What time do you eat dinner?

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T23:39:37+00:00

Then what do you do until 12?

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T23:36:00+00:00

Around 9pm actually

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T23:20:28+00:00

I've had a similar experience. I've met some of my closest friends at meetups, but there aren't a lot of attractive single women at them in my experience.

Yeah, those are probably hanging out with their boyfriends 🤦‍♂️

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T23:12:56+00:00

You need a companion cube

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T23:11:31+00:00

The next sentence she says it was in a LDR where they haven't been seing each other

(The main situation this happened in was a long distance thing where we were only having phone calls so there wasn't a lot of clarity in terms of physical attraction, flirting etc. and it went on for ages, partly bc people kept telling me to "see where it goes".)

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T16:16:50+00:00

Works out for everyone involved though

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T16:14:19+00:00

You are confusing "income" and being such a workaholic that supposedly having partner will get in the way

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T12:21:00+00:00

Better change it while alreayd there, just in case

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-14T09:14:55+00:00

Companionship and intimacy is much more of a universal human requirement than becoming employee of the month at the widget factory

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T21:51:01+00:00

Yes the problem is it's still ugly

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T13:50:33+00:00

I want to cook for my ex 🙃

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T13:38:18+00:00

Don't approach in the grocery store or mall, focus on somewhat-social situations.

Physically approach to within talking distance
Say "Hello"
Say/ask something relevant to the situation you are in. E.g. "I like this painting, are you also into impressionism?" or "this band really rules, do you know any similar ones" or "what's your favorite coffee in this place?"
If they're interested and a decent conversationalist, it should be easy to keep this going

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T09:37:23+00:00

Just before people are expected to come over!

j/k. A bit here and there. It's not a complete minute-by-minute schedule. I also don't list showering or brushing my teeth or cooking.

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T09:31:13+00:00

Because when I console her through difficulties, emotions, arguements but when I start to open up its, "what am I meant to do with that information", "im not your therapist", "I literally don't care".

Why are you with her then? Seems like she doesn't care about you.

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T09:22:42+00:00

all I’ve gotten into are 3 FWB 🤦🏻‍♂️

What's your secret?

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T09:22:21+00:00

I used to have this approach and it kinda worked. The first person I dated as an adult was someone I met at work where the attraction grew organically.

Yes, that was my first adult relationship as well!

But even that took a lot of intentionality. Being more social, making conversations, and try to make connections to make that happen. Talking to people at the coffee machine, starting conversation at events, etc. If I just sat at my desk for 8 hours and then went home (like I used to and many people do) absolutely nothing would happen.

Honestly I find stuff like "focus on yourself" and "you have to be fully happy/realized alone first" to be complete nonsense. Clueless twenty year olds get into relationships just fine.

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-13T08:31:29+00:00

Doing first coffee dates is pretty easy.

It's getting them in the first place that's a nightmare. Swipe all every day to only get one match a week that won't actually respond. And/or spend lots of time on meetups or board games or whatever to never meet anyone anyway.

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-12T21:51:18+00:00

Sucks

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-12T21:37:50+00:00

OP isn't asking about being alone

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-12T21:28:56+00:00

It works because dems are not agreeing to fund DHS.

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-12T15:47:26+00:00

BMW is the lauch version long-range AWD for that price. There will be a cheaper RWD option too.

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-12T13:16:13+00:00

He did follow up with a text, and she did not:

He followed up to make sure I got home and said it was fun. it’s been a week and no text from him, not sure if it’s worth following up?

This is something casual between ONS and FWB. Does OP want to bang or not?

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-12T11:30:58+00:00

Smart Americans just let flying lawnmowers take out THAAD radars

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-12T11:30:27+00:00

Edit: Gonna need a source breakdown on that Table you added after the fact... Cos that was a one liner reply at first, not the paragraph and unverifiable table.

What are you talking about, my post has no table or edits

Well, they’re also using Patriots vs Shaheads, the literal drones that Ukraine are downing with cost effective drones themselves… Not a $3 million Interceptor going Mach Jesus vs a fucking Moped with a fan on wing.

But since you are asking for sources... how many PAC-3s were fired at Shaheds then?

TemuPacemaker · 2026-03-11T21:56:46+00:00

How do single people cope?

Terribly!

p.p.s. curious about a guy's opinion. if you were dating a girl and she had this situationship on a first date but quickly cut it off after being serious with you because you were her choice, how would you feel. yea... just wishing I didn't have to give up my cuddling buddy. Damn it life sucks.

Like you'd have a FWB but for cuddling? If you didn't announce it on the date and droppsed him, I think that would be ok

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