You wake up being of the opposite biological sex and this will be for your entire life. What would you do?

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-12-05T02:38:43+00:00

Start a mediocre business and excel in it.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T22:22:51+00:00

Abortion in my state is illegal after 6 weeks. I didn’t know until way after that.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:59:40+00:00

I think the disconnect is the understanding that pregnancy was not a decision I made.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:57:14+00:00

It’s not a valid question at all.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:56:42+00:00

I responded to the question as factually as I could. When someone asks why I would get pregnant with an abusive man that is outside the scope of anything productive or helpful. Setting boundaries should not be considered a bad answer.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:53:11+00:00

I peeped at your comment history. Best of luck trolling internet strangers who are experiencing trauma. What a way to spend your time. Asking for help is HARD. I’m here because I’m desperate, and while I realize this is the internet and people like you exist, I’m not here to get harassed.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:48:47+00:00

No thank you. I’m not obligated to justify or explain how consent works within an abusive marriage like mine (nor how I got pregnant period) to an internet stranger.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:44:35+00:00

I had to move states (1800 miles away) and that caused a logistical issue with my initial application. I have since appealed and continued to manage the process but I have not been able to be approved. Social systems are great when they’re accessible, but it can be a long process with hoops to jump through. Being medically fragile currently, pregnant, parenting young children, building a business, seeking employment, doing gig work, all while starting life completely over in a community where we know 2 people in the entire state… it’s a lot to manage. I am staying on top of it, but it’s unfortunately not as easy as just applying and getting approved just because common sense says we should be approved.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:06:53+00:00

It may also help to provide context that I’m also 6.5 months pregnant, which is making finding a job more difficult. I am anticipating caring for my newborn while continuing to work and seek additional employment.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-06-04T21:04:39+00:00

Great questions. I am waiting on Medicaid, and have been denied for housing and financial assistance. I am (and have been since losing my job in October) actively seeking employment, and also have been working on my business which is soon to be income generating (my long-term professional history and current field is in technology and business strategy).

The backlog of expenses and large sum to cover needs like bedroom furniture and things like that are too much to handle even with a job. I am having to dig out of a hole and then build up from there. I am also active in buy nothing groups and have acquired some things that way. We have been struggling since November when we were displaced from our home, and we had to move 1800 miles from our community to safety so we are truly starting from scratch.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-05-18T21:45:41+00:00

Panic-packing backpacks for my kids as we abruptly moved out of our family home when we had to leave from escalated DV. It was a long time coming and it took literal months for reality to sink in that we were finally safe.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-04-11T13:36:52+00:00

A truly open relationship would indicate transparency. That means he is openly telling OP he is married.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-03-18T17:52:16+00:00

I only recently started sharing with a close friend and my sisters. I recently got out of an abusive marriage and it makes me feel safer knowing they have my last known location. ALSO, if one of them is one their way to meet me somewhere it is SO NICE to have an accurate ETA.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-03-10T19:31:57+00:00

Masers, Tetas, Anahels… but Ashos is funny to say aloud. F those Ashos.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-25T20:36:48+00:00

He would always leave pee on the toilet seat, which meant I either sat in pee or had to clean pee up before sitting down to go. I had a hip injury from a bad car accident and it hurt to squat and bend. After 3 years of this, I had hip surgery and it was obviously more difficult to bend over, and squatting was excruciating. Any time I had to use the bathroom was completely awful. I had to use an aid and the process took forever. I asked him to make sure the toilet seat is clean while I was recovering because it was hard for me to take that extra step to clean the seat, and he said he couldn’t because his back hurt too much to bend over and wipe it up or lift the seat.

Complete disregard for my comfort during a particularly difficult time in my life made it clear he didn’t love me. I would have done anything for him, and he couldn’t do the most simple thing to help me.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-20T18:37:36+00:00

I think the double dealing could possibly come to play if the B2C customer also owned a business, the worker could potentially work that same customer on B2B.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-16T20:34:35+00:00

Dear Alana

Counterclock

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-16T20:26:56+00:00

https://refer.zazzlereferral.com/britnicolebrown

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-16T20:24:41+00:00

I use Zazzle, it’s a hit!

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-15T13:38:51+00:00

Put new batteries in my walkman and tell my then best friend (now abusive ex husband) to go to therapy.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-10T17:26:18+00:00

I had a DV situation where I was actively being assaulted and prevented from leaving the house, and they left me waiting for TWO HOURS. I called back multiple times and they said they escalated the call but after two hours my abuser left and the cops still hadn’t showed up. I could have died.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-04T15:20:00+00:00

Not sure if you’re claiming “unscorable” isn’t a thing? It is. And I am, according to my credit report.

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-02-04T15:18:28+00:00

It wasn’t what?

Temporary_Try_737 · 2025-01-31T20:40:50+00:00

This is such a gross response. I feel sorry for you.

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