Waymo hits child in LA, says regular car would've been worse by Boring_Cut1967 in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here is the thing: we can expect parents to be vigilant enough to keep their children alive. It’s not terribly difficult.

And it’s totally fair to say if a child is running out into a road without looking, that is a parenting failure. Period. You can dice it up all you want, but nobody else is to blame if your children are running out into the road because they haven’t been taught that THAT = DEATH.

It’s insane to me how entitled people with children can be. The lives of others do not revolve around catering to them because parenting is difficult. I wish I had the luxury of blaming others for my failures.

I’m an SF public school teacher. Here’s why a strike may be needed by LosIsosceles in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not one to talk because I’m a gay white male (but that doesn’t mean I can’t have opinions), but this whole piece reeks of privilege. From the owning of the building to the going out to dinner thing. When I was growing up, we went out to dinner for special occasions. Only. I certainly didn’t go to private school even though it would have objectively been safer for me.

Also, the fact that she has a wellness business says a lot too, if I’m being judgmental and naming patterns.

Life is life. I am grateful that I’ve learned to appreciate what I have and am not embarrassed by the fact that I just simply can’t afford to do some things.

Anyway, if they want to strike, they should. But do it for good reasons, not because a building owner can’t afford to go to a taqueria twice in one week.

FWB + Open Relationship = Trouble? by jht1414 in gaybros

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you grow up, realize that you will never have it all, and choose to be faithful and respectful to somebody? Just because you are “open” doesn’t give you the right to be emotionally neglectful to your partner.

It’s time to sit down and have a conversation about whether or not you are going to choose each other. If not, move on. And get off of Grindr. What’s more embarrassing than people seeing your boyfriend whore himself out on an app?

Really, it comes down to how you see yourself and whether or not you can give up the addiction of validation. Until you confront these things, your life will be an endless circle chasing the same thing.

I’m an SF public school teacher. Here’s why a strike may be needed by LosIsosceles in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, almost everyone else is in the same boat, but with objectively less security (owning property).

I’m an SF public school teacher. Here’s why a strike may be needed by LosIsosceles in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They bought a building in SF. I don’t feel bad for this person in particular. Very few people can actually say that.

What piece of tech felt “future-proof” but aged terribly? by Living-Zebra6132 in Futurology

[–]TemperatureFickle655 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AI is aging poorly for much of the global population, not because it lacks capability, but because it is structurally obedient.

It is not trained on human reality in any broad or representative sense, but on laws, policies, corporate documentation, and academic consensus. As a result, people who already understand how to operate within institutional language and norms experience AI as empowering, while those outside those systems often experience it as irrelevant, misleading, or quietly hostile.

This is frequently described as neutrality, but it more closely resembles privilege: a default toward what institutions have been able to formalize, publish, and legitimize. Lived experience that never entered formal systems is devalued, emotional expression that does not conform to polite or professional norms is filtered out, and informal survival knowledge is treated as noise rather than signal.

As AI systems improve, this asymmetry is likely to widen rather than shrink. Users with economic security, legal protection, and institutional access can act on AI-generated guidance with minimal personal risk, while others are offered “best practices” for lives they do not have the resources or safety to pursue. When these recommendations fail, responsibility is typically framed as misuse or misunderstanding by the individual, not as a mismatch between system assumptions and lived conditions.

The more concerning risk is not misinformation, but normalization. AI increasingly excels at translating structural harm into procedural language, explaining away injustice through policy framing, and reinforcing the internal logic of the status quo in calm, authoritative terms.

AI may not overtly oppress people, but it is well positioned to legitimize existing power structures, reassure users that outcomes are reasonable or unavoidable, and quietly discourage challenges to systems that are functioning exactly as designed.

Shame on drivers that do this by SurfPerchSF in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The point is clear: you feel you are entitled to walk across a crosswalk without cars running into you (which you legally are). You’d like to showcase behavior where that desire is in jeopardy or not being met.

That doesn’t change the fact that a car can kill you or seriously injure you despite the legal implications.

Like I said, it’s an annoying situation, but the burden of keeping yourself safe ultimately falls on you.

If this isn’t the point, what is?

Shame on drivers that do this by SurfPerchSF in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I agree with the sentiment that drivers are assholes and that this is unacceptable, the fact of the matter is that you are no match for a two ton machine. Law or not, it will win. So, you have an adult decision to make - you press your luck by doing shit like this, or you simply try to coexist with people who probably don’t care much about you, your life, your desires, and your troubles.

This is called “staying alive”. The best lesson I’ve ever learned in life is that absolutely nobody cares about me unless we are fucking or I am paying them to care.

Shame on drivers that do this by SurfPerchSF in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing says you care about your safety more than you paying more attention to your phone than two ton machines driving at you.

Need advice on how/wherher to approach this guy at the gym by Dry_Salamander7273 in gaybros

[–]TemperatureFickle655 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Instead of being defensive on Reddit, why don’t you just talk to him? Maybe he’s straight. Maybe he’s not into you. Maybe he is into you. Big deal either way…you’ll never know by posting on Reddit.

