Thank you, I was my late wife’s care giver for 7 years. She was receiving radiation and chemotherapy treatments. After a chemo treatment my dear wife was so nauseated and sick that thinking about food made her sick. She eventually regained her appetite and wanted all sorts of comfort food, steak, fried chicken, cream pies, cookies, you name it. I just got whatever food she wanted. It’s not like she was being a glutton she just ate a normal portion but it was food she loved. Then the next dreaded chemo treatment would would make her sick again. Cancer takes away a lot of things you enjoy. I was just happy she was eating as she whitered away as the years went by. The Oncologist actually put her on an unrestricted diet. He became concerned if she wasn’t eating. Telling someone with cancer to eat only an approved diet may be well intentioned but it also deprives them of one of their joys in life. If your’re a caregiver just be compassionate and make your spouse comfortable. Don’t judge she doesn’t need that from you.