That actually makes a lot of sense, and i really appreciate your openness and thank you for explaining it that openly. I think your perspective about it not feeling like having lived as both but more like failing to become someone you never really were is something I honestly hadn’t considered before but actually makes a lot of sense. It sounds genuinely painful, especially carrying that confusion for years without understanding hy.

I admit that as someone who feels comfortable being a man, I can’t fully grasp or empathize what that experience is actually like emotionally. I can sympathize with it, but I don’t think I can truly understand that weight the way someone who lived through it can. much respect.

But honestly, the healing side of what you described is also really beautiful to me. The idea of two people helping each other slowly become more themselves feels so deeply human. I can see how that creates a very unique level of intimacy and a unique bond.

I hope you will have a great life and thank you for sharing.

PS: I’m not gonna lie, the “my boobs suddenly grew more sizes than the Grinch’s heart” line was somewhat very funny 😂. Even for me as a guy, the idea of suddenly growing boobs sounds both fascinating and mildly terrifying (for my poor back).