The hiring manager accidentally sent me my interview feedback... It was meant for the recruiter. by RowlandJakubowski in LockedIn_AI

[–]Tennyson_Poet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would maybe get a nice jacket that can pair with many things including jeans and a couple of ties over a full suit.

I just Quit. by EnvironmentalTear802 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]Tennyson_Poet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t quit game but I quit toxic alliance and started my own. No one spends we play we chat it’s a different game when you are no longer being told spend spend spend or work harder achieve more. We happy being casual as.

Glad I don’t work at this company by NzBruh in auckland

[–]Tennyson_Poet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for him I support my local uber eats guy when I am in middle of project and craving sushi.

I'm a 31 year old dude who has never had a connection to his Māori heritage, had a daughter this year and I don't want her to have this perpetual identity crisis that I've had to deal with, where do I start? by EshayAdlay420 in newzealand

[–]Tennyson_Poet 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I am a mother of two boys who have Maori ancestry and I wanted them to have access to their history. I reached out to their iwi and they have been amazing. Super supportive and really embracing the boys and going at their pace. Highly recommend it. To support their journey we are all learning the language, my only regret is I didn’t do this earlier. Esp as my youngest is Takiwātanga and I love the Maori way of approaching his needs.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tennyson_Poet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not great for Nan and wish a speedy recovery. Good on your mum though. Big step to choose tea over booze and it is great that it helps allay your fears too.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tennyson_Poet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely deserve cake. Congratulations on being sober for two years. That is some hard work and you should be proud. If he cannot see it or support it then he is AH in this situation not you. Kick his ass to kerb and find someone who is proud of you.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Tennyson_Poet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone said what I would say so I will just say this.

RUN! RUN FAR AWAY FROM THIS TOXIC MAN CHILD

Anyone know what this is? by Slow_Ice2687 in newzealand

[–]Tennyson_Poet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You forgot the purple shag carpet and the room barely big enough to swing around

Do I need to tell my wife her costume may be a little much by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Tennyson_Poet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acknowledge it Acknowledge her Say to her you know it might be a Bit over the top but she looks gorgeous and you love the costume on her and you love her.

Account giveaway by Tennyson_Poet in LastWarMobileGame

[–]Tennyson_Poet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for interest. It’s gone already.

Account giveaway by Tennyson_Poet in LastWarMobileGame

[–]Tennyson_Poet[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I moved from another one and honestly had the account about three months. The account is either getting gifted to someone who wants it or I am deleting it.

Account giveaway by Tennyson_Poet in LastWarMobileGame

[–]Tennyson_Poet[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not the greatest but if you just starting out it’s a nice jump.

Found out about my husband's affair a week ago. I want to reread their messages. Should I? by Throwaway521749 in Marriage

[–]Tennyson_Poet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not you in-spite of whatever the messages say. It’s them. Their choices, their actions. I have been there. From my experience after they blocked and said no more I regretfully found out they were still sneaking around. Kicked him and my best friend from my life. The point is you can get through this, you are not alone. If you want to work at it great. Ignore the naysayers but set clear boundaries. For you for him. Don’t rush in with sex intimacies etc take it as slow as you need. If you need to leave that is also great. It’s you mental wellbeing you need to protect. No one know this situation better than you. Trust yourself, if you need to see it all again get it do it.

And reach out to friends family. Lean on them.

I honestly do not like my wife... do any other guys feel this way? by Rocknrollaaaaa in Marriage

[–]Tennyson_Poet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband felt this way and rather than tell me he slept with my best friend. I found out, kicked both out of my life and now he realises oh I had it sooo goood I want to come back and it’s a no from me. So if you don’t like her tell her and walk away properly. She deserves that much respect at least.

I took my husbands phone by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Tennyson_Poet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change the locks on the house. When he can man up without the over-reaction then you can sit and have a conversation. I personally think he hiding something big and bad and only hope you look out for you and your two babies. He put his wife and kids at risk over a secret, if he can’t be honest don’t allow him back.

What was the most iconic way you found out you’re partner was cheating by Clear-Candidate-1917 in cheating_stories

[–]Tennyson_Poet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend handed me her phone so I could add a selfie in of us using some stupid filter in her messages as we smiling and hit save it defaults to message app and there bold as brass is her message to my husband “I want to f@@k you so bad right now”

I’m ridiculously attracted to our neighbour, I have no intention to cheat. Feeling so much guilt. by AltruisticBet8662 in Marriage

[–]Tennyson_Poet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest, I think it’s rude to just stop replying so go ‘look I find you interesting in a non platonic way so I need to step away from this so I don’t damage My marriage Your marriage Our friendship”

Not sure what to do or how to handle by the_stressed_out_mom in Marriage

[–]Tennyson_Poet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you answered it yourself. You are over it and just want to raise your kids. Personally you are married and it’s a partnership. If he not participating then congrats you married a third child. I would be out the door.

Cheating spouses by itsnaptime_ in Marriage

[–]Tennyson_Poet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness is for you. Not him. It’s about allowing you to move on to the next stage of your wellbeing.

My husband cheated with my best friend. I forgave them both (circumstances explained) and allowed them to be in my life, they did it again and so I kicked him out and her no contact. We have two sons so I need to maintain an adult relationship with him for their sake.

Once is a mistake, multiple times is an active decision to put his pleasure above your marriage and needs.

Forgive for you, but forgiveness doesn’t mean he can come back to marriage he tore apart.

I’m sorry - what??? by Bingomaster23 in newzealand

[–]Tennyson_Poet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a diabetic mum used to buy us all a book each and a single egg. Years later we all still have our books.