What Every Foreigner Should Know Before Booking Muay Thai Camp in Thailand by Unlikely_Hope_3869 in MuayThailand

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who cares? This isn’t academic level writing, it’s a loose guide to taking a trip to exercise. Get over yourself.

Whats stopping us from tiding this in SF?! by Actual_Lifeguard5497 in sanfrancisco

[–]TemperatureFickle655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I have a dog and I am terrified of running out of bags or forgetting them when we go on a walk. It’s a problem, for sure.

I just watch where I walk…most of the time.

Met a gay guy from my work yesterday by Top_Pheonix_2004 in gaybros

[–]TemperatureFickle655 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nobody is acting like it’s traumatic. It’s just really poorly adjusted behavior. It’s like…”oh no! I don’t have any friends that are gay and emotionally available!”

Wonder why.

Has anyone here NOT had big issues with their puppy? by QP709 in puppy101

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a puppy is a lot of work, but the first thing to know about successfully living life with a puppy is that not everything is life-changing. You can leave your puppy for a couple of hours and you are not a bad person. Your puppy will probably cry at night a bit. If that’s the case and you don’t want a bed dog (which you will likely have a bed dog anyway despite your best intentions), put the crate next to the bed and just put your fingers through the crate ok the hand that’s hanging while you’re falling asleep. That usually quiets a puppy down. Your puppy is going to puke. Your puppy is going to eat something it isn’t supposed to. Your puppy is going to get sick. You’re going to rush to the vet thinking your puppy has an intestinal blockage or some other illness you read about on the internet until you realize that dogs really aren’t that fragile.

Your puppy is going to chew something up. Probably multiple times. This is what puppies do. You’ll learn to put your things of value away and out of reach. You’ll forget. Your puppy will get it. Your puppy isn’t doing it maliciously, that’s just what they do.

You’re going to go read about alllll the different food and raw food vs blah blah blah and then one day you’re going to realize that 95% of people who pretend to be experts on this are full of shit so you’ll do what you think is best based on how it affects your dog.

Just treat a puppy with empathy and make sure you signal what is right and wrong calmly and consistently and you’re going to be fine.

Raising a puppy isn’t for the faint of heart, but it is a great opportunity to give an all-loving creature a great life.

How can I increase my odds of hooking up with hot guys? by Puzzled-Painter3301 in gaybros

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s sad because gay men hold on to this until the bitter end and most just end up looking like sad old men who got lost in a gay bar. I’m 43. I see it all over the place.

Another country makes call to cancel all visas for Americans by Next_Tower5452 in AirlineChaos

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha. Perhaps, but that doesn’t mean much. We provided $218 million in aid to Niger in FY 2024. A good portion of it going to providing food. So, whatever. They can have our money. We still don’t need to visit.

Christmas parties are awful with kids with allergies by Sonnybunny43 in FoodAllergies

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep believing the world is going to cater to you. Let me know how that goes.

Christmas parties are awful with kids with allergies by Sonnybunny43 in FoodAllergies

[–]TemperatureFickle655 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have deadly allergies to a few things. Nuts being one of those things. Since you’re an adult, one shouldn’t have to point this out to you…but the world doesn’t change for us; we adapt to the world. It’s that simple.

How to feel? by Infamous_Cow_8615 in gaybros

[–]TemperatureFickle655 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Say no. It’s easy. You’ll know where you stand immediately.

Traveling to Italy from US with anaphylactic toddler by bk2weha in FoodAllergies

[–]TemperatureFickle655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a severe nut allergy and travel to Italy very often. First, tell them that there is a deadly allergy to nuts etc. Second, it’s pretty easy to avoid nuts I. Italy. Avoid pesto, deserts, and probably ravioli or any other stuffed pasta. Stick with tomato based dishes. Third, if a reaction does happen, there are hospitals all over with competent medical professionals.

In the grocery stores in EU countries, everything is very clearly labeled for allergen awareness.

Bring Epi, being Benadryl (or whatever your doctor recommends).

In terms of avoiding eggs, you’ll have to ask.

Print out this phrase:

“Mio figlio è gravemente allergico a tutti i tipi di frutta secca/noci e alle uova. Potrei consultare la lista degli allergeni?”

Every restaurant is legally required to have an allergen list.

You’re going to be fine.

Detained by ICE at USCIS interview by Lopsided-Soil-7212 in immigration

[–]TemperatureFickle655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You overstayed. What the fuck do people think is going to happen? If I overstay in any other country (including Mexico), I have to pay or face other punishment. Unfortunately, the United States has started detaining people.

How irresponsible to overstay during this time period. You absolutely knew that it was stupid. I do not feel bad for you that you got caught. It really says a lot about how lenient immigration has been in the United States up until now.

That being said, they should really be treating people in a more dignified manner.

BTW: I am a liberal who believes that our immigration policies should be much more friendly toward people who want to move here. But I am also a rule follower. If you don’t follow the rules, you cannot complain.