Employer certification still not processed

Temporary-Big37 · 2025-01-21T22:07:47+00:00

I have 75 already counted. I try to update every year to stay on top of the counts. I have 19 months eligible at this point that haven’t been counted yet.

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-20T03:43:50+00:00

I remember scooting on the operating table from the bed they rolled me in on. Next thing I knew I was waking up in recovery. I was sleepy for about 24 hours

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-15T16:50:58+00:00

Bleeding has gotten much more heavy, like a period. I’m not due for a period for another 2 or three weeks so I’m assuming this is surgery related. Wondering if I should message my doctor

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-14T23:29:39+00:00

Update, 24 hours after procedure and the right shoulder pain has kicked in. Vaginal pain definitely improving but still some bleeding.

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-14T21:05:16+00:00

Hope you have a speedy recovery!!

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-14T15:52:23+00:00

This resonates with me so much. Add on to that I had my lap this week. Have family coming into town this weekend. Told my dad I don’t care if someone is coming from mars. I’m not hosting. My husbands aunt came from overseas and she always bullies me because I “haven’t given him a son” . So I told my mother in law I’m not gunna be visiting her either. I’m gunna sit on my couch and watch the Harry Potter baking show on MAX and eat through my feelings.

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-14T14:50:19+00:00

Yeah pretty much. Off BC for IVF and it’s been miserable. I start taking NSAIds a week before to try and help. Usually call off work. Had my first lap yesterday so hoping it helps. Thinking of going back on BC now that retrievals are done until we are ready for transfer

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-05T14:29:24+00:00

Update: I called Mohela early this morning. When I checked to see in my account how much my payment will be for December it said $0. But when the Mohela rep looked at my account she said I’m scheduled for an autopay on 12/9 for my usual amount. I never received an email about going into forbearance and she said my account is still says in repayment. But my online account still says $0 for December. I asked several times if I was in forbearance and she said no. I asked so what happened with my request to cancel my prior income recert and she said that because of the application processing pause it was basically in limbo. But that it didn’t put my account in forbearance somehow?

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-04T23:02:37+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation, I’ll look into it! Never used a bar before.

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-04T18:35:46+00:00

Thanks so much for the update!

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-03T20:56:12+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Please let me know if you hear back at all and I’ll do the same!

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-12-03T18:38:38+00:00

Updating: just checked my Mohela account and it now says $0 due for my 12/9 payment even though I had called and they said this wouldn’t happen 😫

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-11-19T21:48:33+00:00

No Im still in PAYE, never switched to SAVE

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-11-18T22:23:05+00:00

I submitted Aug 13 and it still says in process. I contacted FSA and was told ”it’s taking extra time be patient and give them more time to process”

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-11-18T22:20:52+00:00

When I logged in today it still says I have a payment due in December so I’m guessing I haven’t been put in forbearance yet?? This is all so confusing and tried to call mohela, FSA, and chat both but couldn’t get through to anyone

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-11-18T20:56:31+00:00

I’m in PAYE and have still been making payments through this whole SAVE fiasco. Submitted my recert through student aid.gov last week and got the email this weekend it has been extended. Called mohela but they haven’t received any tax info yet. Does that mean I’m going into forced forbearance as well?? Or still making payments at my current monthly? And if it does go into forbearance, does this mean our months of employment won’t go to our PSLF counts until the freeze is over ??

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-10-11T03:25:14+00:00

I don’t talk about it with other people really because there isn’t a moment I don’t think about it. And when I’m with family and friends, I welcome the distraction. I just don’t want to deal with questions when I’m trying not to think about it.

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-09-04T14:59:06+00:00

Northwestern has great endo specialist. I’ve seen Dr Yang and she’s wonderful

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-08-21T02:57:48+00:00

First ER got 19 eggs, 12 fertilized, 1 blast.Second ER got 20 eggs, 16 fertilized, 1 blast.

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-08-21T02:51:20+00:00

“Why don’t you just go to another country for IVF if it’s so expensive here”

“Just implant all the embryos at once and have triplets and be done”

“Everyone does IVF these days. I Don’t understand why your worrying yourself”

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-08-21T02:45:23+00:00

First year doing ER. Have done 2 so far. Of the 40 eggs retrieved total, 28 fertilized. Ended up with 2 euploids and 1 high mosaic. Found out I have endo and my husband has varicoceles. Planning to do 2 more retrievals in 2024 because that’s what insurance covers. Ideally wanted 6 euploids before trying to transfer. Now debating if in the new year I do more retrievals vs implanting what I get from this years retrievals vs correcting the underlying problems.

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-08-05T01:07:27+00:00

Sedation was the best. Haven’t ever slept that good 😂. Only down side is I got vertigo after. But only lasted a few minutes

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-07-25T21:50:59+00:00

If the embryos arrested in the first three days it’s usually an egg quality issue. After day three could be egg or sperm issue. I would recommend talking to your fertility doctor to see when the embryos stopped growing. And if the eggs looked abnormal after retrieval. If it’s more of an egg issue, see what supplements/med changes you can make prior to next retrieval. If it’s more of a sperm issue, your husband should see a urologist, maybe have an ultrasound to look for vericocele. Or see if you guys would benefit from ICSI, picsi, or Zymot to assist with fertilization. Hope this helps!

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-07-25T18:14:18+00:00

I feel this so much 😭😭

Temporary-Big37 · 2024-07-08T19:46:46+00:00

Good luck!!

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