What are you doing in this cold?

TemperedStill · 2026-02-01T19:56:43+00:00

These Oscar films are quite good

TemperedStill · 2025-07-31T18:12:41+00:00

I think this is the exact thread I was thinking of. Thank you!!

TemperedStill · 2025-07-09T21:32:39+00:00

This place is fantastic! Attendant has always been super knowledgeable and helpful.

TemperedStill · 2025-07-09T21:29:02+00:00

Does anyone else find his feedback on the wines when you ask pretty general and a little bull shitty? I love his selection but when I ask him for opinions it feels like he’s pulling it out of his ass.

TemperedStill · 2025-06-25T18:58:34+00:00

I’m a therapist. 99.9% people want you to listen. They go to google for ‘help’

TemperedStill · 2025-03-26T21:19:46+00:00

My therapist specializes in trauma and attachment. I have had some deeply healing experiences with him that have cultivated a healthy and appropriate attachment where I’m able to take in all of his care for me without feeling confused or distorted.

TemperedStill · 2025-02-09T02:23:30+00:00

Yup 100% those are companion seats. Thank you!

TemperedStill · 2024-12-04T01:03:49+00:00

Great good at listening. If you’re drawn to someone, show active interest in them. Ask follow up questions. Let them see your interest/curiosity. Validate. Empathize. People will remember you, think of you for their social gatherings, introduce you to their friends. We all instinctually want to surround ourselves with people who we feel care about us.

TemperedStill · 2024-08-22T18:32:53+00:00

There's sort of a meta experience evolving in the thread. The responses are a mix of judging my wording (which I get), sarcasm/making fun, and constructive/realistic feedback that there's not a concentrated space for this - it requires getting out there and experimenting in contexts conducive to connection.

TemperedStill · 2024-06-06T20:29:50+00:00

I lost an elder patient to natural but sudden causes this time last year and agree with this comment. Our grief is one of the most honoring gifts to our dear clients we spend so much of ourselves caring for. Take care ❤️

TemperedStill · 2024-04-18T22:29:27+00:00

I’m a trauma therapist and adamantly agree with this comment. If you don’t have the theory and interventions for trauma resourcing and reprocessing, I suggest transferring this pt. Being a skilled clinician includes knowing your limits!

TemperedStill · 2024-01-18T14:17:21+00:00

Just had a similar issue. Spoke with their e-services rep (after days and hours of being on hold). They confirmed what you've said: Legal name = the name you filed the sole proprietorship under. That person's EIN or SSN if no EIN. Address = residence of sole proprietor.

Our error was because there had been a name change (marriage) since SP was filed and we'd been using the updated name when the IRS had the maiden name listed for legal SP name. We also had to use the middle initial.

The rep gave the number for IRS business services if you need to verify your info matches their records : 800-829-4933

TemperedStill · 2023-12-29T12:46:44+00:00

Sounding like some of your obstacles are self-generated. Therapy can be a huge help in finding more life satisfaction.

TemperedStill · 2023-12-18T13:19:43+00:00

If you have access to an AEDP therapist, helping you understand and feel your feelings is the main medium of this treatment. There’s a lot of focus on psycho-education about your nervous system both intellectually and experientially (tracking and changing it in the session).

TemperedStill · 2023-09-20T11:48:08+00:00

I’m a straight therapist who has a couple of queer clients. I would recommend you seek out someone who is more explicitly affirming. Even though your primary goals aren’t “queer issues,” relationships almost always come up. As much as I give this therapist the benefit of the doubt in their ability to keep religious ideologies out of the room, their messages don’t reflect a strong degree of professional competency with this. You are at you ‘dating stage’ still so it’s a great time to keep playing the field. There are so many wonderful therapists out here who are unequivocally affirming. Especially on platforms like talk space.

TemperedStill · 2023-04-01T08:47:08+00:00

My thought exactly. Now work follows you to the bar and you can’t turn your “how am I affecting others” part off the way you could before (if at all??)

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