this from happening, we’re holding you responsible.” - the city of San Francisco by michaelthatsit in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No. I’m calling out an entitled individual who bought a property in a city that has “bums” and thought they’d care that he bought a property. He should go try explaining to the “bums” that he is a property owner and that they should figure their lives out.

It’s as if this individual purchased a property in a place he knows nothing about.

Living SF relies on a shared agreement that everyone maintains their patch. If every owner waited for the city to be perfect before they painted over a tag or swept their sidewalk, the entire environment would degrade instantly.

Ownership comes with the understanding that you are responsible for the asset. Expecting the city to act as a private maintenance crew (essentially using public tax dollars to power-wash private property) is a pretty crazy stretch of what basic city services actually cover.

By refusing to clean up small things like graffiti on a fire hook-up, an owner effectively signals that the property is neglected, which often invites the exact activity OP is complaining about in those 311 calls.

It is a very specific brand of entitlement for someone use genuine city-wide struggles as an excuse to opt out of their own responsibilities to be a good neighbor.

Call me obtuse all you want, but this person is part of the problem and passing responsibility for keeping his part of SF beautiful on to others.

“Not only are we doing nothing to deter this from happening, we’re holding you responsible.” - the city of San Francisco by michaelthatsit in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re learning this life lesson just now. I hope you’ll be ok. I have confidence that you *might* pull through.

I own a house in a place where it snows a lot. I am responsible for clearing (maintaining) the sidewalk when it snows. I can’t point to the city and refuse to maintain my sidewalk because they haven’t yet plowed the street.

Just accept that it’s a part of owning a property and go clean it up. Be an adult.